They May Think They Know You-But It's All An Interpretation [Ep. 800]

In today’s episode of The Ashley Berges Show, I’m deep diving into something we don’t talk about enough: how we only understand ourselves. We have people in our lives, such as partners, parents, siblings, and best friends, but even they can only interpret what they think we say or feel. They can’t fully grasp what we’re going through internally. I’m exploring what it means to truly know yourself, how we continue to learn about who we are, and why outside perspectives, even well-meaning ones, often fall short.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.

Welcome to The Ashley Berges Show. Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s more relevant than ever: gaslighting. It’s showing up everywhere, in our personal lives, professional environments, and across the media. In this episode, I examine how constant manipulation affects us, particularly when it begins at home and resonates throughout every other aspect of life. I break down what gaslighting means, how to recognize it, and why it’s crucial to call it out. Additionally, I explore the various types of gaslighting, enabling you to be able to identify the patterns and safeguard your well-being. Don’t miss this important podcast that can help you reclaim your voice and your reality.           Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.

On today’s episode of The Ashley Berges Show, I invite you to shift your focus from society’s distractions to real sources of peace, joy, and freedom. Are you overwhelmed by the news, social media, and life's personal pressures? Join me as I explore how our so-called small things may hold the deepest value, and how to reconnect with them. We’ll also take a closer look at the people and situations that bring unnecessary drama into your life. Once you start experiencing drama-free days and nights, you’ll realize just how good life can truly feel. Listen now for simple tools to practice gratitude, gain clarity, and create a more grounded, joyful, and drama-free life. It’s time to stop chasing what doesn’t matter and start embracing what truly does.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.

In order to safeguard yourself, you must be able to identify malignant narcissists that are in your personal life, family dynamic, work environment, and people you may listen to on the news, on social media, and in politics. A malignant narcissist believes they are above you and everyone else. They will say anything and do anything to you no matter the pain and suffering you will endure. They have no remorse and no empathy for your pain and suffering. For some listeners of this podcast, you will realize that you may be living with or have a family member or friend who fits this description in every way. We see malignant narcissists post on social media constantly. A recent example is the “8647” post by former FBI director James Comey. He put the post out and then deleted it after people called him on it. Then he lies about not knowing what it meantYou may have a malignant narcissist in your life who says anything they want to you, in order to safeguard yourself, you need to know the level of narcissist you are involved with in your life. This podcast is straightforward and covers all symptoms and signs of a malignant narcissist.  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.

What happens when Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder overlap? Many of us understand narcissism and some of us understand borderline. However, what do you do when you find yourself in a relationship with a person who exhibits both narcissistic and borderline signs and symptoms? These relationships began very different than they present currently. When you are dealing with straight boilerplate BPD and the person is working on self-awareness, it can be manageable and easier to understand their responses and reactions. However, when we put narcissism in the mix which includes manipulation, a lack of empathy, exploitation of others, being demeaning towards others, and having entitlement, it changes things. Many people with codependency tendencies find themselves in these relationships. Sadly due to the stress of these relationships most people feel as though they lose their identities and they are forever trying to get the approval of the other person and coming up short. Listen to this podcast to obtain a better understanding of the combination of the two, how it presents, and how it makes you feel. For more information on my work and coaching practice go to my website: www.ashleyberges.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.

It's time to stop your brain from talking you out of what really happened, what was really said, and what events actually transpired that day in your life. It’s interesting how we create narratives in our minds as to what happened in a given situation, we change and augment those events to better align with keeping our current situation to offset the feelings of fear or uncertainty. We allow this reality augmentation to occur when it comes to current overwhelming events, phenomena without logical answers, and in our interpersonal relationships. In this podcast, I am offering you solutions to remember things as they happened and how to put an end to the unhealthy loop of accepting manipulation and gaslighting. These techniques will empower you and help you to get out of the matrix of codependency and stop waisting your time in exhausting relationships loops.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.

An imbalanced relationship is a relationship where one of the two people in the relationship is held to a higher standard than the other. In these relationships, one person creates a set of rules for the relationship but the person that creates the rules doesn’t follow them. This creates a double standard within the relationship and puts one person in control and the other being controlled. This double standard leaves one feeling confused, used, and resentful. In the podcast, we examine what it feels like to be in this kind of relationship, positively identifying the signs and symptoms, and helping you understand what’s truly happening in this relationship dynamic.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.

Are you being manipulated or controlled mentally and emotionally by another person? Do you feel as though you can’t make your own choices and that everything you do is questioned and put under the microscope? When we identify manipulative and controlling behaviors in others, it helps us to understand what is taking place in our personal and professional relationships. In this podcast, I’m deep diving into the signs and symptoms of manipulative behavior, specific types of manipulation, specific patterns of behavior we see people display when manipulated others, how it affects us emotionally and mentally, and what you can do to safeguard yourself from the manipulation and mind control.  #manipulation #narcissism #control #BPD #manipulativebehavior #narcissistic #controlling #gaslightingBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.

Are you feeling more codependent in your personal relationship than ever before? Do you feel that you are being taken advantage of and feeling as though you are loosing your identity? Some relationships begin in a whirlwind style -fast and furious and then when the dust settles you begin to observe the ups and downs. You begin to see the extremes in the other person’s actions, attitudes, responses, and general attitude towards you. You may be on top of the pedestal one day and the very next day the worst person on the planet. They may be asking you for help or need your assistance with their latest problem. Whether it’s the sob stories that keep you engaged or giving you the silent treatment to trip you up, either way you feel as though you have a second job, and that job is this current relationship. If you have wanted out but can’t seem to get out of your current relationship, and you are feeling taken advantage of and stuck, you need to listen to this podcast. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.

Many of us suffer or have previously suffered with self-limiting beliefs holding us back throughout our lives. As adults we either realize those beliefs exist or are unaware of their existence. We develop these self-limiting beliefs throughout childhood and they carry into our teen and adult lives impacting us daily.  Ashley is joined on the podcast by children’s author and hypnotherapist Jo Galloway. Jo realizes the impact self-limiting beliefs have on us as adults and she wants to stop them in their tracks for children. Jo is passionate about helping children break free from limiting beliefs by promoting positivity, mindfulness, and self-awareness. Together, they discuss the benefits of meditation for young children and the impact of negative self-talk on self-image. They also explore the importance of stopping these negative thoughts, something many adults wish they had learned as children. Jo shares her own true-life story with Ashley. Jo was raised in a good home, but false beliefs caused her to choose tough romantic relationships as an adult. While in a relationship with a malignant narcissist, Jo realized she deserved better. She left the relationship and took the time to understand herself and reprogram her false beliefs. Join Ashley and Jo as they explore ways to nurture a strong, positive mindset in children, fostering lifelong mental well-being. Jo's Official Website: www.LittleBlueZen.com  Facebook: @LittleBlueZen Instagram: @Little.Blue.Zen  YouTube channel @LittleBlueZenBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-ashley-berges-show--1272964/support.