The Cost of Holding It All Together

So many of us are praised for being the one who never falls apart — the reliable one, the calm one, the one who “handles everything.”But what no one talks about is the cost of holding it all together.In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, I'm exploring what really happens — emotionally and physically — when strength becomes a survival strategy instead of a choice. This isn’t about burnout as a buzzword. It’s about the quiet erosion that happens when emotions are swallowed, needs are postponed, and composure is rewarded more than honesty.Inside this episode, we unpack:What “holding it all together” actually means in the nervous systemWhy being the strong one leads to emotional numbness, tension, and resentmentHow unexpressed emotions get stored in the bodyThe hidden impact of people-pleasing, emotional labor, and self-abandonmentWhy softness isn’t weakness — it’s nervous system repairThis conversation is for anyone who looks capable on the outside but feels exhausted, disconnected, or quietly angry on the inside. If you’ve ever felt like rest has to be earned, support has to be justified, or softness feels unsafe — this episode will land deep.If this episode resonated and you want to continue theconversation or support your nervous system beyond the podcast:🌿 Join Jennifer Grove’s online community for ongoing support and real conversations🧠Take the Anger Archetype Quiz to understand how unexpressed anger shows up in your body🕯 Watch the Unclench Workshop to release stored tension🌬 Explore the Pressure Release Toolkit for practical, everyday nervous system care Follow Jen on social for daily grounding and gentletruth-telling: Instagram • Threads • TikTok • Facebook • LinkedIn • Pinterest • X🎥 Subscribe on YouTube for extended content🌐Visit www.jgrovewellness.com to learn more

If your body feels tense, heavy, or weirdly overwhelmed the minute December arrives — you’re not alone, and you’re definitely not broken. In today’s episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, we’re unpacking why your nervous system braces for December long before the holiday chaos actually begins.This isn’t just stress.It’s stored memory.It’s emotional patterning.It’s the survival version of you saying, “Oh no… this month again.”We’ll talk about:Why holiday pressure triggers the nervous systemThe emotional and physical signs your body is bracingHow unresolved stress from past Decembers shows up in the presentThe connection between perfectionism, people-pleasing, and holiday survival modeWhy your body isn’t resisting joy — it’s resisting performanceThis episode sets the tone for December — a month where we stop faking “holiday magic” and start listening to the truth our bodies have been holding.If you’ve ever felt exhausted by expectations, overstimulation, family energy, gift-giving, forced joy, or emotional labor during the holidays… this one is for you.

Softness isn’t weakness — it’s neuroscience. In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, I'm breaking down why unclenching is a strategic move for women who feel overextended, overwhelmed, or secretly angry. Learn how nervous system safety improves clarity, performance, emotional regulation, and long-term success.Perfect for anyone craving relief, realignment, and a deeper exhale.✨ The Pressure Release ToolkitYour 3-day path back to softness, safety, and self-trust.Follow Jennifer Grove on social: ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠,⁠Pinterest⁠, ⁠LinkedIn⁠Subscribe to our ⁠YouTube ChannelWebsite: www.jgrovewellness.com

Most people think relaxation is something you do after exhaustion.But what if unclenching isn’t a reward… it’s the strategy that makes everything else work?In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, we’re diving into the nervous system truth no one ever taught us:✨ Strategy without safety collapses.You’ll learn:🌿 Why chronic tension keeps you stuck in survival mode🌿 What actually happens in your brain and body when you unclench🌿 How nervous-system safety increases clarity, creativity, and capacity🌿 Simple micro-practices you can use today to shift from bracing → regulated🌿 How women unintentionally “perform calm” and what to do insteadThis episode blends science, softness, and somatic wisdom — grounded in how your nervous system actually works. By the end, you’ll understand why unclenching isn’t indulgent, lazy, or optional… it’s leadership.If you’ve been waking up tense, overthinking everything, or feeling like rest never seems to “work” — this one’s for you.💛 Want to take this deeper?Grab The Pressure Release Toolkit — my gentle 3-day nervous system reset designed to help you unclench, exhale, and operate from true internal safety.Subscribe so you never miss an episode — and if this lands, send it to the woman in your life who’s been holding it all together for too long.

If your body feels more like a performance to manage than aplace to land… this episode is for you.I unpack what it means to stop treating your body like achecklist, and start treating it like home. I share my own story of chronic tension, emotional over functioning, and the moment I finally learned to stop fixing and start listening.You’ll walk away with a new lens on nervous-systemregulation — not as self-care, but as strategy — plus a gentle practice to help you start softening right now.In this episode, you’ll learn:🌿Why your body isn’t a project to fix — and how to stop managing it like one🌿What chronic clenching really signals in the nervous system🌿How softening creates safety, clarity, and emotional bandwidth🌿A 60-second nervous system reset to try in real time🌿A nervous-system-first alternative to burnout healingMentioned in this episode:✨The Pressure Release Toolkit — your daily anchor forregulation, release, and return✨Follow Jen on Instagram: @jenniferjgrove✨Explore coaching + retreats: jgrovewellness.comListener Reflection Prompt:💬“What would shift if I stopped trying to manage my body — and started learning from it?”Subscribe & Review:If this episode softened something in you, share it with a friend and leave a review. Your words help more people unclench and come home to themselves.

Most people think self‑care means bubble baths and time offafter burnout.But unclenching — the conscious release of held tension — is not recovery.It’s strategy.In this episode, I'm reframing nervous‑system regulation as aform of embodied leadership — a way to make clearer decisions, deepen connection, and sustain creativity without self‑betrayal.Join the JGroveWellness online community here:Follow on social: ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠, ⁠Pinterest⁠,⁠LinkedIn⁠Subscribe to our ⁠YouTube ChannelSign up for the Unclench workshop

Welcome back to Gettin’ In The Grove — today’s episode is for the visionaries, the builders, and the creators who are tired ofpushing through pressure. If you’ve ever felt like creativity only comes after clenching, bracing, or grinding… this episode is your permission slip to do it differently.We explore how safety — not stress — fuels sustainable,soul-aligned creation. You’ll hear a personal story, nervous-system science, and practical ways to soften your way into productivity that doesn’t cost your peace.✨ Learn how your nervous system holds the key to your best ideas✨ Understand why your energy imprints your work✨ Discover gentle rituals to create without burning outAnd if you're ready to shift from overwhelm to flow, jointhe waitlist for the Pressure Release Toolkit — my go-to regulation guide for creators who want to build from a calm, grounded place.Your next big idea doesn’t need to be forced. It needs to befelt.I want to invite you to join my online community here by following me on social media: ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠,⁠Pinterest⁠, ⁠LinkedIn.⁠Subscribe to my ⁠YouTube ChannelOr check out my website: www.jgrovewellness.com

You don’t need another self-care checklist — you need somewhere to exhale.In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove I am unpacking the real science behind why venting isn’t weak — it’s regulation.🌿 Learn how releasing emotion through voice, breath, or tears signals safety to the nervous system🌿 Discover how pressure builds in the body when you suppress your truth🌿 Explore simple somatic techniques to calm your system in real time✨ Join The Soft Return — My 4-day private Voxer coaching experience — to release, rest, and remember who you are underneath the tension.DM “SOFT” or visit here to join.Join Jennifer Grove’s online community hereFollow Jennifer Grove on social: ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠,⁠Pinterest⁠, ⁠LinkedIn⁠Subscribe to our ⁠YouTube Channel

Rest isn’t something you earn. It’s something your body needs to survive. In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, I break down the lie we’ve been sold — that worthiness comes from productivity — and share what real support looks like when you’re exhausted from holding it all together.We’ll explore:✨ Why rest is nervous system medicine, not laziness✨ The difference between performance-based strength and genuine support✨ How to reclaim rest as your right, not a prize you’re chasing💌 If you’re ready to soften, exhale, and finally unclench — join The Soft Return, my 4-day voice-note based coaching experience. Enrollment closes Monday, October 27.👉 DM me “RETURN” or tap the link in the show notes to join.

You’ve probably been told that growth means doing more — more posting, more pushing, more performing. But what if that’s the very thing keeping you stuck?In this episode, I’m getting real about the truth no one talks about: growth isn’t about adding more pressure — it’s about releasing it. I’ll share how tightening your focus, listening to your nervous system, and unclenching from the chaos actually amplifies your magnetism.We’ll talk about the moment I stopped throwing spaghetti at the wall, the single shift that changed how I attract clients and clarity, and why your next level doesn’t require more effort… just more alignment.✨ Listen if you’re ready to grow through softness, not struggle. Take the quiz + join waitlist.Join my online community here:Follow Jennifer Grove on social: ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠,⁠Pinterest⁠, ⁠LinkedIn⁠Subscribe to the ⁠YouTube Channel