
122: Forgiving Yourself and Rebuilding After Failure with Michael Grandjean
In Part 2 of this conversation, Michael Grandjean shares the emotional and psychological turning point that allowed him to rebuild his life and career after profound loss. From a raw moment of self-forgiveness in the mountains of Morocco to the daily discipline of “kicking the can,” Michael walks through the mindset shifts, rituals, and relentless patience required to climb out of depression, debt, and despair.
Together with Dwayne Kerrigan, this episode explores the role of brotherhood, leverage, honest self-reflection, and creating a compelling new story when the old one no longer serves you. This is a masterclass in resilience, identity rebuilding, and what it truly takes to come back stronger — with wisdom, humility, and purpose.
Episode Highlights:
00:00 – Michael opens with the realization that self-forgiveness was required to move forward.
01:00 – Episode introduction and framing this as Part 2 of Michael’s comeback story.
02:00 – The Morocco mastermind trip and being forced to confront the truth.
05:00 – Emotional breakthrough on the mountain and the decision to rebuild.
07:30 – Creating the Three Ps: plan, persistence, and patience.
09:00 – “Kick the can” explained and committing to daily forward movement.
12:00 – Brotherhood, accountability, and why we’re not meant to do life alone.
16:00 – Letting go of guilt, disappointment, and the need for self-forgiveness.
20:00 – Depression, isolation, and breaking life down to “just get through today.”
24:00 – Writing the plan on a whiteboard and becoming resourceful again.
30:00 – Changing the internal story to create a compelling future.
36:00 – Writing goals again, paying off debt, and getting back to zero.
42:00 – Daily mantras, rituals, and retraining the mind.
48:00 – Shifting from hourly work to profit-based consulting and rebuilding cash flow.
01:01:00 – Final reflections, where to find Michael, and the podcast disclaimer.
Key Takeaways:
- Self-forgiveness is a prerequisite for real forward movement.
- Progress is built daily through patience, persistence, and simple actions.
- You cannot rebuild alone - community and accountability matter.
- Changing your internal story changes your future trajectory.
- Rituals, mantras, and physiology are tools for rewiring the mind.
Resources Mentioned:
- Checkmate: https://www.facebook.com/reel/1365025640684229
- Tony Robbins – Date With Destiny
- Mastermind
- Personal goal-setting and written planning practices
- Daily mantras and meditation rituals
- Whiteboard strategic planning
Notable Quotes:
- “The past is the past. The past doesn't equal the future.” - Michael Grandjean
- “You have to change your story … If you’re living in a shitty story, you’re going to stay in a shitty story.” - Michael...
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