Ep. 388 – The Many Faces of Active Listening: Unlocking Your Family's Connection Together

As parents, we long to raise girls who are thoughtful, grounded, and confident in Christ—not swept away by every cultural trend or viral "hot take." But in a world shaped by social media influence, digital comparison, and nonstop opinions, how do we disciple daughters to think Biblically, lead humbly, and follow Jesus faithfully?  In this powerful conversation, Natalie Ambrose welcomes pastor, author, and mentor Dr. J.R. Briggs to explore Biblical parenting rooted in curiosity, unhurried presence, and meaningful questions. Together, they discuss how servant leadership—modeled perfectly in the life of Jesus Christ—shapes the way we guide our daughters. They also address how families can cultivate discernment in the age of influencers, mentor the next generation of Christian leaders, and create space for authentic faith formation at home.  Whether you're parenting a middle schooler navigating a growing social network or a high schooler preparing for adulthood, this episode offers practical wisdom for Christian parents seeking to raise girls with theological depth, critical thinking skills, and Gospel-centered courage.  Because raising Godly girls doesn't begin with louder voices—it begins with faithful presence, wise questions, and a life anchored in Christ.    Scriptures Referenced in this Episode:    1 Thessalonians 4:11  1 Kings 19:12  Psalm 27:14    To learn more about Dr. J.R. Briggs and his work, visit jrbriggs.com  Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.  Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.  

What does it look like to truly listen to your girl in a world filled with constant distractions, busy schedules, and endless noise? In this encouraging episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden unpack the beauty and importance of active listening—and how meaningful communication can transform the atmosphere of your family.  As part of this week's series on listening, Rachael and Melissa explore the difference between simply hearing words and intentionally engaging with the hearts behind them. From Bible doodles and journaling to silly family games and late-night dinner table conversations, this episode offers practical and grace-filled encouragement for families longing to reconnect in deeper, healthier ways.  Listeners will hear an insightful Raising Godly Girls Minute from Patti Garibay about kinesthetic learners, Bible journaling, and how doodling and note-taking can help girls store God's Word in their hearts. Whether your daughter is an external processor, a quiet observer, or somewhere in between, this conversation reminds parents that communication is not one-size-fits-all—and that curiosity, delight, and intentionality matter deeply.  Rachael and Melissa also tackle one of the biggest modern barriers to connection: distraction. From smartphones to after-hours work demands, today's families are constantly pulled in competing directions. But when parents intentionally create open bridges of communication, girls feel safe, valued, and heard. This episode offers simple but powerful phrases parents can begin using right away—questions and responses that cultivate trust, invite deeper conversations, and strengthen family bonds over time.  You'll also hear practical ideas for making communication fun again in your home through games like Mad Libs, one-word stories, and the classic telephone game—small but meaningful ways to create joy-filled moments of connection together.  Plus, the team highlights how ministries like American Heritage Girls, FamilyLife, Mama Bear Apologetics, and ScreenStrong are helping families build stronger relationships rooted in a Biblical Worldview.  If you've ever felt too tired to engage, unsure how to reconnect with your girl, or overwhelmed by the pace of modern family life, this conversation is a gentle reminder that listening well is one of the most powerful ways we love our children.    Three Things to Remember:  Find creative ways to make communication fun and ongoing in your family.   Keep an open bridge of connection between you and your girl.   Practice active listening responses that invite your daughter to share her heart.     Scriptures Referenced in this Episode:  Proverbs 7:1–3   James 1:19   Proverbs 18:13   Ephesians 4:29    Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.  Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.         

How do we create the kind of relationship where our daughters truly believe, "I can tell my mom anything"? In this heartfelt episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden explore the powerful connection between asking good questions, listening well, and building lasting trust with your girl.  As part of this week's series on communication and connection, Rachael and Melissa unpack the difference between simply gathering information and genuinely cultivating relationship. In a world filled with constant noise, quick reactions, and endless distractions, girls desperately need safe spaces where they are known, heard, and deeply loved. This episode encourages parents to slow down, ask thoughtful questions, and create open bridges of communication that reflect the grace and gentleness of Christ.  Melissa shares how intentional conversations with her daughters over the years have shaped deeper trust and connection, while Rachael candidly reflects on the temptation many parents face to jump too quickly into "lesson mode" instead of allowing space for girls to process, think, and share from the heart.  Listeners will also hear wisdom from Patti Garibay in this week's Raising Godly Girls Minute, focused on the spiritual discipline of listening—both to others and to the voice of God. Patti reminds families that while today's culture emphasizes being heard, Scripture consistently calls believers to become attentive listeners, willing to pause the noise and lean into quiet moments with the Lord.  This conversation beautifully explores how healthy parent-child communication mirrors the heart of God Himself. From Genesis 3 to Romans 8, the episode highlights the truth that God's questions are not rooted in condemnation, but in loving pursuit and connection. Parents are encouraged to approach their girls with that same posture—one marked by curiosity, compassion, patience, and grace.  You'll also hear practical encouragement for distinguishing between questions and interrogations, why rushing in with opinions can unintentionally shut down trust, and how simple moments like walks, car rides, and bedtime conversations can become sacred spaces for connection.  Plus, the team highlights how American Heritage Girls creates environments where girls flourish through Christ-centered relationships, meaningful mentorship, and family-focused discipleship.  If you've ever struggled to know how to keep communication open with your daughter—or wondered how to cultivate deeper trust as she grows—this episode will encourage you to lead with gentleness, listen with intention, and delight in the girl God entrusted to your care.    Two Things to Remember:  Aim for asking thoughtful questions, not creating an interrogation.   Hold back immediate opinions and allow trust to grow through ongoing conversation.     Scriptures Referenced in this Episode:  Romans 8:1   Genesis 3   Proverbs 18:13   James 1:19   Psalm 46:10    Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.   

In a culture that often minimizes the role of fathers, Scripture paints a very different picture—one of strength, servant leadership, and spiritual legacy.    In this powerful episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, Melissa Bearden welcomes Andy Dalton of Rock Solid Families for a conversation about the life-shaping influence of faithful Christian dads. Together, they explore how spiritually healthy fathers help anchor their daughters' identity, build confidence rooted in Christ, and model God's design for family leadership.    Today's cultural messaging frequently tells men that marriage and children will limit their personal success. But God's Word tells a richer story—one where fatherhood is not a detour from purpose, but a central calling within it. Andy shares practical encouragement for dads who want to lead their families well, even when they feel overwhelmed or unsure, and offers hope for raising daughters who flourish emotionally, relationally, and spiritually.    Whether you are a father seeking Biblical encouragement, a mother praying for your husband's leadership, or a family member invested in the next generation, this episode will remind you that faithful fatherhood matters deeply. When dads lead with humility, courage, and devotion to Christ, daughters grow up knowing both the strength of earthly love and the security of their Heavenly Father.      Scriptures Referenced in This Episode:    Ephesians 6:4  Proverbs 22:6  Psalm 127:3–5  Colossians 3:21  Deuteronomy 6:6–7      To learn more about the Rock Solid Families counseling ministry, visit rocksolidfamilies.org    Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.          Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.     

Father's Day has a way of bringing out the little things that matter most—inside jokes, favorite meals, family traditions, and the quiet, faithful presence of a dad who loves his family well. In this special Father's Day week episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden celebrate the powerful role Christian fathers play in shaping the hearts and faith of their daughters. From chess games and sports afternoons to songs, gummy candy, and chicken fried steak, this conversation is packed with warmth, encouragement, and practical ways to honor the Godly dads in our lives.  As culture continues to question and diminish Biblical fatherhood, this episode compassionately points listeners back to the heart of God the Father—the One who is faithful, trustworthy, and healing. Melissa and Rachael reflect on the deep impact a loving father can have on a girl's identity, security, and understanding of God's design for family. Through honest conversation and personal stories, they remind families that Christian dads matter deeply, and their consistency, guidance, and presence leave a lasting spiritual legacy.  You'll also hear wisdom from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in this week's Raising Godly Girls Minute as she shares the beauty of a strong father-daughter bond and the Biblical importance of integrity in fatherhood. Whether your family celebrates Father's Day with big adventures or quiet traditions, this episode offers encouragement to cherish the faithful men who lead with courage, humility, and love.  Plus, the Raising Godly Girls team shares meaningful #girldad gift ideas your family can create this Father's Day—from homemade "Dad's Day Coupons" and gratitude videos from the kids to the timeless gift of a brand-new Bible ready to be filled with notes, prayers, and reflections. It's a joyful reminder that honoring dads doesn't require extravagance, just intentional love and gratitude.  Whether you're a dad, raising daughters alongside one, or praying for healing in this area of family life, this episode will encourage you to lean into God's good design for fatherhood and celebrate the men faithfully pointing their families toward Christ.    Three Things to Remember:  Christian dads have a profound and lasting influence on their daughters' faith, confidence, and understanding of God's love.   Meaningful traditions and intentional connection help strengthen the father-daughter bond for years to come.   Simple, heartfelt encouragement can deeply refresh and strengthen the faithful dads in your life.     Scriptures Referenced in this Episode:  Proverbs 20:7   Ephesians 6:4    Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.    Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.         

As Father's Day approaches, this heartfelt episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast celebrates the incredible gift of Christian dads and the powerful role fathers play in shaping the hearts, faith, and future of their daughters.  Co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden dive into what strong, Christ-centered fatherhood looks like in today's culture—a balance of strength and gentleness, wisdom and fun, protection and empowerment. In a world that often minimizes or mocks fathers through media and cultural messaging, this conversation boldly affirms that dads matter deeply in God's design for the family.  Drawing from recent research showing the importance of healthy male friendships and mentorship, Rachael and Melissa unpack why Christian dads need strong community just as much as moms do. From intergenerational friendships to discipleship and accountability, fathers flourish when they are surrounded by Godly men who encourage them to lead their families with integrity and purpose.  In the Raising Godly Girls Minute, Patti Garibay reflects on the lasting impact of "dad traditions"—the silly songs, piggyback rides, bubble-blowing contests, and simple moments that become treasured memories for daughters long into adulthood. Through those ordinary moments, girls catch a glimpse of the safe, loving heart of their Heavenly Father.  This episode also offers practical encouragement for dads navigating the pressures of modern life. With phones buzzing, work demands increasing, and distractions everywhere, fathers are challenged to intentionally prioritize presence with their girls—to put down the technology and fully engage in the moments that matter most.  Listeners will also hear encouragement to build a healthy network of Christian friendships and to embrace both mentoring and being mentored. Because God never intended fatherhood to be walked alone. Through authentic Biblical community, dads can grow stronger, healthier, and more equipped to shepherd their families well.  Whether you're a father, a mom encouraging the dads in your life, or someone grateful for the impact of a Godly father figure, this conversation is a timely reminder that faithful fatherhood echoes into eternity.    Three Things to Remember:  Prioritize presence with your girl—be fully engaged when you're with her.   Build intentional, Christ-centered friendships that support your fatherhood journey.   Allow older dads to pour wisdom into you while also investing in younger fathers around you.     Scriptures Referenced:  Matthew 19:14   Titus 2:1–8   Proverbs 27:17   Ephesians 6:4    Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.   Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.         

Money is one of the most practical—and spiritual—areas of our lives, yet it's often one of the least intentionally taught within the home.    In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, Patti Garibay welcomes financial author and stewardship expert Matt Bell for an important conversation about raising girls who honor God with their finances. From everyday spending decisions to long-term financial planning, this episode explores how parents can disciple their daughters to think Biblically about money from an early age.    Together, Patti and Matt tackle some of the most common questions families face today: Is all debt bad, or is there a place for wise borrowing? How can parents help their daughters avoid the burden of overwhelming student loans? And what's the best way to teach financial responsibility—through cash, debit cards, or even credit?    This conversation also highlights the deeper heart behind financial stewardship. In a culture driven by consumption and comparison, girls need to learn contentment, discernment, and generosity. Matt shares how giving isn't just a financial practice—it's a spiritual discipline that helps shape a heart aligned with God's purposes.    Whether your daughter is just beginning to learn the value of money or preparing to step into adulthood, this episode will equip you with practical tools and Biblical encouragement to guide her toward a future marked by wisdom, responsibility, and faithful stewardship.    Because when girls understand that everything they have comes from God, they are better prepared to use it for His glory.    Scriptures Referenced in This Episode:    Matthew 6:21   Proverbs 21:5   Luke 16:10   1 Timothy 6:6–10   2 Corinthians 9:6–7   Proverbs 22:7    To learn more about Matt Bell, his work, and resources for Biblically wise financial stewardship for your family, visit mattaboutmoney.com     Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.         Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.      

In this inspiring episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose explore how to nurture an entrepreneurial spirit in your daughter—one that's not driven by profit alone, but by purpose, generosity, and a heart for God's Kingdom.  From childhood lemonade stands to bold, big-picture leadership, this conversation invites moms to see everyday opportunities as training grounds for future influence. With relatable stories of early entrepreneurial attempts (some more successful than others!), Rachael and Natalie highlight the value of giving girls space to try, fail, learn, and grow—building confidence and resilience along the way.  But this episode doesn't stop at practical skill-building. It reframes the entire conversation around a Biblical Worldview: as Christ-followers, we're not building our own kingdoms—we're participating in God's. That shift in perspective changes everything, especially when it comes to how our girls think about work, money, and success.  In the Raising Godly Girls Minute, Patti Garibay challenges families to think intentionally about generosity, encouraging parents to create a giving plan that reflects their priorities and invites their daughters into Kingdom-focused stewardship. It's a powerful reminder that financial habits aren't just practical—they're deeply spiritual.  You'll walk away with practical, faith-centered ways to guide your daughter's entrepreneurial journey: from praying over her passions, to helping her identify meaningful opportunities in your community, to equipping her with the confidence to communicate boldly for causes she cares about. Whether she's setting up a lemonade stand or dreaming about launching a future business, this episode will help you anchor her efforts in something eternal.  Because at the end of the day, the goal isn't just to raise capable girls—it's to raise girls who use their gifts, influence, and resources to glorify God and serve others.    Three Things to Remember:  Pray earnestly to discern where God is directing your girl's passions.   Leverage opportunities in your community to help her practice and grow.   Encourage your girl to communicate boldly and confidently for her cause.     Scriptures Referenced:  Psalm 127:1    Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.   Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.       

In this practical and heart-checking episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose kick off a brand-new series on Biblical financial stewardship—helping moms raise girls who handle money with wisdom, contentment, and Christ-centered purpose.  From lighthearted conversation about being a "spender" or a "saver" to deeper reflections on what money reveals about our hearts, this episode gently guides listeners into a Biblical understanding of stewardship. Rachael and Natalie break down this foundational concept into three simple practices—giving, saving, and spending—while reminding us that how we manage money ultimately reflects what we trust, value, and believe about God as our Provider.  In a culture marked by consumerism, comparison, and financial anxiety, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective: money is not inherently good or evil—but it can quickly become a place where our hearts drift. Through Scripture and personal stories, the hosts encourage families to reject both fear-based scarcity and indulgent excess, instead embracing a posture of faith-filled responsibility.  The Raising Godly Girls Minute featuring Patti Garibay reinforces a powerful truth—our daughters are watching. The habits we model today will shape how they approach money tomorrow. From family budget conversations to everyday spending decisions, our example matters more than we think.  You'll also hear honest reflections on the financial pressures facing the next generation—from rising costs to economic uncertainty—and how we can equip our girls with something far more valuable than wealth: resourcefulness, gratitude, and trust in God. Because ultimately, the goal isn't to raise girls who are rich—but girls who are faithful stewards of whatever God provides.  With practical tools like distinguishing between needs and wants and inviting your daughter into the "why" behind your saving habits, this episode equips you to bring faith into everyday financial decisions—right where your family lives.    Two Things to Remember:  Be honest about the difference between wants and needs in your family's spending.   Let your daughter see the "why" behind your saving habits—connect it back to your faith in God.     Scriptures Referenced:  Matthew 6:11   1 Timothy 6:10   Philippians 4:11–19   Psalm 23:1    Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.   Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.    

What does the Book of Genesis have to do with modern motherhood, science classes, dinosaur questions, and raising confident Christian girls in today's culture? In this rich and encouraging weekend conversation on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Natalie Ambrose sits down with scientist, author, and ministry leader Dr. Georgia Purdom to unpack why the very first book of the Bible still matters deeply for families today.  Between busy schedules, endless cultural noise, and the pressure to "keep up" with modern parenting trends, many Christian parents can feel overwhelmed trying to raise girls with a strong Biblical Worldview. But Dr. Purdom reminds listeners that the foundation for understanding identity, purpose, science, womanhood, and even eternity begins in Genesis.  As Vice President of Educational Content and Director of Research for Answers in Genesis, Dr. Purdom brings both scientific expertise and heartfelt encouragement to this conversation. Together, Natalie and Dr. Purdom explore how the Genesis account shapes a child's understanding of God as Creator, why the Bible's foundation is essential for interpreting the world around us, and how parents can confidently navigate tough topics like dinosaurs, biology, and cultural confusion surrounding womanhood.  This episode also dives into the wonder of God's design through the lens of cellular and molecular biology, helping parents see science not as a threat to faith, but as a beautiful confirmation of God's intentional craftsmanship. Dr. Purdom offers practical ways families can nurture curiosity, engage science from a Biblical Worldview, and help girls understand both their equality and uniqueness as image-bearers of God.  If you've ever felt unsure how to answer your daughter's big questions—or wondered whether ancient Scripture still speaks into modern family life—this conversation will refresh your confidence in God's timeless truth and remind you that what God declared "good" in the beginning remains good today.    Scriptures Reference in this Episode:  Genesis 1–2   Genesis 1:27   Genesis 2   Psalm 139:13–14   Romans 1:20   Revelation 21:5   Revelation 22    To learn more about Dr. Georgia Purdom's work, visit answersingenesis.org   Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.      Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org.