Heartbreak, Avoidance and Therapy

As I approach my 40th birthday, I felt it was the perfect time to reflect on the journey so far—and what better way to do it than through a podcast? In this episode, we dive into fatherhood, the impact of absent parents, and the forgiveness required to truly move forward.Joined by the incredible men of Dads R Us, we explore where we thought we’d be at this stage in life and how reality has shaped us. This episode turned into an unexpected therapy session, offering me the chance to share my experiences and learn from their unique journeys.Whether you're a parent, navigating forgiveness, or just reflecting on your own milestones, this conversation is for you.If you have any questions or dilemmas you'd like me to discuss in future episodes, be sure to join our Patreon community and send them in. Your stories and questions make this podcast what it is!Join the Patreon: Raising Boys 2 Men | Giving my advice on relationships, parenting and so much more | PatreonConnect With My Guestshttps://www.instagram.com/dadsrus_villagee1t1Follow Me On Social Media:Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videosRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeSubscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from these discussions.Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch:    • Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Backgrou...  Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/sunday Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this month's Q&A episode, I dive into some thought-provoking questions and dilemmas sent in by our wonderful Patreon subscribers.We're tackling real-life issues that many of you may face in your journey through parenthood and relationships.Co-Parenting Complications:Dilemma: A mother expresses her frustration over her child's father's new girlfriend, who she feels is causing a rift between the father and his son.When to Stay and When to Let Go:Dilemma: A woman is struggling with a relationship where she feels her concerns and needs are consistently being ignored. She wonders if it’s time to move on or if there’s hope for resolving these issues.If you have any questions or dilemmas you'd like me to discuss in future episodes, be sure to join our Patreon community and send them in. Your stories and questions make this podcast what it is!Join the Patreon: Raising Boys 2 Men | Giving my advice on relationships, parenting and so much more | PatreonFollow me on Social Media:Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videosRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeSubscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from these discussions.Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch:    • Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Backgrou...  Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/sunday Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode takes you on a heartfelt journey through personal stories of family dynamics and the courage it takes to share our voices with the world. We reflect on the importance of close family bonds and the profound impact of positive feedback on our confidence and purpose.Our discussion then navigates the challenging waters of personal healing and self-discovery. We confront the shadows of our pasts, from childhood trauma and parental deportation to absent fathers and the search for self-worth. Alongside this, we celebrate stories of resilience and independence, the importance of setting boundaries, embracing individuality, and finding personal fulfillment, especially as parents. If you would like to watch the full visual of this episode then head over to Patreon where you will find a number of other exclusive pieces of content.Join the Patreon: Raising Boys 2 Men | Giving my advice on relationships, parenting and so much more | PatreonFollow me on Social Media:Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videosRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeMilena can be found here;InstagramMilena's Diary | Podcast on SpotifySubscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from these discussions.Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch:    • Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Backgrou...  Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/sunday Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week i am joined by none other than Jordan Stephens!This was a guest who was on my wish list therefore to actually be able to bring you this conversation is such a blessing.Within this episode we discuss the significant role of a supportive community and challenge traditional views on masculinity and parenting.We also dive into the transformative power of therapy, particularly Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP). Sharing personal journeys of emotional expression, we explore how understanding anger and setting boundaries can lead to healthier relationships. This conversation touches on the importance of emotional healing, especially for men, and the courage it takes to confront one's shadow self. I hope this episode inspires openness and vulnerability in your relationships, and opens your minds to the crucial role communication plays in fostering genuine connections.If you would like to watch the full visual of this episode then head over to Patreon where you will find a number of other exclusive pieces of content.Join the Patreon: Raising Boys 2 Men | Giving my advice on relationships, parenting and so much more | PatreonFollow me on Social Media:Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videosRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeJordan can be found here;InstagramSubscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from these discussions.Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch:    • Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Backgrou...  Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/sunday Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the Raising Boys 2 Men podcast, I sit down with Francesca Amber, a specialist in the law of attraction, who opens up about her journey from a challenging childhood to the inspiring success story she is today.This discussion touches on the challenges and triumphs of co-parenting and entrepreneurial success, where we reflect on the balance between personal growth and parental responsibilities, along with the importance of breaking the cycles of unhealthy relationships, setting positive examples for our children, and navigating the often tricky waters of dating as parents. This episode offers insights, support, and a sense of community for anyone facing similar circumstances.Follow Raising Boys 2 Men on Social Media:InstagramRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeConnect with Francesca Amber on Social Media:Instagram: InstagramSubscribe & Leave a Review: If this episode resonates with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with anyone who might benefit from these conversations.Music Credits:Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch: Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Background Music Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Growing up in the foster care system, Monti Washington faced challenges that many can't even imagine.His story is one of resilience and determination.Monti opens up about his turbulent childhood, marked by instability and his mother's battle with addiction and reveals the incredible strength required to overcome such adversity.Reflecting on attachment and trust issues, he found inspiration in unlikely sources, like the anime "Dragon Ball Z," to rise above depression and suicidal thoughts. His transformation from a victim mentality to embracing self-love through meditation, reading, and journaling is a testament to the power of positive daily practices. Monti's narrative illustrates how shifting focus from obstacles to possibilities can pave the way for a successful career, a healthy marriage, and a fulfilling family life.If you would like to watch the full visual of this episode then head over to Patreon where you will find a number of other exclusive pieces of content.Join the Patreon: Raising Boys 2 Men | Giving my advice on relationships, parenting and so much more | PatreonFollow me on Social Media:Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videosRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeMonti can be found here;InstagramInstagramSubscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from these discussions.Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch:    • Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Backgrou...  Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/sunday Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're joined by Jamelia! We invite you into a heartfelt discussion of family dynamics.Jamelia walks us through her childhood, explaining the lasting impact of her father's inconsistency and her mother's unwavering strength. Jamelia sheds light on the struggles and triumphs of healing from past traumas, casting light on the journey from a carefree little girl to a self-assured woman.We also reflect on the transformative power of self-love and the importance of creating supportive communities that uplift and inspire.If you would like to watch the full visual of this episode then head over to Patreon where you will find a number of other exclusive pieces of content.Join the Patreon: Raising Boys 2 Men | Giving my advice on relationships, parenting and so much more | PatreonFollow me on Social Media:Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videosRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeJamelia can be found here;Jamelia (@officialjamelia) • Instagram photos and videosSubscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from these discussions.Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch:    • Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Backgrou...  Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/sunday Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is a topic i get asked so many questions about, and felt it was only right to share my thoughts on the subject of Child Maintenance.As a man raised by a single mum who received no financial support from my dad, my views on this topic run a little deeper than most. If you like this episode then please be sure to subscribe, in order for you to be notified every time a new episode is released.Most importantly please share this podcast with anyone you feel could benefit from hearing it.Join the Patreon: Raising Boys 2 Men | Giving my advice on relationships, parenting and so much more | PatreonFollow me on Social Media:Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videosRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeSubscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from these discussions.Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch:    • Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Backgrou...  Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/sunday Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're joined by Andrez Harriott, who you may know from one of the UK’s most successful R&B groups – Damage!Now although you may know him from his boyband days, Academically Andrez is a criminologist, sociologist, and has a master's is in organizational consultancy and leadership, using systemic and psychodynamic approaches.Listen to the episode to understand exactly what all that means.We dig deep into the importance of positive figures—fathers, mentors, and teachers—in guiding a boy's development and future outlook. I also gather Andrez opinion on some misconceptions about single-parent households.We then explore his perspective on navigating masculinity, values, and evolving views on success and relationships. This episode encapsulates heartfelt stories and lessons on leading a purpose-driven life, making positive choices, and uplifting others.If you would like to watch the full visual of this episode then head over to Patreon where you will find a number of other exclusive pieces of content.Join the Patreon: Raising Boys 2 Men | Giving my advice on relationships, parenting and so much more | PatreonFollow me on Social Media:Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videosRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeAndrez can be found here;Andrez Harriott (@andrezharriott) • Instagram photos and videosTickets for Damage in concert Damage Tickets | 2024-25 Tour & Concert Dates | Ticketmaster UKSubscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from these discussions.Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch:    • Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Backgrou...  Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/sunday Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Show up to this episode with your note pad ready because today we discuss YOUR boundaries.Not everyone has a good understand of boundaries or the reasons why we should have them, but today you will. Whether you’re co-parenting, in a relationship, single or any other human being, this episode aims to empower you with the knowledge and insights needed to create healthy boundaries that support you moving forwardIf you like this episode then please be sure to subscribe, in order for you to be notified every time a new episode is released.Most importantly please share this podcast with anyone you feel could benefit from hearing it.Join the Patreon: Raising Boys 2 Men | Giving my advice on relationships, parenting and so much more | PatreonFollow me on Social Media:Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videosRaisingboys 2 Men - YouTubeSubscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from these discussions.Track: Sunday — Land of Fire [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library PlusWatch:    • Sunday — Land of Fire | Free Backgrou...  Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/sunday Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.