79. Can Parents Be Friends with Their Kids?

Have you ever wondered why the school system looks the way it does—and if it’s really serving our kids? In this episode, we dive into the history of conventional education and how it was designed to prioritize obedience over curiosity. We explore the lasting impact this has on children, families, and society, and discuss why it’s time to shift toward education that centers relationships, individuality, and respect for young people as full human beings. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or simply curious about rethinking education, this episode invites you to imagine a more compassionate and empowering way forward. As mentioned in this episode: Please consider making a donation to support the production of this podcast here: https://paypal.me/RadicalLearningLLC And/or check out more information on our site: https:// www.radical-learning.org

Do kids today truly have the freedom to be themselves? In this episode, we explore youth rights and how the conventional education system often limits young people’s voices and agency. We discuss why it's essential to recognize and respect kids' inherent power and choice, especially in their own learning, and envision what authentically youth-centered education could look like. Whether you're a parent, educator, or simply interested in challenging the status quo, this episode is for anyone who believes in honoring kids' rights to be seen, heard, and respected.//As mentioned in this episode:- Please consider making a donation to support the production of this podcast here: https://paypal.me/RadicalLearningLLC- You can find information on our offerings here: https://radical-learning.thinkific.com- Check out more information on our site: https:// www.radical-learning.org

How do you support a child’s independence while keeping them safe? It’s tricky, but in this episode, we’re breaking down that delicate balance. We talk about how to foster autonomy and agency in kids, all while knowing when to step in to guide them through life’s challenges. From setting boundaries that make sense to learning when to support kids take healthy risks, we dig into what it means to truly trust and respect young people—without just letting them go at it alone. If you’re interested in building strong, consent-based relationships with the kids in your life, tune in for a refreshing take on raising responsible, empowered kids! // As mentioned in this episode: - You can find information on our 1:2 private coaching here: https://radical-learning.thinkific.com/courses/1-2 -   Please consider making a donation to support the production of this podcast here: https://paypal.me/RadicalLearningLLC - Check out more information on our offerings here: ⁠https://radical-learning.thinkific.com

Can parents really be friends with their kids? In this episode, we dig into that big question and break down the myths around adultism and power dynamics. We talk about how sharing power with kids can build real trust, deep connection, and authentic relationships—without losing the boundaries that come with being a parent. If you’ve ever wondered how to balance being a friend and a parent, or if it’s even possible, this one’s for you!As mentioned in this episode:- You can find information on our Empowerment Practice Group here: https://radical-learning.thinkific.com/courses/practice-group- Please consider making a donation to support the production of this podcast here: https://paypal.me/RadicalLearningLLC- And/or check out more information on our site: https://www.radical-learning.org

Ever been asked, “But how do unschooled kids socialize?” It’s one of the most common questions homeschooling parents hear. In this episode, we dive into the true meaning of socialization and reveal how conventional schools, with their rigid hierarchies, often hinder genuine connection. We explore a more natural, individualized approach to social development and share why you can trust your child's social growth outside of school. If you’re worried about your child’s 'socialization,' this episode is for you! // As mentioned in this episode: - You can find information on our Monthly Empowerment Practice Group here: https://radical-learning.thinkific.com/courses/practice-group - Please consider making a donation to support the production of this podcast here: https://paypal.me/RadicalLearningLLC - You can check out more information on our offerings here: https://radical-learning.thinkific.com/collections

How can you teach your kid if you're not a teacher? This is one of the most common questions homeschoolers and unschoolers get. In this episode we examine the relationship between teaching and learning. Is there a connection? Is it only possible to learn when someone teaches us? And, what can it look like when we learn through our own motivation and experiences? Ready to shake up some old beliefs? Join us! As mentioned in this episode: - You can find information on our Deeply Deschooling program here: ⁠https://radical-learning.thinkific.com/courses/deeply-deschooling-2024⁠ - Please consider making a donation to support the production of this podcast here: ⁠https://paypal.me/RadicalLearningLLC⁠ - And/or check out more information on our site: ⁠https://www.radical-learning.org⁠

In this episode we adress a common concern of many folks that are new to unschooling… If kids only focus on what they like and do and what seems fun, how will they ever develop the resilience to deal with life’s hardships? It’s a valid question! But… what’s behind it? And what misconceptions and misunderstandings do many adults hold around young people’s capacity to navigate challenges through their own choice and agency? Listen in for more! // As mentioned in this episode: - You can find information on our Deeply Deschooling program here: https://radical-learning.thinkific.com/courses/deeply-deschooling-2024 - Please consider making a donation to support the production of this podcast here: https://paypal.me/RadicalLearningLLC - And/or check out more information on our site: https://www.radical-learning.org

How do you navigate between trusting your kid’s natural learning process and supporting them in doing really hard things that they might feel they’re not ready for? How do you let go and help them spread their wings when you don’t know if they will fly? In this episode Sari asks Becka to share a recent intimate moment when her son had to renew his passport and she wasn’t allowed to accompany him, leaving him to fly solo. Finding ways to support our kid’s process without interfering ain’t easy! But it’s necessary to find balance as we’re moving into unknown territories with our kids. // As mentioned in this episode: - You can find information on our Deeply Deschooling program here: https://radical-learning.thinkific.com/courses/deeply- deschooling-2024 - Please consider making a donation to support the production of this podcast here: ⁠https://paypal.me/RadicalLearningLLC⁠ - And/or check out more information on our site: www.radical- learning.org

What are the differences between homeschooling and unschooling? And why is it that so many homeschooling kids aren’t thriving? When we leave school behind without also ditching the structures and patterns that make up the schooling experience, it can have some unwanted effects in our kids. In this episode we explore some important questions for homeschooling & unschooling parents alike: Who decided what makes up a curriculum? Who benefits from the conventional school structure, and who dosen’t? Are you advocating for young people’s voice, choice and agency? And is what you do consent-based? Listen to this episode to gauge if there are some adjustments that could be made in your homeschooling approach and also to have a better understanding of why unschooling could potentially be a great option for many homeshooling kids! // As mentioned in this episode: - You can find information on our Deeply Deschooling program here: https://radical-learning.thinkific.com/courses/deeply-deschooling-2024 - Please consider making a donation to support the production of this podcast here: https://paypal.me/RadicalLearningLLC - And/or check out more information on our site: https://www.radical-learning.org

In this episode of Radical Learning Talks, we talk about what culture creation is and why we find it to be one of the most important things to focus on when choosing to walk the unconventional path of Self-Directed Education. Culture creation is about putting words on what is important for everyone, and consciously embodying those values. This link is often what’s missing for most people who want to make the paradigm shift from conventional schooling to SDE. Whether your family is unschooling or you’re running (or thinking about starting) an SDE learning center, it’s crucial to understand WHAT exactly you’re walking away from so that you don’t copy/paste those systems in the new path forward.