The Person You Married Is Not the Person You Will Divorce

On this episode, we dive into the unspoken battles of parenting styles, those subtle power struggles that can cause massive rifts plus the untold toll of sports obsession and how communities or the lack of them shape your sanity. Imagine trying to parent while simultaneously keeping your marriage from turning into a hockey rink or a battle over school choices you’ll see exactly how these little stuffers become giants. You'll discover how men’s primal reactions to hurt trigger kind of a “protector or selfish” debate, and how moms instinctively give up their needs to show love, often without even thinking. We also explore what happens when couples face different visions of the future like kids and their big life decisions and why most don’t really talk about these conflicts until it’s too late. This isn’t just a vent session it's a masterclass in understanding the silent struggles, massive sacrifices, and emotional gymnastics that turn “normal” families into overbooked, overwhelmed, secretly exhausted warriors. Or, more simply: why parenting isn’t just about the kids it’s about surviving the chaos while keeping your sanity. Perfect for anyone in a relationship, grappling with parenting disagreements, or just wondering why your life feels like a sitcom, this episode will leave you nodding, laughing, and maybe even feeling a little less alone. Because when it comes down to it, we’re all just trying to get through the day without losing our minds or our partners. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode isn’t just about sports, it’s about life lessons, how to navigate adult hypocrisy, and why following rules too early in life is overrated. Plus, tips on how to keep your sense of humor when your kid’s team is “pay-to-play,” and why modesty still makes Canadian hockey players charming (yes, really).Perfect for parents who are tired of the fake rules society keeps forcing on us, and parents who just want a good laugh before their next hockey game or PTA meeting. Whether you’re dodging hockey secrets, trying to teach your kid to give respect, or just wondering if everyone else is as confused as you are, this episode’s your new parenting cheat code.Think of it as the comedy you need to survive the chaos, with a side of hockey stats and childhood truths that will make you smile and nod knowingly. Ready to laugh in the face of the rules society told you to follow? Hit play—and remember, sometimes you gotta fake it till you make it... with a little humor on the side. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode dives into the real reasons our kids are glued to their phones (hint: dopamine addiction, not FOMO) and how to rewire their brains for satisfaction in real life, not just social media scrolls. We break down the science behind purpose, confidence, and responsibility with practical hacks like Saturday team chores, meaningful responsibilities, and how to teach kids courage by making mistakes.You’ll discover:Why “doing nothing” is the root of brain fog and anxiety—and how purpose is the antidoteSimple routines to turn procrastination into productivity (without yelling)The secret to building resilience and confidence through small, manageable risksHow to get your kids to love chores by framing them as teamwork, not punishmentThe one thing missing from most kids’ days that’s leaving them anxious and aimlessIgnore this advice at your peril—because if you don’t teach kids to handle frustration, failure, and responsibilities now, they’ll be lost in the adult world flailing for purpose. If you're over the chaos, ready to raise resilient, independent little humans who know their worth without constant validation, this episode is your new parenting playbook.Perfect for exhausted parents craving sanity, teens craving independence, and anyone tired of the endless “Why won’t they just do it” battle.Bonus: We’re dropping science-backed strategies, real-life stories, and no-nonsense tips to make parenting feel less like a war and more like a team sport. Tune in—your future self (and your kids) will thank you.Sign up for our newsletter, or check out archive newsletters here: https://thecap.beehiiv.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this rollercoaster episode, Cat & Nat peel back the curtain on their wild postpartum journeys, complete with lingerie in the delivery room, mini Oreos for survival, and unbelievable hospital stories. You’ll discover: how perfectionist control falls apart in the first six months, the shocking reality of sleep training and weight loss expectations, and the crazy things we did to feel in control, like wardrobe planning for after birth. We break down the unspoken chaos of new motherhood, the mental health lows no one talks about, and the importance of asking are you okay? but in a non creepy way  before the dark thoughts take over.This isn’t your typical “she’s fine, she’s tired” postpartum chat. It’s a raw, hilarious look at the real struggles behind the Instagram perfect scenes, because if you think parenthood is just cuddles and cute photos, think again. The stakes? Missing out on your own sanity if you don’t talk about it. Finding humor and hope among the chaos because you’re not alone in the trenches.Perfect for expecting moms, new parents, or anyone who’s ever wondered if they’re just losing it, spoiler: you’re not alone. Tune in if you want a life-saving dose of reality, a few belly laughs, and the reminder that sometimes, just surviving the day is an epic victory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Midlife isn’t halfway to death. It’s when you stop pretending. Your energy shifts. Your body changes. Your parents start aging. Your kids need you differently. The things that once felt like a huge deal… just aren’t. Caring for aging parents changes you. Perspective shows up whether you asked for it or not.Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredCome see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Are you a parent that is struggling understanding the online world, setting healthy screen-time limits, or navigating harmful online content? Purchase screen sense for $24.99 & unlock Cat & Nat’s ultimate guide to parenting in the digital age. Go to https://www.thecommonparent.com/screen-sense-complete-guideFollow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentMake sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There is a shift in parenting older kids. The roles, the routines, even the purpose. Do we need a club? Hobbies? A retirement home for people our age? We ask ourselves the three questions every mom should ask. Weigh in and let us know your answers!This podcast is presented by The Common Parent. The all-in-one parenting resource you need to for your teens & tweens. We've uncovered every parenting issue, so you don't have too.Are you a parent that is struggling understanding the online world, setting healthy screen-time limits, or navigating harmful online content? Purchase screen sense for $24.99 & unlock Cat & Nat’s ultimate guide to parenting in the digital age. Go to https://www.thecommonparent.com/screen-sense-ebook Follow @thecommonparent on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonparent/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Remember when you were young and had a crush...you hung out with the same friend group, drank a bit, made out a little, and suddenly you were together. Basically, if you were talking to someone, you were dating them. Fast forward to today and we genuinely don’t understand the rules anymore. If we were single and dating a man our age (or younger!), we’d 100% still be playing by the old-fashioned rules. The question is, would he be doing the same!?Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredCome see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Are you a parent that is struggling understanding the online world, setting healthy screen-time limits, or navigating harmful online content? Purchase screen sense for $24.99 & unlock Cat & Nat’s ultimate guide to parenting in the digital age. Go to https://www.thecommonparent.com/screen-sense-complete-guideFollow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentMake sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Divorce is an act of courage. It takes bravery to choose a different life, especially when kids are involved. Women aren’t leaving because they’re giving up — they’re leaving because they believe they deserve happiness and want to model healthy relationships for their children. It's a complicated decision. No one prepares you for this. And the person you married is not the person you divorce!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredCome see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Are you a parent that is struggling understanding the online world, setting healthy screen-time limits, or navigating harmful online content? Purchase screen sense for $24.99 & unlock Cat & Nat’s ultimate guide to parenting in the digital age. Go to https://www.thecommonparent.com/screen-sense-complete-guideFollow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentMake sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We sat down with Antigone Davis, Global Head of Safety at Meta, to talk about what online safety for teens really looks like these days. With 83% of Canadian parents supporting app-store age verification, it’s clear families want practical ways to keep teens safe online. Antigone breaks down how Meta’s Teen Accounts give kids meaningful protections while keeping parents involved. She also shares why collaboration between parents, teens, and tech companies is so important for supporting young people and helping families feel more confident for the digital years ahead. For further information on Meta's Family Center visit https://familycenter.meta.com/ca.This podcast is presented by The Common Parent. The all-in-one parenting resource you need to for your teens & tweens. We've uncovered every parenting issue, so you don't have too.Are you a parent that is struggling understanding the online world, setting healthy screen-time limits, or navigating harmful online content? Purchase screen sense for $24.99 & unlock Cat & Nat’s ultimate guide to parenting in the digital age. Go to https://www.thecommonparent.com/screen-sense-complete-guideFollow @thecommonparent on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonparent/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re talking about desire — where it started and where it went. Has our definition of sexual desire changed over time… or did life just get in the way? Nat used to be a full-on walking horndog but the mental load of motherhood kind of got in the way. We want to know, does desire disappear when kids are little but then come roaring back when they leave the house? Or does empty nesting just put a giant spotlight on your relationship with zero excuses left?Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredCome see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Are you a parent that is struggling understanding the online world, setting healthy screen-time limits, or navigating harmful online content? Purchase screen sense for $24.99 & unlock Cat & Nat’s ultimate guide to parenting in the digital age. Go to https://www.thecommonparent.com/screen-sense-complete-guideFollow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentMake sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.