90 | Why Visibility Feels Draining & How to Market Yourself Authentically Without Burning Out

Key Takeaways: 😅 1. What “Loser” Really Means (and Why I Own It) Why the name Likely Loser is more truth than clickbait. The world values loudness, constant visibility, and nonstop content... but God values faithfulness. 1 Corinthians 1:27 – “God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise...” Owning your pace, wiring, and voice is not weakness—it’s wisdom. 🤫 2. Why the Loud Way Isn’t the Only Way Just because it works for someone else doesn’t mean it was designed for you. Loud marketing often leads to fast attention, but not lasting trust. Introverted entrepreneurs thrive with thoughtful strategy, quiet confidence, and deep connection. Being soft-spoken doesn’t mean your message is weak—it means it's weighted with purpose. 🌿 3. When I Finally Stopped Performing How I broke up with the pressure to “do business like them.” What happened when I started marketing like me—with storytelling, service, and strategy rooted in Scripture. My audience didn’t shrink—it became stronger, more loyal, and more aligned. 🙌 Let’s Take Action: Audit Your Current Strategy: Are you doing anything in your business just because someone told you it was the “right” way? Circle it. Ask God This Question: “How have You uniquely designed me to lead and serve in business?” Then wait for the answer. Write a ‘Quiet Wins’ List: Celebrate every DM, conversation, testimonial, or email reply that proves your quiet method works. Declare This Out Loud: “I don’t need to be loud to be powerful. God’s favor is bigger than any formula.” What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]

Key Takeaway: 🧘‍♀️ 1. The Problem with Hustle & Hype Culture “Always be closing” culture = anxiety, burnout, and spiritual disconnection. Why Christian entrepreneurs often feel guilty about selling—and how that affects client attraction. Hype may attract attention, but consistency and connection close sales. God doesn't require you to hustle your way to provision—He blesses obedience. (Proverbs 10:22) 🌿 2. What Actually Works for Introverted, Faith-Driven Women Connection > performance: Focus on building genuine relationships. Be known for something simple and clear—your people will find you. Create content from your values, not from trends. Speak directly to pain points with empathy, not pressure. 🛠️ 3. Marketing That Doesn’t Feel Like Selling Share stories, not sales pitches: your transformation is a testimony. Use your strengths: writing, podcasting, 1:1 convos—whatever fits your wiring. Offer solutions with clarity: “Here’s how I can help and what it looks like to work with me.” Show up when you do have something to say, not just to stay relevant. (Less noise, more truth.) 🙌 Let's Take Action: Practical Steps to Get Clients Without the Grind Clarify Your Message What problem do you solve? Who do you help? Say it clearly and often. Post 1 Valuable Thing This Week One tip, one story, one call to action. Keep it simple, honest, and aligned. Reach Out Intentionally DM 3 people who’ve engaged with your content. Start a real convo—no pitch needed. Create a Clear Offer Page If someone said “I’m interested,” could you confidently send them one link with everything they need? If not, build it this week. What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]

Key Takeaways: 🚫 1. Christian-Sounding Lies We Tell Ourselves “I’m being patient and waiting on God.” → But it’s been 3 years and no action. Is it obedience or avoidance? “God hasn’t released me yet.” → Or have you just not taken the first step? “I don’t want to turn my gift into a business.” → Why not? Isn’t the laborer worthy of her wages? (Luke 10:7) “I just want to serve; I don’t need to get paid.” → That sounds holy, but you can’t serve well if you’re exhausted, under-resourced, or in survival mode. ✝️ 2. The Difference Between Humility and Hiding True humility submits your gift to God—not the fear of man. False humility says: “Who am I?” God says: “You are my workmanship.” (Ephesians 2:10) If God gave you a gift and you’re not using it, that’s not reverence. That’s rebellion wrapped in insecurity. (Ouch, I know.) 💰 3. Why Financial Increase Isn't Unholy God never equated poverty with holiness. Proverbs is full of wisdom about diligence, multiplication, and stewardship. You’re not meant to hoard wealth—but you are meant to create, manage, and multiply resources so you can bless others. God is your Source. Money is just a tool. Don’t confuse the two. 🔥 4. How to Stop Gaslighting Your Gift Call it what it is. Fear. Doubt. Misbelief. Then repent and renew your mind. Start taking faith-led action—even small steps. Shift your language: From → “I’m not ready.” To → “I’m showing up while I grow.” Surround yourself with truth-tellers who will lovingly call out your excuses. Invite God to rewire your thoughts about business, wealth, and calling. Let's Take Action: Journal this: What have I been calling “spiritual” that is actually rooted in fear? Where have I gaslit my gift, and what’s one step I can take this week to show up in bold obedience? What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]

 Key Takeaways: ⛓️ 1. The Permission Myth: Where It Comes From How upbringing, church culture, and fear of judgment quietly train us to wait. The danger of believing you need outside validation to start or grow your business. 🙌 2. What God Already Said About Your Calling Ephesians 2:10 – “For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works…” You were created on purpose, with purpose—and it’s not waiting on public approval. God doesn’t call the confident. He equips the called. 🔥 3. Using Your Gifts in Spite of Fear Start while shaking. Take imperfect action. Small obedience is still obedience. Your gift isn’t just for you—it’s for someone else’s breakthrough. Romans 11:29 – “For the gifts and the calling of God are irrevocable.” Let's Take Action Identify the one place you’ve been stuck waiting—then move anyway. Set micro-goals: one offer, one post, one person to serve this week. Practice prayer-led action, not people-led approval. Create a “God said I could” affirmation and repeat it daily. Encouragement for the Week: You don’t need a committee. You don’t need more time. You don’t need a big following. You just need to believe what God already said about you. Start now. You’re already approved. Scriptures to Meditate On: 📖 Galatians 1:10 – “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God?” 📖 2 Timothy 1:6–7 – “Fan into flame the gift of God… For God has not given us a spirit of fear…” 📖 Hebrews 10:35 – “So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded.” What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]

Key Takeaways: 😶 1. The Myth: You Have to Be Loud to Be Successful Why visibility doesn’t have to mean being everywhere or oversharing. God didn’t give you a quiet nature by accident—it’s a strength, not a flaw. 1 Thessalonians 4:11 – “Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life…” 💡 2. Quiet Confidence Converts Confidence doesn’t have to be noisy. It can be grounded, calm, and unshakable. People are drawn to clarity, not volume. Trust is built through consistency and authenticity, not charisma. 🎯 3. Practical Ways to Market When You'd Rather Stay Invisible Pick your platform. Choose one place you actually enjoy showing up. Create once, repurpose smartly. Use a blog, podcast, or email list to multiply your message. Let your content speak for you. Thoughtful, intentional content builds credibility. Use automation wisely. Schedule posts, send emails, etc. Try Metricool, Kajabi, and/or Zapier ✨ 4. Let Your Quiet Gift Shine Your strength is listening, empathy, reflection, and discernment. You’re not clueless—you’re intentional. That’s powerful in a noisy world. Marketing doesn’t have to drain you; it can be a sacred act of stewardship. Matthew 5:16 – “Let your light shine before others…” Your light, not someone else’s spotlight. Let's Take Action: This week, choose one marketing channel that fits your energy and ask: How can I show up with quiet clarity instead of loud consistency? Then, post something simple but meaningful—even if it’s just one sentence. Someone is waiting for your voice. What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]

In today's episode, we're unveiling a powerful tool that will help you pinpoint your niche in just one sentence. Get ready to gain clarity and focus like never before! We start by highlighting why defining your niche is crucial for success as a Christian entrepreneur. It's not about limiting yourself, but rather, it's about becoming a specialist in a field you're passionate about. I will introduce the concept of crafting a one-sentence niche statement and walk you through a step-by-step process to formulate your one-sentence niche statement. From identifying your passions to understanding your unique value proposition, you'll have a clear framework to follow. What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]

  Key Takeaways: 😔 1. The Root of Sales Rejection Fear Fear of rejection is often tied to a deeper fear of not being worthy, capable, or enough. Rejection can feel personal, but in business, it’s rarely about you—it’s about timing, fit, or need. As Christian entrepreneurs, our identity is secure in Christ, not in conversion rates. Galatians 1:10 – “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God?” 💬 2. How to Have Grace-Filled, Confident Sales Conversations Step 1: Lead with service, not pressure. Think, How can I help? Step 2: Ask questions before offering solutions. Understand their real needs. Step 3: Present the offer clearly. Explain what’s included, how it helps, and the results it creates. Step 4: Detach from the outcome. Whether they say “yes” or “no,” you’ve planted a seed. Step 5: Follow up with love, not desperation. Revisit the conversation without guilt or shame. 🙏 3. Tying Business Rejection to Spiritual Growth Rejection reveals where you may still be seeking validation outside of God. God can use “no” to redirect, refine, and refocus your purpose. Jesus Himself was rejected—by people He came to serve (John 1:11). You’re in good company. Romans 5:3-4 – “...we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope.” Every “no” can grow your character, clarify your calling, and deepen your dependence on Christ. 🛠️ 4. Mindset Shifts for Selling With Faith You’re not selling yourself—you’re offering a solution that God gave you to steward. The result is not up to you—it’s up to the Holy Spirit. Isaiah 55:11 – “So is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty...” Let each sales interaction be an act of obedience, not performance. Let's Take Action: Take one step today: 🎧 Reach out to a potential client with the intention of serving, not selling. Then journal this question: What fear do I need to surrender to God in this process? What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]

Key Takeaways: 😩 1. Why Visibility Feels Exhausting The pressure to perform or be “on” all the time is not sustainable or godly. Visibility often gets confused with being everywhere, rather than being impactful. As introverts, external noise drains us—especially when we’re trying to fit into someone else’s marketing mold. Social media algorithms and comparison can make us question our worth or relevance. 🔄 2. Reframe What Visibility Means Visibility ≠ performance. It means being findable by the people you're called to serve. Authentic marketing means showing up from your identity in Christ, not from striving. You don’t have to go viral—you need to be intentional and consistent. 💡 3. How to Market Authentically (Without Draining Your Energy) Choose marketing methods that match your natural energy (writing, 1:1 convos, podcasting). Batch content during your high-energy windows. Set boundaries around screen time and notifications. Use storytelling to connect deeply instead of constantly selling. Lean into quality over quantity—one honest message > 10 loud ones. 🧘‍♀️ 4. Self-Care in Marketing Prioritize prayer, rest, and scripture before opening social media. Don’t hustle to be seen—rest in the truth that God sees you. Take social media breaks and plan your return with intention. Use tools and automation to show up without always being present. Let's Take Action: This week, instead of trying to post more, pause and pray: 💭 “God, how do YOU want me to show up this week?” Then follow His lead—even if it looks quieter than the world expects./ What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]

Key Takeaways: 💬 1. The Power of Depth Over Width You don’t need 100 clients—you need a handful of the right ones. Deep relationships often lead to long-term clients, referrals, and brand advocates. Proverbs 18:24 – “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” 🤝 2. How to Build Meaningful One-on-One Connections Focus on listening more than speaking—clients feel seen and valued. Personalize communication: send voice notes, check-in emails, or handwritten cards. Ask thoughtful, open-ended questions that get to the heart of their needs. Be consistent—trust is built through small, repeated actions. 🌱 3. Nurturing Without Noise Use systems like email nurturing sequences, client check-ins, and feedback forms to keep communication personal and sustainable. Offer your presence—not just your product. Be a guide, not a salesman. Ecclesiastes 9:10 – “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might.” Excellence builds trust. 🔧 4. Tools and Boundaries for Introverted Relationship-Building Use scheduling tools to automate calls and follow-ups. Set clear office hours and communication expectations. Leverage Voxer, email, or async communication if live calls feel draining. Don’t force group settings—your 1:1 relationships are your superpower. Let's Take Action: Choose one current or past client and: ✅ Send them a personal message of encouragement or appreciation ✅ Ask how you can support them this week ✅ Watch how that simple act deepens the connection What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]

Key Takeaways: 🙏 1. God's Design for Work and Wealth Work is God’s idea—He placed Adam in the garden to work before sin entered the world (Genesis 2:15). Money is not evil; the love of money is (1 Timothy 6:10). God delights in blessing the work of our hands (Deuteronomy 28:12). 🙏 2. Why Keeping God at the Center Is Crucial Without God at the center, business can easily become an idol. Matthew 6:33 – “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Keeping God first ensures your business is an assignment, not just an ambition. 🙏 3. How to Stay God-Centered While Growing Your Business Start every workday with prayer and surrender: Invite God into your strategy, your sales, and your service. Align your offers with your values: Make sure your services/products help others in a way that honors Christ. Give generously: Practice tithing, giving to ministries, and being generous with your time and wisdom. Measure success differently: Celebrate faithfulness over fame, obedience over outcome. 🙏 4. Dealing with Money Mindset Blocks It’s okay to be compensated for the value you bring—it’s Biblical! 1 Corinthians 9:14 – “The Lord has commanded that those who preach the gospel should receive their living from the gospel.” Shift your view: Earning money allows you to bless others, support ministries, and steward resources well. Let's Take Action: Spend time in prayer this week asking: 💭 “God, what does it look like for me to honor You fully in my business?" Then make one intentional change—whether it's in your pricing, messaging, daily habits, or the way you celebrate wins. Encouraging Scripture: 📖 “Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” – Proverbs 16:3 📖 “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” – Colossians 3:23 What's Next: 1. FREE Top Ways To Get Clients 2. FREE 10-Minute Content Plan 3. JOIN a Like-Minded Community 4. START An Online Business To Email Us: [email protected]