James Kimmel: The Science of Revenge — How Our Brains Get Addicted to Retaliation

S​​uperLife Podcast: Turning Pain into Purpose with Jeff Turner In this powerful episode of the SuperLife podcast, Darin sits down with Jeff Turner—a poet, musician, and freestyle artist who transformed a childhood marked by pain, dysfunction, and foster care into a life of profound purpose and connection. Jeff’s story is a raw, soul-shaking journey through trauma, resilience, and the healing power of music. From losing his childhood family to battling on street corners, to watching a friend die in front of him, Jeff’s path is a masterclass in transmutation—turning pain into fuel, and heartbreak into community. Together, Darin and Jeff unpack the duality of life, the freedom of freestyle, and how our deepest wounds can lead us to our highest purpose.     What You’ll Learn (Timestamps) 00:00 – The power of momentum and the illusion of progress 00:26 – Breaking free from the monkey mind and the tyrannical ego 01:39 – Jeff’s childhood: foster care, generational dysfunction, and family collapse 05:15 – How poetry became Jeff’s first outlet for pain 09:00 – Jeff’s first freestyle battle and the moment that changed everything 12:04 – Turning public failure into a lifelong passion 14:26 – Witnessing a friend’s death and the choice to transform trauma 20:03 – The fork in the road: choosing resilience over destruction 22:36 – How music became Jeff’s medicine, mission, and community 24:03 – Years of mastering freestyle at The Cipher in San Jose 26:06 – Joining Team Backpack and exploding on the freestyle scene 28:17 – Touring the U.S. and building a platform for mental health through music 32:04 – Jeff’s live freestyle: a raw, unscripted ode to music and healing 35:11 – Trusting the flow: life lessons from the art of freestyling 39:13 – Life is a list of what couldn’t break you 44:57 – Pain as a necessary part of reality: it’s not the enemy 47:03 – How Jeff’s music transcended language barriers and built global community 50:19 – Redefining hip hop: the universal power of storytelling circles 52:36 – Creating mentorship programs and teaching the next generation through music 54:43 – The importance of in-person community in a digital world 56:25 – Why community and laughter are the greatest medicines 59:46 – Funnier, more joyful therapy: how to heal without being stuck in pain 01:02:48 – Giving people the information and community when they’re ready to act 01:07:09 – Creating solutions for health, community, and the future of culture     Thank You to Our Sponsor: Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off Our Place: Toxic-free, durable cookware that supports healthy cooking. Use code DARIN for 10% off at fromourplace.com.     Find More From Jeff Turner: Instagram: @jeffturnermusik Music: Spotify – Jeff Turner Website: wamowamo.com     Find More From Darin Olien Instagram: @darinolien Podcast: SuperLife Podcast Website: superlife.com Book: Fatal Conveniences     Key Takeaway "Pain isn’t here to destroy us—it’s here to wake us up. It’s the gasoline for purpose if we’re brave enough to use it." – Jeff Turner

In this solo episode of the SuperLife podcast, Darin Olien pulls back the curtain on one of the most popular "healthy" beverage trends—sparkling water. From its surprising origins to its hidden impact on your teeth, gut, and kidneys, Darin explains why that fizzy drink might not be as harmless as you think. He breaks down the science behind carbonic acid, body pH, and the systemic strain sparkling water can put on your health over time. Darin also shares actionable solutions for how you can hydrate smarter, including his favorite ways to upgrade your water naturally. This is an essential listen for anyone who’s reaching for a bubbly beverage without understanding the long-term consequences.     What You’ll Learn: 00:00 – Welcome to the SuperLife Podcast 00:32 – Sponsor: Thera Sage PMF Healing Technology (15% off with code DARIN) 02:15 – Sparkling water: Is it really healthier than soda? 03:12 – The Fatal Convenience™️ of sparkling water 03:56 – Why sparkling water has become so popular 04:25 – The history of carbonated water and mineral springs 05:35 – How carbonated water was marketed as a cure for ailments 06:12 – The rise of the global sparkling water market 07:16 – The acidic problem with sparkling water 07:53 – How carbonic acid disrupts your body's pH balance 09:06 – Why sparkling water is far more acidic than you think 09:47 – The damaging effects on your teeth, mouth, and microflora 11:28 – How sparkling water can worsen acid reflux and GERD 12:07 – Sparkling water’s surprising impact on hunger hormones 12:45 – The strain sparkling water puts on your kidneys 13:54 – Long-term risks: Metabolic acidosis, bone loss, chronic kidney disease 14:25 – Hacks to minimize sparkling water damage (if you still want to drink it) 14:55 – Darin’s favorite ways to upgrade your water naturally 15:29 – Final thoughts: Burst the carbonic acid bubble and protect your health     Thank You to Our Sponsor: Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off     Find More From Darin Olien Instagram: @darinolien Podcast: SuperLife Podcast Website: superlife.com Book: Fatal Conveniences     Key Takeaway: "Sparkling water may seem like a harmless soda alternative, but the carbonic acid and high acidity can quietly erode your health over time—damaging your teeth, burdening your kidneys, and even altering your body’s pH balance. Hydrate smarter."

In this powerful and practical episode, Darin sits down with biological dentist and functional health pioneer Dr. Michelle Jorgensen, who shares the truth most dentists never tell you: your mouth is a mirror of your entire body’s health. After mercury poisoning nearly ended her career, Michelle embarked on a radical healing journey—becoming a patient, a student, and ultimately a healer in the truest sense. Together, Darin and Michelle expose the shocking gaps in traditional dentistry, from hidden oral infections and toxic root canals to how your mouth affects your brain, heart, and gut. This episode is a masterclass in reclaiming your health from the inside out—starting with your teeth.     What You’ll Learn (Timestamps) 00:00 – Meet Dr. Michelle Jorgensen: From dentist to mercury-poisoned patient 04:17 – What conventional dentistry got wrong (and still gets wrong) 08:45 – Mercury, root canals, and other dental toxins hiding in plain sight 12:10 – Why you can’t detox without addressing your mouth first 15:58 – How oral infections silently fuel chronic inflammation and disease 19:23 – The shocking link between dental health and Alzheimer’s 22:45 – Mouth-gut-brain connection explained (and what to do about it) 26:13 – Why the microbiome in your mouth is just as important as your gut 29:50 – Simple steps to detox your dental hygiene routine 33:20 – Red flags to look out for in your dentist or dental office 36:09 – Safe protocols for removing mercury fillings and root canals 39:35 – Natural tools for remineralizing teeth and rebuilding enamel 43:00 – How oral health affects kids’ development, behavior, and immunity 47:12 – The best tests to uncover hidden dental infections 50:35 – Michelle’s holistic protocol for dental and full-body healing 53:58 – Her personal mission to transform how we view oral care 57:40 – What she wants every person to know about their mouth and health     Thank You to Our Sponsor: Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off Our Place: Toxic-free, durable cookware that supports healthy cooking. Use code DARIN for 10% off at fromourplace.com.     Find More From Dr. Michelle Jorgensen Website: www.totalcaredental.com Instagram: @dr.michellejorgensen Book: Living Well with Dr. Michelle: A Comprehensive Handbook for Optimal Health and Unlimited Energy YouTube: Total Care Dental & Wellness     Find More From Darin Olien: Website: darinolien.com Instagram: @darinolien Podcast: superlife.com Book: Fatal Conveniences     Key Takeaway Quote “If you’re trying to heal your body and ignoring your mouth—you’re missing the foundation. Oral health is the gateway to brain health, immune strength, and disease prevention.” — Dr. Michelle Jorgensen  

We’ve all heard it: wear sunscreen to stay safe. But what if the very thing we’re told is protecting us is actually doing more harm than good? In this eye-opening solo episode, Darin Olien breaks down the dark truth behind conventional sunscreens—from hormone-disrupting chemicals and blocked vitamin D to reef destruction and dangerous misinformation. Backed by scientific research and a passion for holistic wellness, Darin reveals how sunscreen has become a fatal convenience, lulling us into a false sense of safety while quietly impacting our health and the planet. If you’ve ever questioned the ingredients in your SPF—or the fear-based narrative around sun exposure—this episode is your wake-up call.     What You’ll Learn (Timestamps) 00:00 – Intro: Living your Super Life 03:18 – Why sunscreen is a fatal convenience 03:35 – Why it’s always summer somewhere—and why sunscreen matters 04:09 – The fatal convenience of sunscreen: blocking more than sun 05:32 – The 4 toxic sunscreen chemicals you need to avoid 06:11 – What your skin actually does when sunscreen is applied 06:39 – FDA’s shocking findings: 180x above safety after one application 07:50 – Hormonal chaos, fertility risks, birth outcomes & cancer 08:58 – Environmental damage: coral reefs, oceans, and beyond 09:57 – Blocking the sun = blocking your vitamin D and immunity 11:09 – Melanin, skin tone, and ancestral wisdom 13:12 – CDC confirms: communities of color are most at risk for low D 13:59 – Sponsor: Toothpaste tubes vs. Bite sustainable tablets 16:13 – Back to sunlight: nitric oxide and blood pressure health 16:49 – Nobel-winning research: sun lovers live longer 18:23 – Avoiding the sun = smoking-level mortality risk 19:09 – Global impact: sun exposure reduces stroke and heart disease 19:49 – What you can do: hats, smart exposure, mineral sunscreens 21:19 – Recommended brands: Mad Hippie, Goddess Garden, Badger 22:13 – If you can’t eat it, don’t put it on your skin 22:37 – Final takeaway: don't fear the sun, fear what’s in your sunscreen 23:07 – Outro: Thanks for tuning in!     Thank You to Our Sponsor: Our Place: Toxic-free, durable cookware that supports healthy cooking. Use code DARIN for 10% off at fromourplace.com. Bite Toothpaste: Go to trybite.com/DARIN20 or use code DARIN20 for 20% off your first order.     Find More From Darin Olien: Website: darinolien.com Instagram: @darinolien Podcast: superlife.com Book: Fatal Conveniences     Key Takeaway Quote “The sun isn’t your enemy. The chemicals we’re using to block it might be. When you disrupt your body’s access to vitamin D and load up on hormone-disrupting compounds, the consequences go way beyond sunburn.” — Darin Olien

In this soulful reunion, Darin welcomes back his dear friend Danette May—bestselling author, superfood entrepreneur, and transformational leader—for a no-filter conversation about life, healing, and the power of curiosity. From building empires out of hardship to connecting with Indigenous wisdom and preparing for massive sound healing gatherings, Danette shares her most vulnerable lessons and biggest inspirations. This is a reminder to get off the path, go barefoot, and follow your inner compass—even when it doesn’t make sense.     What You’ll Learn: 00:00 – Why Darin calls Danette one of the most soulful humans he knows 03:10 – The power of curiosity and how it leads to your “Super Life” 04:53 – Danette’s introspective shift: from solitude to soul-aligned community 06:54 – Why true connection is more about frequency than volume 09:16 – Behind the scenes of Danette’s healing retreats with Indigenous elders 11:34 – The reward (and fear) of stepping into your next evolution 13:17 – Biohacking vs. nature: why Earth is the original healer 15:30 – Danette’s non-negotiable ritual for staying grounded 17:09 – The energetic toll of cities and why LA is a personal challenge 19:05 – Darin on creating space to receive subtle soul messages 21:50 – Danette: “We don’t know our authentic selves—we're programmed” 25:59 – How to move from pain and numbness back into purpose 28:20 – The 3 human phases: Numb, Crack, and Bloom 30:45 – Danette’s body wisdom: how your symptoms are speaking 36:00 – Darin’s big question: “If money wasn’t a factor, what would you do?” 40:35 – Seasons of self: from mud to full-bloom expansion 43:29 – How Danette reclaimed joy in the mundane after selling her company 45:27 – The magic of choosing curiosity over control 47:34 – The $47 origin story: building a kingdom from a broken place 50:56 – Off-leash living: Let your inner child lead 53:34 – Danette’s upcoming dream: global sound frequency experiences 57:24 – Raising the frequency of her podcast and creative expression 58:45 – A mutual appreciation for honoring Mother Earth—and each other     Thank You to Our Sponsors: Fatty15: Get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/DARIN and using code DARIN at checkout. Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off     Find More from Danette May: Website: DanetteMay.com Podcast: Manifestival with Danette May Instagram:@thedanettemay Books: Check out Danette’s Books     Find More From Darin Olien: Website: darinolien.com Instagram: @darinolien SuperLife Products: superlife.com Book: Fatal Conveniences     Key Takeaway: “The most spiritual thing you can do is be your authentic self. But first—you have to remember who that is. And that only happens in stillness, in nature, in truth.” – Danette May

In this solo episode, Darin Olien dives deep into what it really means to thrive in the modern world. After decades of studying indigenous wisdom, environmental stressors, and nutritional science, Darin shares the powerful lifestyle shifts that unlock clarity, energy, resilience—and reconnect us to the wisdom our bodies already hold. From clarogenic plants and metabolic chaos to cold exposure, movement rituals, and the power of listening—this is a roadmap back to your most vital self.     What You’ll Learn [01:36] Why the body is more than a vehicle—it’s an intelligent system designed to thrive [02:53] How ultra-processed foods confuse your metabolism and cause inflammation [05:15] What your cells really recognize as food, and why that matters [07:21] The role of discomfort: cold exposure, movement, and fasting as healing tools [09:47] Strategic ways to mimic ancestral stressors in modern life [12:04] The role of circadian rhythm, sunlight, and grounding for hormonal balance [14:25] Why self-talk matters: inflammation, forgiveness, and rewiring your internal biology [16:50] Compassionate listening as a superpower for deeper connection [19:13] Learning through experience, not ideology—bridging ancient wisdom with modern science [21:33] Letting go of identity, embracing transformation, and becoming who you really are [23:56] The biology of purpose—how being "on mission" affects your health [26:22] The spiritual practice of curiosity, humility, and universal connection [28:22] Final reflections: You are not here to survive—you are here to thrive.     Thank You to Our Sponsors: Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off Our Place: Toxic-free, durable cookware that supports healthy cooking. Use code DARIN for 10% off at fromourplace.com.     Find More from Darin Olien: Website: darinolien.com Instagram: @darinolien Book: Fatal Conveniences     💬 Key Takeaway “You are not your job, your pain, or your past. You are a soul expressing itself through a body—and when you align with your biology, the Earth, and your own truth, you don’t just survive. You become the solution the world is waiting for.”

In this eye-opening episode, Darin sits down with Dr. Sara Reardon — pelvic floor physical therapist, educator, and the internet’s beloved “Vagina Whisperer” — to uncover the truth about women’s bodies that too many doctors are still ignoring. From pelvic pain and leaking to postpartum trauma and sexual dysfunction, Sara breaks down what every woman deserves to know about her anatomy, healing, and power. Together, Darin and Sara dismantle the shame, silence, and outdated science that’s left generations of women in pain and confusion — and offer a path forward rooted in education, self-advocacy, and respect for the female body.     🔍 What You’ll Learn (Timestamps) 00:00 – Meet Dr. Sara Reardon: How pelvic floor therapy changes lives 03:11 – What no one teaches women about their own anatomy 06:24 – Postpartum recovery: Why Kegels aren’t enough 10:30 – Signs your pelvic floor is too tight, not too weak 13:55 – Common causes of pain during sex (and how to fix them) 17:42 – Why women leak when they laugh, jump, or sneeze — and what to do 20:58 – How birth trauma impacts your nervous system and muscle memory 24:16 – Shame and silence: the emotional toll of unspoken pain 28:33 – The hormonal shifts no one prepares women for 33:12 – Redefining strength: Why pelvic floor healing is emotional, too 37:27 – What every woman should ask her OB-GYN (but often doesn’t know to) 41:04 – Reclaiming intimacy after childbirth, trauma, or surgery 45:51 – How to find a qualified pelvic floor therapist in your area 49:29 – Hysterectomy truths: What women need to know before deciding 53:04 – Do vaginal weights really work? Who they're for, and who they're not 56:39 – Navigating menopause with grace, strength, and community 59:15 – How to speak up when your doctor won’t listen 01:01:42 – Sara’s final message to every woman: “You are not broken.”     🛍 Sponsors Thera Sage – Support your healing with red light, PEMF, and grounding tech 🛒 Use code DARIN for 15% off at therasage.com Bite Toothpaste – Refillable, clean oral care that supports hormone health 🛒 Code DARIN20 = 20% off at trybite.com     Find More From Dr. Sara Reardon: Website: https://thevagwhisperer.com/ Instagram: @the.vagina.whisperer Book: Floored: A Woman's Guide To Pelvic Floor Health At Every Age And Stage     Find More From Darin: Website: darinolien.com Instagram: @darinolien Book: Fatal Conveniences     💬 Key Takeaway Quote “Pelvic floor dysfunction doesn’t mean you’re broken — it means your body is asking for support. The shame, silence, and pain so many women live with are not normal. They’re just untreated. And we can change that.” — Dr. Sara Reardon  

What if anxiety wasn’t a flaw, but a signal? In this solo episode, Darin peels back the layers on a topic that affects every one of us: anxiety. But instead of treating it as something to suppress or escape from, Darin offers a bold new perspective — anxiety is your body's cry for balance in an overstimulated world. From breathwork and food to sunlight, grounding, and mindset, this episode explores practical and biological ways to stop reacting and start responding with awareness. With science-backed tools and soul-level wisdom, Darin invites you to reclaim your nervous system and transform daily stress into a signal for deeper connection and healing.     🔍 What You’ll Learn (with Timestamps) 00:00 – Welcome to SuperLife + Sponsor: Thera Sage’s PEMF & Red Light Mat 02:17 – Why anxiety is not “just mental health” – it’s a systems overload 04:53 – How society’s inputs (EMFs, plastics, social media) keep us anxious 05:50 – What’s happening in your brain: amygdala vs. prefrontal cortex 06:49 – Your body wants to heal — you just need to listen 07:22 – You can’t outthink anxiety, but you can breathe through it 08:34 – Gut health, serotonin, and processed foods: the anxiety connection 10:32 – Caffeine, cortisol, and why your digestion matters 13:24 – Grounding, magnesium, and nutrient gaps that fuel anxiety 15:23 – Somatics: using body awareness to decode anxiety 16:53 – Your SuperLife challenge: 3-minute breathwork before phone 17:47 – Circadian eating, better sleep, and stacking daily wins 18:38 – You are not broken: this is a systems issue 19:45 – Build your life, don’t just manage symptoms 20:47 – Why anxiety and gratitude can’t coexist     Thank You to Our Sponsors: Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off Bite Toothpaste: Go to trybite.com/DARIN20 or use code DARIN20 for 20% off your first order.       Find More from Darin Olien: Website: darinolien.com Instagram: @darinolien Book: Fatal Conveniences     🔑 Key Takeaway: “Life doesn’t give us meaning. We give life meaning. And pain? It’s not punishment — it’s a sacred teacher. Your soul knows the way… if you can get quiet enough to listen.”

In this mind-blowing episode of the SuperLife podcast, Darin sits down with Yale-trained lawyer, mental health advocate, and neuroscience researcher James Kimmel Jr., whose groundbreaking work unveils a shocking truth: revenge isn’t just emotional — it’s biochemical. From his own near-murderous moment as a bullied teenager to a high-powered career as a federal prosecutor, James takes us on a gripping journey that exposes how revenge operates like an addictive drug in the brain, and how most violence — from road rage to war — can be traced back to an unseen cycle of revenge cravings. Together, Darin and James explore the dark underbelly of our justice system, why forgiveness is a neurological superpower, and how Kimmel's powerful Miracle Court process can help anyone break free from the vengeance loop. This episode doesn’t just change how you see violence — it offers a radical new path to freedom.     What You’ll Learn: 00:00 – James Kimmel's shocking origin story 05:30 – The night he nearly pulled the trigger 11:00 – Why revenge is neurologically addictive 15:00 – How the brain confuses revenge with healing 18:45 – The real neuroscience behind violence and addiction 22:00 – Why the legal system is society’s revenge dealer 27:30 – The dangers of rumination and social reinforcement 32:10 – Everyday revenge: the grudges we don’t even notice 35:40 – How most revenge is nonviolent, but still harmful 40:00 – The missing diagnosis: revenge addiction 45:00 – Why mental health experts have missed this 48:20 – How forgiveness works in the brain 53:00 – The hidden biological rewards of letting go 56:40 – The “Miracle Court” and self-led emotional trials 01:03:00 – How imagination alone can dissolve trauma 01:10:00 – Why this system could save millions of lives 01:19:00 – James’s final message on choosing freedom over pain     Thank You to Our Sponsors: Our Place: Toxic-free, durable cookware that supports healthy cooking. Use code DARIN for 10% off at fromourplace.com. Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off     Find More from James Kimmel Jr: Book: The Science of Revenge App: miraclecourt.com Instagram: @yalepsych Website: jameskimmeljr.com     Find More From Darin: Website: darinolien.com Instagram: @darinolien Book: Fatal Conveniences Podcast: Superlife     Key Takeaway: “Revenge is an invisible addiction. But forgiveness? It’s instant self-healing—no prescription required.”  

In this powerful solo episode, Darin Olien takes you on a deeply personal, poetic, and science-backed journey into one of the most essential — and overlooked — truths of our time: we are not separate from nature. We are nature. From Yellowstone’s trophic cascades to the microbes in your gut, Darin weaves together quantum physics, ecology, indigenous wisdom, and modern biology to reveal the truth of our profound interconnectedness. Every choice we make — what we eat, how we shop, what we wear — sends ripples through the web of life. This episode isn’t just about the planet. It’s about your soul. It’s about understanding that what we do to others, animals, and ecosystems, we do to ourselves — biologically, emotionally, and spiritually.     What You’ll Learn: 00:00 – What if everything truly is connected? 01:00 – Why harming the planet harms your body 01:50 – Yellowstone wolves & trophic cascades 02:40 – The Earth's $125 trillion ecosystem services 03:30 – How pollution weakens nature — and us 04:20 – Your body is a living ecosystem 05:00 – The cost of sanitizing away our immunity 06:00 – Mirror neurons, empathy, and brain resonance 07:40 – Cambridge Declaration on animal consciousness 08:30 – Factory farming, antibiotic resistance, and emissions 09:15 – Indigenous wisdom: “Mitákuye Oyás’iŋ” – All are related 10:00 – Quantum physics and David Bohm’s implicit order 10:30 – Aligning with the web of life through action 11:30 – What your food, clothes, and chemicals say about you 12:45 – Endocrine disruption and teenage hormone crashes 14:20 – Earth as a living organism: Steiner and Gaia theory 16:30 – Why biodynamic farming mirrors natural harmony 18:00 – How your small choices affect the planet 20:00 – Meditation, stillness, and nature as healing 21:30 – Why ego wants to disconnect — and how to stop it 22:30 – Every choice generates life… or cuts it off 23:30 – The ripple effect of conscious living 24:30 – Your lettuce, your sunlight, your sacred connection     Thank You to Our Sponsors: Our Place: Toxic-free, durable cookware that supports healthy cooking. Use code DARIN for 10% off at fromourplace.com. Fatty15: Get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/DARIN and using code DARIN at checkout.     Find More From Darin: Website: darinolien.com Instagram: @darinolien Book: Fatal Conveniences Podcast: Superlife     Key Takeaway: “Every decision you make either aligns with the system of life… or cuts you off from it. There is no separation — only the illusion of it. You are nature. You are the web. And your choices ripple through it all.”