Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People | Rewind

When you’re deep in a relationship, it can be hard to tell if you’re fighting for something worth saving—or holding on to something that’s slowly breaking you down.In this episode, Matthew shares 3 powerful questions that will help you see your relationship more clearly and know whether it’s time to stay or walk away. You’ll also learn the “dark pairing” traits that quietly erode your confidence and happiness over time—and how to spot them before it’s too late.If you’ve ever felt stuck in the fog of confusion, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to make the right choice for your peace of mind and self-respect.---►► Matthew Hussey’s free Three Relationships newsletter isn’t just about dating—it’s about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com►► Get access to my Black Friday special TODAY: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, where you can get your specific dating and relationship questions answered 24/7! Sign up now at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if tiny habits could completely change your love life? In this week’s Love Life Podcast, we break down the small, everyday actions that quietly create more confidence, more connection, and way more opportunity. You’ll learn about “micro missions” that can lead to new friendships, relationships, or simply a more fulfilling day, plus other simple shifts that make dating feel lighter and more intentional. We also answer a Love Life Line question about knowing when a relationship is genuinely right for you, followed by a new round of “Steve’s Sleeves” on the bad habits that can hold us back. ---►► Get access to my Black Friday special TODAY: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, where you can get your specific dating and relationship questions answered 24/7! Sign up now at AskMH.com►► Join the waitlist for Sync, our AI-driven matchmaking app for intentional daters, at TalkToSync.com ►► For Love Life listeners, Cure is offering 20% off your first order! Stay hydrated and feel your best by visiting curehydration.com/LOVELIFE and using promo code LOVELIFE at checkout! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week’s episode looks at why even highly intuitive people can miss the signs of a partner living a double life. I share the story of a woman who spent 17 years in a marriage without suspecting a thing—not because she wasn’t perceptive, but because love can dull the very instincts meant to protect us.I also break down the psychological trapdoors that make us overlook what’s right in front of us. The goal isn’t to make you suspicious; it’s to help you trust those moments of quiet discomfort instead of dismissing them. If something has ever felt “off,” this video will help you understand why.---►► Answers Tailored to You, In Real Time, When You Need Them Most. Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question Now at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever feel like you’re stuck dating people who never fully show up?Maybe they’re avoidant, inconsistent, or just not ready for real commitment—yet somehow, you keep holding on, hoping things will change.In this episode, Matthew unpacks why we get attached to people who can’t give us what we need and how to break free from that pattern for good. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your self-worth, spot emotional unavailability early, and start saying “no” faster—so you can finally say “yes” to something real.---►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed, for FREE at GetCommitment.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is love really easier to find in Chicago than in Los Angeles? Or is it all in how you show up? In this week’s all-new Love Life episode, we unpack the myths and realities of dating in different cities—and what your zip code might (or might not) have to do with your love life.Plus, we tackle a Love Life Line question from a listener in her 50s who’s navigating the tricky waters of dating men who prefer much younger partners. Is this a red flag, or should she keep an open mind?---►► If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving more than you’re getting, this free Masterclass is for you. Discover how to turn something casual into something real at getcommitment.com  ►► Give the gift of comfort that lasts well beyond the holidays. Head to cozyearth.com and use code LOVELIFE to get 40% off before December 12 . . . the perfect time for holiday shopping! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode tackles a topic that’s as raw as it is real: “I no longer want to hear dating advice from conventionally attractive people.”That line, from a recent British Vogue article, struck a chord with many people, and for good reason. So much dating advice comes from people who’ve never had to face what it’s like to be overlooked or rejected again and again. When you’ve never had to climb from the bottom of the mountain, “just be confident” isn’t advice . . . it’s a reminder of how far the gap really is.This week, we’ll explore what dating looks like when the playing field isn’t level, and how rejection shapes our self-worth. It’s not about bitterness—it’s about honesty, empathy, and finding strength in our own story.---►► Find Your Person WITHOUT Having to Go Through All the Wrong People to Get There. Save Your Spot in My Free 60-Minute Training, Dating With Results at DatingWithResults.com►► Get Stephanie's Books at amazon.com/Fattily-Ever-After-Living-Unapologetically/dp/1784883441 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why do we get so in our heads when we start dating someone new? In this episode, we dive deep into the most common fears people face in early dating — from getting too invested too soon, to navigating intimacy and exclusivity when someone’s seeing multiple people.With over 1,300 comments from listeners sharing their biggest dating anxieties, we unpack the most relatable ones and offer real, practical ways to reframe them. You’ll hear us talk about:What it really means when someone wants intimacy but avoids emotional connectionHow to slow down without feeling like you’re “falling behind”Why obsession isn’t chemistry — and how to trust yourself more in the processThe mindset shift that turns “what if I get hurt?” into “what if I stay grounded?”If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking a text, reading too much into mixed signals, or getting attached too fast — this one’s for you.---►► Looking for love, clarity, or a fresh perspective? Matthew’s weekly newsletter dives into insights that transform not just your relationships, but your entire life. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Long-distance love can be beautiful . . . or it can slowly drive you insane. In this week’s Love Life Podcast episode, we talk about how to know the difference.Are you in something real, or just filling a void? We’ll unpack what makes distance work: from actually planning to see each other to noticing when communication starts feeling one-sided. You’ll learn the signs your relationship is moving forward with real intention vs. when you’re being kept around for comfort or convenience.Plus, don’t miss a hilarious round of “Steve’s Sleeves” on what’s essential, nice to have, or totally unhinged in long-distance love.---►► Try Matthew AI for 24/7 coaching and advice anytime at AskMH.com►► Join the Love Life community and get monthly coaching at LoveLifeClub.com►► Love the podcast? Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to help spread the word! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here’s a really tricky part about dating: The moment you realize you like someone, it can feel like everything’s riding on winning them over. But what really makes you magnetic isn’t trying harder . . . it’s showing up as your confident, authentic self, and bringing your own value to the table without overthinking.In this episode, I break down how to shift your mindset so you stay grounded and relaxed, even when your feelings feel super strong. Don’t miss this key to creating a real connection that lasts!---►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed for FREE at GetCommitment.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at LoveLifeBook.com►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at MHWeekendRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Few things hurt more than watching someone you love move on. When the person you thought was “the one” starts building a new life without you, it can feel impossible to breathe, let alone imagine loving again.In this episode, Matthew shares a powerful step-by-step approach to healing after heartbreak—especially when your ex has found someone new. You’ll learn how to stop comparing, regain your confidence, and rebuild your sense of worth so you can open your heart again when the time is right.---►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at AskMH.com►► Join the Love Life Club at JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.