BR #131 Your Reality Isn't Real—It's Your Identity

Send us Fan MailWhat if your current reality isn’t actually reality—but a reflection of who you believe yourself to be?In this episode of Bending Reality, we explore how identity shapes perception, decisions, confidence, and ultimately the life we create.From leaving the fashion industry and travelling the world to handstands, coaching, nervous system regulation, and a 10-day Vipassana retreat, this episode is about learning to outgrow old versions of yourself and consciously choose who you’re becoming.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why your identity shapes what you notice and believe is possibleHow your brain filters reality through your existing beliefsWhy changing your environment doesn’t necessarily change your lifeHow your body and nervous system reinforce identityWhy confidence can begin before you have evidenceHow to create space between stimulus and responseThree powerful questions to help you consciously shape your next chapterYour life changes twice: first internally, then externally.GET COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube

Send us Fan MailBody IntelligenceHow Your Physical Mastery Reveals Your Leadership PatternsYour body reveals how you respond to pressure, fear, uncertainty and challenge—often before your mind does.In this episode of Bending Reality, Eleonora explores how movement, breath, posture and tension can expose your leadership patterns. A handstand may reveal where you rush, hesitate, freeze, hold back or struggle to trust yourself.You will learn:Why the body tells the truthHow movement mirrors the way you liveWhy balance is often about trustHow changing your body can change your mindWhy failure is feedback, not identityHow physical practice builds self-leadershipYour body is not your limitation. It is your teacher.Your body isn’t just carrying your story. It’s showing you how to rewrite it.GET COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube

Send us Fan MailEpisode 118: The Art of Micro-Wins: Why Daily Physical Practice Shapes the High PerformerWhat if the biggest transformation in your life started with the smallest daily action?In this episode of Bending Reality, I explore why lasting success isn't built through motivation or giant breakthroughs—it's built through micro-wins. Learn how daily physical practice shapes your identity, rewires your brain, builds self-trust, and helps you become the person you want to be, one small promise at a time.In this episode: Why micro-wins create extraordinary results  How movement builds discipline and confidence  The power of consistency over motivation  Why today's practice becomes tomorrow's identityGET COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube

Send us Fan MailFear isn't what holds us back—it's the meaning we attach to it.In this episode of Bending Reality, Eleonora explores how learning handstands became a powerful lesson in self-trust, courage, and personal growth. She shares why we're often more afraid of what failure says about us than failure itself, how the nervous system responds to uncertainty, and why courage is built through action rather than overthinking.In this episode, we cover: Why fear is often psychological, not physical  What handstands teach us about self-trust and resilience  How the nervous system responds to uncertainty  Why identity is stronger than motivation  Reframing failure as feedback and growth  The connection between fear, excitement, and mindset  How curiosity helps us move beyond fear and create lasting changeGET COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube

Send us Fan MailEpisode 116: Upside Down Leadership – How Handstands Build Fearless Decision-MakersWhat if the greatest leadership lesson isn't found in a boardroom—but upside down?In this episode, Eleonora explores how learning handstands became a masterclass in courage, consistency, emotional regulation, and self-leadership. Discover the neuroscience of fear, why confidence is built through repetition, and how every challenge shapes the person you're becoming.Because it's never just about the handstand. It's about becoming someone who keeps promises to themselves.In this episode: Why leadership begins with leading yourself  The neuroscience of fear and uncertainty  How consistency creates confidence  Identity over achievement  What handstands reveal about your mindset  Why returning to the basics is often the fastest way forward The impossible isn't something you wait for. It's something you practise.GET COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube

Send us Fan MailThe Truth About Sales Nobody Taught You: Service, and the Art of Changing Lives with Joe Marcoux.What if sales isn't about convincing people?What if it's about curiosity, connection, and helping people make decisions that are aligned with what they truly want?In this episode, I sit down with Joe Marcoux, founder of SOS Dojo, to challenge some of the biggest misconceptions around sales, money, communication, and service.In this episode, you will learn:• Why you're already selling every day• How communication creates opportunities, relationships, and income• Why curiosity is one of the most powerful skills you can develop• How emotions drive decisions and human behavior• The difference between influence and manipulation• Why talented people struggle to communicate their value• How sales can become an act of service• The mindset shifts that create more freedom, impact, and abundanceIf you're a coach, entrepreneur, creative, leader, or someone with something valuable to offer the world, this conversation is for you.Because the question isn't whether you're selling.The question is whether you're doing it consciously.Connect with Joe: https://www.instagram.com/realjoemarcoux/https://sosdojo.com/[email protected] COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube

Send us Fan MailYour day does not begin with what happens to you. It begins with what you choose to believe.In this episode, we explore the power of your morning state, the role of assumption, and how your inner world quietly directs everything you experience.This is not about forcing outcomes. It’s about becoming the version of you for whom things already work out.You will learn in this episode: Why the first minutes of your morning are the most powerful part of your day  How your state of being creates your external reality  The difference between hoping for something and living from it  Why assumption comes before proof — and how to use it intentionally  How to stop reacting to circumstances and start directing your experience  What it truly means to trust that everything is working in your favor  How to embody fulfillment before it appears in your life Key Takeaways: Your reality reflects your inner state, not the other way around  The feeling you accept in the morning sets the tone for your entire day  What you assume to be true will eventually become your experience  You don’t need evidence to feel aligned — alignment creates evidence  Circumstances are echoes of past states, not permanent truths  Living from the end removes pressure, doubt, and waiting  Trusting the process stabilizes your mindset and elevates your actions You are not here to react to life. You are here to choose the state from which life unfolds.Decide it in the morning. Return to it throughout the day. And watch everything begin to align.GET COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube

Send us Fan MailThis episode is a powerful reminder that your day — and your life — does not begin with circumstances. It begins within you.Before the world speaks to you, you are already setting the tone. Your state, your assumptions, and your inner dialogue quietly shape everything that follows.In this episode, we explore how to consciously step into the role of creator — instead of reacting to what is already a reflection of past thinking.You will learn in this episode: Why the first minutes of your morning define the entire trajectory of your day  How your inner state becomes the cause, and your external reality the effect  The difference between hoping for something and living from it Why assumption always comes before proof — and how to use it intentionally  How to stop reacting to circumstances and start directing them  The real meaning of “everything is working in your favor” — even when it doesn’t look like it  How to shift from waiting for results to embodying them now Key Takeaways: Your reality is not created by what you see — it reflects what you believe  The morning is your most powerful moment to choose your identity and state  What you assume to be true will eventually harden into fact  You don’t get what you want — you experience what you embody  Circumstances are not fixed; they are echoes of past states  Living from the end dissolves anxiety, pressure, and the need to control  Trusting that everything works in your favor stabilizes your mindset and elevates your actions You are not here to react to life. You are here to decide the state from which life unfolds.Choose it deliberately. Persist in it. And watch reality align.GET COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube

Send us Fan MailEpisode OverviewWhat if the life you want isn’t something to chase, but something to become?In this episode, you’ll learn how shifting your internal state—from wanting to having—changes what you experience externally. Your reality is not the cause. It’s the reflection.You Will LearnWhy your external world reflects your internal stateThe difference between wanting and beingWhy acting as if is an identity shift, not pretendingHow feelings drive results more than thoughtsHow to stop reacting to lack and start living from fulfillmentHow to shift your inner dialogue to support your realityKey TakeawaysThe outer world is an echo of your inner stateLife responds to who you are, not what you sayFeeling is what creates, not just thinkingYou must assume before you see evidenceFulfillment attracts, need pushes awayReflectionWho would you be if everything was already done?Work With MeBook a complimentary coaching session to identify what’s holding you back and step into your next level. Link below:GET COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube

Send us Fan MailYour environment is shaping your life more than your willpower ever could.In this episode, we explore one of the most overlooked forces behind behavior, habits, and identity: your environment.Most people believe they struggle with discipline, motivation, or consistency. But the truth is often much simpler — and far more empowering. Your nervous system is constantly responding to the signals around you. The spaces you live in, the cues you see, and the energy of your environment quietly guide your decisions, habits, and emotional state.When your environment is designed for distraction, urgency, or stress, your behavior follows. But when your environment supports clarity, regulation, and intention, your behavior begins to align naturally with the life you want to create.In this episode, you will learn:• Why your environment influences your behavior more than motivation or discipline• How your nervous system scans your surroundings and shapes your daily decisions• Why habits follow design — not desire• How your space is reinforcing either your past identity or your future self• Practical tools to design an environment that makes your desired behaviors easier and more natural• Why nervous system regulation is the foundation of consistency and sustainable habits• How to stay aligned with your identity even when traveling or entering new environmentsYou will also hear personal reflections from my recent travels and how being in unfamiliar environments revealed just how strongly our surroundings influence our habits, food choices, routines, and identity.Thriving people don’t fight their environment.They design it.And when you intentionally shape your surroundings, life begins to feel lighter — because the environment starts supporting the person you are becoming.GET COACHEDRETREAT WITH MEHANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHINGFOLLOW:@[email protected]@[email protected]@elevision.retreatsIf this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further!Let’s bend reality together!WebInstagramFacebookYouTube