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Human behavior is a multifaceted and intricate subject that has intrigued scholars, psychologists, and researchers for centuries. The motives behind human behavior are often complex and can be influenced by a myriad of factors, including biological, psychological, social, and environmental elements. Understanding these motives is crucial not only for academic purposes but also for practical applications in various fields such as psychology, sociology, criminology, and organizational behavior. Biological Motives One of the fundamental aspects of understanding human behavior lies in exploring the biological motives that drive our actions. Biological motives are rooted in our physiological needs and instincts, such as hunger, thirst, sleep, and reproduction. These motives are essential for our survival and play a significant role in shaping our behaviors. For example, the motive to eat when hungry or seek shelter when cold are driven by our biological needs. Psychological Motives In addition to biological motives, psychological motives also play a crucial role in influencing human behavior. Psychological motives are often more complex and can be related to emotions, beliefs, attitudes, and values. These motives can vary greatly from person to person and can be influenced by past experiences, personality traits, and cognitive processes. Understanding psychological motives requires delving into the inner workings of the human mind and exploring concepts such as motivation, cognition, emotion, and perception. Social Motives Humans are inherently social beings, and our behaviors are heavily influenced by social motives. Social motives refer to the desire for affiliation, acceptance, belongingness, and recognition within social groups. These motives drive us to seek relationships, form connections with others, and conform to societal norms and expectations. Social motives can have a profound impact on our behaviors, shaping our interactions with others and influencing our decisions. Environmental Motives The environment in which we live also plays a significant role in shaping our motives and behaviors. Environmental motives encompass external factors such as culture, religions belief, upbringing, socioeconomic status, education, and physical surroundings. Our environment can influence the development of our values, beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors from an early age. Understanding how environmental factors interact with biological, psychological, and social motives is essential for gaining a comprehensive understanding of human behavior.

You need to write down some thing before you can achieve them. There is power in pen and paper. What are your plans for the new year

God is our creator, and we are expected to trust in everything. He is too faithful to fail.

What does it mean to be an influencer to people around you, especially young adults and children? One who exerts influence: a person who inspires or guides the actions of others through his or her day-to-day activities. Everything about you starts from what you wear, and what you say.  Positivity in the world is built through the ripple effects of thousands of individual decisions. Making an impact can be a grand gesture, and it can also start with small steps to spread fairness and joy. If you strive to 'be the change you wish you see in the world' but don't know where to start, let us go on. Find your focus. While there are many serious issues equally worthy of your attention and support, you'll have the greatest impact if you focus on the challenges that you are passionate about. You may think that having your own interests and passions is somehow selfish, but if you are truly passionate about something, it lights you up, fills you with life and energy, and helps you make a greater impact. Consider where you may have the greatest impact. Some causes can be supported simply by choosing a certain product over another while shopping (e.g. Fair Trade). Consider your natural abilities, skills, and strengths and how you can use these to make a positive contribution in your own unique way. Don't despair of the skills you don't possess, but work with what you have. Remember, not even people like Matin luther king or Mandela were perfect in every way. They just had strong belief and determination in their own personal power to change things. Educate and inform yourself. This might sound like hard work, but if you're serious about implementing positive change, it's important to be as knowledgeable as possible on it, otherwise people won't take you seriously. Plus if it's something you're truly passionate about, then you will most likely find the motivation to do this. Ignorance is not your friend! Enlighten others about your knowledge and causes. (Tell your story) Yet, understand that not everyone shares the same priorities as you, though they might still support your cause of choice. If everyone's main priority was the environment, and they all devoted their energy to it, there would be a serious imbalance in other areas, which could lead to disaster! Don't criticize people if they don't agree, just try to spread awareness. A lot of positive change has occurred when enough people have become aware and educated about world issues. Create Happiness Explore your options for leaving a legacy of sustainable happiness. Your happiness should not be based on your achievements. Contentment (satisfaction) is the way forward. Teach the upcoming generation to be satisfied with their current position while planning and working towards achieving a better future. Hard work does not kill it mays people stronger and pays off.

You can accomplish any goal as long as you try hard and never give up hope. Please don't doubt yourself. You have been equip by God to achieve your goals. Go for it.

My name is Favour Ojo-Omoniyi and I’m your host for today’s episode on what is your story? Where we’   talking with great minds and achievers and experts in their field. I’m really happy to have one of the leaders of the industry and a good mentor Mrs. Mandy Olowu. Mrs. Mandy is the founder/president of Hope Ambassadors & ChildCare Organization is a faith-based non-profit organization They provide succor and care for the needs of the poor specifically orphans, less privileged and physically handicapped children. Its mission is to exemplify the love of God by meeting the needs of these children spiritually, physically, and emotionally. Make sure to listen to the end where Mrs. Mandy shares her story and what her organization has done to make our world a better place. The sponsor for this show is Young Productive Mind Initiatives.  Young Productive Mind (YPMI)  Initiative is a network of adorable, loveable, influential, goodhearted, and concerned members of society. We care about the well-being of the people, especially the children, youth, and women, and would do everything possible within our capacity to ensure that underprivileged children are nurtured and that youth and women are empowered so that they can be what God has created them to be and to contribute maximally to the development of self and their societies. To learn more go to visit our social media pages, Instagram, FB, and LinkedIn.

What narrative have you constructed from the events of your life? And do you know that this is the single most important question you can ask yourself? Your story could help someone somewhere to be a better person and it will also help you to where where you are heading. So what is your story?

How to Find Your Purpose in Life Are you struggling to discover your purpose? That may be because you feel isolated from other people. Here's how you can overcome that. Here are six ways to overcome isolation and discover your purpose in life. 1. Read 2. Turn hurts into healing for others 3. Cultivate awe, gratitude 4. Listen to what other people appreciate about you 5. Find and build community 6. Tell your story

What is it? Signs, Effects, How to stop it. Listen to this podcast and ask questions. You can also make suggestions. What is bad parenting? There are some things that are generally considered “bad” by anyone. Physical abuse, neglect, emotional abuse, and sexual abuse are the most serious and damaging behavior traits that most of us equate with bad parenting. These are things that should be immediately addressed with professional help. But beyond child abuse and neglect, there are also things that parents may do or say that can, even unintentionally, lead to adverse outcomes for a child. Recognizing whether you’re doing those things can help you to feel better about your parenting. Taking an honest assessment of your parenting style isn’t always an easy task. That’s why it’s important to first separate the behavior from the person. Calling yourself or someone else a “bad parent” isn’t something to jump to based on a difference in beliefs or parenting style. It’s also important to recognize there is a difference between having a bad moment and being a bad parent. Losing your temper every once in a while is not the same as telling your child, “I’m smart, and you’re dumb” or “I’m right, you’re wrong, and there’s nothing you can do about it.” Although some people disagree on what is “good” or “bad” parenting, most parents have both positive and negative parenting traits.

Child abuse is not just physical violence directed at a child. It is any form of maltreatment by an adult, which is violent or threatening for the child. This includes neglect. When child abuse occurs in the home and the abuser is, for example, the child's parent or care-giver, this is a form of domestic violence .