78. Manifestation Isn’t Magic: Why You’re Not Getting What You Want ft. Kris Haraldsson

Manifestation is not magic — it’s math. In this episode, Kim sits down with Kris Haraldsson, aka “The Woman Whisperer,” to break down why getting what you want isn’t woo-woo — it’s logical. Together, they unpack the real blocks behind why women stay stuck: wanting things we don’t actually desire, refusing to give ourselves permission, and confusing “being busy” with taking aligned action.From timeline pressure to the expectations we inherit as women, Kim and Kris dig into the difference between true desire and the life you’ve been told to want. They explore why so many of us chase certainty, shrink ourselves to be palatable, and mistake anxiety for intuition — and how everything shifts when you finally get quiet enough to hear yourself think.Kim’s biggest takeaway? Your life changes the second you decide you’re worthy of what you want — and act like a woman who already has it.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]Follow Kris on TikTok → [https://www.tiktok.com/@thriving_imperfectly] 💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

In this episode, Kim sits down with corporate strategist and creator Jodie Taylor to unpack the real mechanics of becoming the woman on your vision board. They break down the difference between your zone of excellence and your zone of genius, why effective communication is a power tool, and how asking for help is a strategy, not a weakness.They get into the myth of “just be your authentic self,” why real power comes from your ability to observe and adapt, and what it means to tailor your voice to the room without shrinking. They also explore how Microsoft Copilot can accelerate your creativity and career, and why the truest version of you is the one that is not tied to a paycheck or performance review.Kim’s biggest takeaway? Becoming yourself is not a vibe. It is a strategy. And the boldest thing you can do is build the woman you want to be with radical clarity, audacity, and intention.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Try Microsoft Copilot → [https://copilot.microsoft.com] Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]Follow Jodie Taylor (@jodietayl) on Instagram → [https://www.instagram.com/jodiektayl/]  💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

Meet Kristen Noel, the founder of KNC Beauty, a fashion tastemaker, and a cultural force who’s built a world from grit, glamour, and the kind of honesty most women never say out loud.Most people know her as the entrepreneur with global impact or the mother of three who makes it look effortless. But in this episode, you’ll meet her as a woman first — soft, self-aware, and actively unlearning old beliefs.Kristen opens up about early motherhood, becoming a wife and mom before 25, navigating postpartum depression, the liberation and grief of divorce, and the comparison traps even the most “put-together” women fall into.From the pressure to be perfect to the freedom of redefining womanhood, Kristen tells all in The Deep End.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]Follow Kristen Noel (@kristennoel) on Instagram → [https://www.instagram.com/kristennoel/] Shop KNC Beauty (@kncbeauty) → [https://kncbeauty.com/] 💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

Kim's over the “I’m a woman, hear me roar” movement and ushering in the tactical tears renaissance. In this episode mini, she makes a strong(and slightly unhinged) case for bringing back public tears and the lost art of playing dumb.She’s breaking down her Crybaby Theory: because sometimes, the difference between being escorted out and getting your way is a single tear.Listen to the full episode here!Spotify — [Link Here] https://open.spotify.com/episode/272M0KjKRKYgJdzX4zTobW?si=kD-IxKphRiOKMRIXim0HSw Apple — [Link Here] https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/71-i-care-too-much-giving-less-f-cks-breaking-the-rules/id1648972716?i=1000725863093 Follow Rich Little Brokegirls — [Link Here] https://www.instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls/ ✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

There’s no new episode this week, but Kim’s leaving you with two quick tips for anyone who’s a bit of a control freak and feeling anxious.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

Kim is back with a viral-moment mini episode on the social rules that keep women small — and the overthinking that keeps us stuck there. Because playing by the rules might keep the peace, but it won’t get you where you want to go.She’s breaking down why visibility is power, why silence around money protects the wrong people, and why patience isn’t always a virtue. She’s talking:How speaking up creates opportunityWhy “waiting your turn” is a trapThe cost of staying quiet to keep the peaceHow overthinking spirals into resistance—and what she’s doing to break the cycleListen to the full episode here!Spotify — [Link Here] https://open.spotify.com/episode/1cKnMl1jsIyGArYDiXkX57?si=yi0EHpF2SyaCIVWv7lxd6Q Apple — [Link Here] https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/71-i-care-too-much-giving-less-f-cks-breaking-the-rules/id1648972716?i=1000725863093 Follow Rich Little Brokegirls — [Link Here] https://www.instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls/

Dial STAR 67… it’s time for Confession Session.This week, Kim tackles everything from post-breakup jitters to productivity hacks. Elise from Chicago wonders why she feels embarrassed to be newly single, and Kim reframes it as a launch, not a loss. She shares the one skincare step she never skips—even half-asleep—plus the products behind her clean skin routine. Kim breaks down her hyper-focused “focus menu” for getting things done—Opal App on, Thomas Newman playing, sticky notes prepped—and shares her ultimate comfort TV lineup. Finally, she gives her best mid-day reset hacks for when the wall hits: from matcha shots to phone locks, it’s a masterclass in keeping your brain sharp and energy high.No sugar-coating. Just the truth, a little tough love, and a reminder that you’re not the only one figuring it out. Submit your own at RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

Kim is back with a viral-moment mini episode on friendship, connection, and intentionality. Because relationships are like bank accounts: you can’t withdraw until you’ve made deposits. Real friendship starts with you — your energy, your presence, your intentionality.She’s breaking down why a full life makes you magnetic, how curiosity is the underrated secret to connection, and why being polished and present opens more doors than you think.She’s talking:How to attract aligned friendships by living fullyThe Halo Effect: why showing up polished makes you magneticWhy listening beats self-promotion every timeThe shift from trying to impress → being genuinely interestedListen to the full episode here!Spotify — [Link Here] https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Eg2wLsfj0wlQnOytrElcr?si=oPsXbtKjQ82YBsxLz9x81w Apple — [Link Here] https://podcasts.apple.com/ug/podcast/69-holy-book-of-friendship-how-to-make-friends-keep/id1648972716?i=1000723417365Follow Rich Little Brokegirls — [Link Here] https://www.instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls/ 

Dial STAR 67… it’s time for Confession Session.This week, Kim answers confessions that cut across broken hearts, beauty, and guilty pleasures: Naomi from San Diego wonders why she only wants the men who don’t want her, Kim sets the record straight on Botox accusations, and one listener crashes a party pretending to be a celebrity’s assistant. Plus, Kim’s go-to restaurants for friends visiting LA or New York — from cult breakfasts to dinners that come with the city’s best lychee martinis.No sugar-coating. Just the truth, a little tough love, and a reminder that you’re not the only one figuring it out. Submit your own at RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

Welcome to Rich Little Reads — a new series for readers and wannabe readers.Have you read From Legacy to Liability? This week, Kim sits down with activist, author, and cultural critic Marley Dias to unpack what power really costs when you’re a Black woman navigating systems not built for you — a conversation sparked by her essay on her Substack, Third Space.She’s challenging the way we think about visibility, access, and “making it.” Because when success looks like being the symbol, the cover star, or the first in the room — what happens to the rest of us?Marley unpacks the pressure of Black excellence and why presence without power is just performance. She breaks down how wealth, status, and visibility can inspire — but just as easily distract us from the harder question: what really changed?So… think you’ll read it?✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all)Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [instagram.com/kimberlybizu & tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]Read Marley's Moms Book: "Parent Like It Matters" by Janice Johnson Dias, PhD💌 Submit your own Confession: RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess