Episode 579: The INFJ and the avoidant - the ultimate head f**k

A very simple series by Jamie Oliver on how to reset your health https://www.audible.com/pd/B0G2N4P6N9?source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=library_overflow

Links to all the books I mentioned … The Kamogawa Food DetectivesHisashi Kashiwai, Jesse Kirkwood (Translator)https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/154488299-the-kamogawa-food-detectives?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=41V3qxpC1E&rank=1Before the Coffee Gets ColdToshikazu Kawaguchi, Geoffrey Trousselot (Translator)https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/44421460-before-the-coffee-gets-cold?ref=nav_sb_ss_1_16Yeonnam-dong's Smiley LaundromatKim Jiyun, Shanna Tan (Translator)https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/203469691-yeonnam-dong-s-smiley-laundromatThe Lantern of Lost MemoriesSanaka Hiiragi, Jesse Kirkwood (Translator)https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/204593511-the-lantern-of-lost-memories

INFJs can really lose themselves in relationships and turn everything on themselves. We have such extreme forgiveness and patience that it's shocking when we run out - when we need change and the patterns keep repeating. It's too easy for us to turn all the experiences on ourselves and feel shame. Shame for sharing and being open as this requires such trust for us. 

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The colonial hub in the Middle-East called the Middle-East based on another Colonial land .. Can we decide no one deserves to die? Surely all the religions agree on this fact? 

The world feels like a soup you couldn’t possibly create an unconditioned reality in right now 

It’s an energy we haven’t had for a while… a theme of being careful with your words Readings with Jonhttps://youtu.be/8GWtyUoxYo8?si=HwcENsTqPn42Jbl3

This animation may be based in Japan … however all I could think about the whole way through was Gaza Grave of the Fireflies https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0095327/

The bundle of joy 

Barack Obama Interview https://youtu.be/uI-hgSE5QIw?si=HAMO36uveaCDV7Ck