The Homewrecker (a.k.a. the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Us) with Nikki Cosmic

In this episode I sit down with Rob’s new partner Nikki to discuss:  + is jealousy a part of our dynamic? + which one of us is the ‘third wheel’? + is Nikki the ‘homewrecker’? + the messy magic of our beautiful life + despacho ceremony we did on the Land + how Nikki & I both got out of long term relationships at the same time + Garden of Eden and falling in love with Rob + Nikki’s Ayahuasca experience   + how Nikki won the kids over + non conventional families in Costa Rica + Katya’s first experience with online dating + Akashic Records with Karla + what happened with A-man? + what’s happening with the Land?   CONFESSIONS OF A RECOVERING VEGAN  https://www.matriarch.love/confessions  IG: @nurturingnovas       @cosmic_conduit

In this episode: - what’s our life like in Costa Rica? - what happened with our ‘polyamory’ experiment - why we deleted the last 2 episodes of the podcast - ironic thing that happened in our relationship - what happened with my lover from 14 years ago? - did things ever get messy or ugly? - how an Ayahuasca ceremony changed everything - what happened at Garden of Eden - how Rob met the ‘second love of his life’ - is there such a thing as ‘right person wrong time?’ - epiphany on why our marriage ended - what veganism has to do with our relationship going stale - the ‘triangle’ with Nikki and why it works - honest reflections on polyamory - how clear boundaries are the key - sneak peek at what’s to come SAVE YOUR SEAT for "Confessions of a Recovering Vegan" https://www.matriarch.love/confessions Screenshot & tag us: @nurturingnovas

RECONNECTED PARENTING COURSE (affiliate link):  https://www.reconnectedbeing.life/a/22146/F2zrxfE6 get your free pass: MATRÎARCH.LOVE @nurturingnovas  @newearth.mama Discussed in the episode:  how reconnected parenting goes straight into triggers dealing with triggers in the online space Guru Jagat on being energetic beings & having authority to say no from full time ballet, to modeling, to spinning out of control in London anxiety as spiritual disconnection on hitting the wildest rock bottom longing for ritual and finding it in church “Many Lives, Many Masters” book we’re always given doors, are we going to trust we’re given guidance? what resistance to expansion means on plant medicine on Birth & trying to escape the pain miracles showing up when you can’t afford something magic of rebirthing breathwork the story of ‘first breath’ & what we spend our entire lives chasing working with air element on coming from our own childhood pain and projecting onto our children what is ours and what are we carrying? wow children organically process & why we don’t do that as adults why Emma doesn’t share challenging moments with her kids on social media on being adaptable and fluid rather than in control on moving through poverty consciousness Lacy Phillips: unlocking subconscious beliefs Chrissie’s Manifestrix Course on witnessing our ancestral line? non-linear movement: breath work for the body Liz Koch “Wild Psoas” Peter Levine “Body Keeps the Score” on sensuality, pleasure, being touched out Michaela Boehm Aimee Ripsnorter intimacy of receiving

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Did Katya have the ‘orgasmic’ birth she wanted? Find out as Katya and her dear friend Emilee of Free Birth Society take a deep dive into the beautiful birth story of Aluna Maria, Katya & Rob’s third child. Don’t forget to check out the link in @nurturingnovas instagram bio to see their unique 3-minute birth film. SEE 3-MIN BIRTH FILM: https://fknhoney.ck.page/fccafd0f17 HONEYTALKSPODCAST.COM @freebirthsociety @nurturingnovas

We’re about to learn how our understanding of human sexuality has suffered due to a couple of centuries of bad science, why ‘promiscuity’ has no scientific merit, what bonobos have to do with our sex lives and who struggles more with monogamy? (The answer may surprise you) … We’ll also find out … are women really less sexual? are females wired for monogamy? what is the orgasm gap? And the sexual entitlement gap? And how do we get into Skirt Club? and more. Our PATREON https://www.patreon.com/honeytalks FKNHONEY.COM https://fknhoney.com/ @FKNHONEY  https://www.instagram.com/fknhoney/ HONEYTALKSPODCAST.COM https://www.honeytalkspodcast.com/ Follow Dr. Wednesday Martin: @wednesdaymartinphd True Sex & Wild Love Podcast discussed in this episode: - a couple of centuries of “bad science” - are women less sexual? - are females wired for monogamy? - Dr. Martin’s biggest realization (we desensitize to stimuli over time) - who struggles more with monogamy? (The answer may surprise you) - what do bonobos have to do with human female sexuality? - a hope for matriarchy - why ‘promiscuity’ has no scientific merit - the remarkable clitoris - what is the orgasm gap? - sexual entitlement gap? - CNM … consensual non monogamy - what is Skirt Club? - why sexual fluidity was my biggest takeaway - surprising truth about sexual fluidity in men     - Jane Goodall, Sarah Hrdy book “Mother Nature”, Dr. Amy Parish - True Sex Wild Love - Whitney Miller - Sex at Dawn - David Lay - Open Love NY  - Cari Jenkins book - Lisa Diamond - Elizabeth Gilbert “City of Girls” - “Sexual Life of Catherine M” - Dr. Martin’s book “The Button” - column for Refinery … Samson bullet? - Cindy Gallo - Erika Lust

Lacey & Flynn introduce us to SEX ELEVATED, and share how they are able to have unusually amazing sex, tell us the ONE thing we all need to put on the shelf next to the bed, how to use sex as a tool / practice, how sex is like yoga, why we resist & make excuses, what the heck ‘simple sex’ is, how to use sex to manifest things, and how to generally bump up the saturation on your life! We love them so. You will too. Support us on PATREON https://www.patreon.com/honeytalks FKNHONEY.COM https://fknhoney.com/ @FKNHONEY  https://www.instagram.com/fknhoney/ SEX ELEVATED 6-WEEK ONLINE COURSE: https://www.laceyhaynes.com/sex-elevated  USE CODE: HONEYTALKS10 for 10% off Discussed in the episode: - how to have unusually amazing sex - the one thing we all need to put on the shelf next to the bed - intimacy for couples with kids - a simple way to learn each other’s bodies - sex as a tool or practice - how sex is like yoga - why do we resist & make excuses - how to use sex to manifest things! - ‘moistness’ as a way of being - on dominance in bed - what is simple sex? - how to bring your partner on board - how to bump the saturation on your life   @verylacey https://www.instagram.com/verylacey/

Our PATREON https://www.patreon.com/honeytalks FKNHONEY.COM https://fknhoney.com/ @FKNHONEY  https://www.instagram.com/fknhoney/ HONEYTALKSPODCAST.COM https://www.honeytalkspodcast.com/ Trystan's (@biffandi) story went viral as he became known as the man who gave birth - but his story is so much more than that. In this episode, he shares: how he fell in love with Biff, how to keep the spark alive with 3 kids, how to use gender neutral pronouns correctly, what it’s like to tear at the fabric of sexism & ignorance, his favourite advice from our favourite relationship therapist Esther Perel; we also talk about harassment, mommy wars & judgement, misinformation around trans fertility, and the ONE thing that can change the quality of life of a trans person. @biffandi instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biffandi/ website: https://www.biffandi.com/   Discussed in this episode:   - tearing at the fabric of sexism - on falling in love - on harassment, mommy wars & judgement - the ONE thing that can change the quality of life of a trans person - misinformation around trans fertility - using gender neutral pronouns correctly - how to keep the spark alive with 3 kids - favourite advice from Esther Perl - how to name your desires

I’m 40 weeks pregnant with our 3rd baby, Aluna, and I have the incredible honour of sitting down with Emilee & Yolande of Free Birth Society.  The truth, as we’re about to find out, is that women’s bodies are brilliantly made, our babies are wise, birth is inherently safe, and, in Yolande’s words, birth is not a laborious trial from which we need deliverance, but a glorious, normal, biologically & psychologically important initiation into motherhood. Our PATREON https://www.patreon.com/honeytalks FKNHONEY.COM https://fknhoney.com/ FREEBIRTH COURSE https://freebirthsociety.thinkific.com/ ($50 off coupon here) SOVEREIGN BIRTH MEDITATION SERIES https://freebirthsociety.thinkific.com/courses/the-sovereign-birth-series Yolande’s podcast BAUHAUSWIFE   ON INSTAGRAM: @freebirthsociety @bauhauswife @honeytalks   Discussed in this episode: - interventions you might not have considered - what is mammalian / spontaneous / physiological / “free” birth? - why protecting the hormonal blueprint is so important? - cultural myths we’ve absorbed - why birthing in power stories are important - Yolande’s birth story teaser - pain and ecstasy in birth - what about fear? - why we birth the way we live     Mentioned in this episode: - Sarah Buckley - Michel Odent - Sovereign Birth - Yolande’s book: “Wild Pregnancy, Free Birth: A Guide to Manifesting Your Ecstatic Homebirth” (out early 2020)

Amber experienced her first spiritual awakening at 7 when her mother died. She shares how her childhood lessons shaped her relationship to pain and to Spirit. Also, how (without even intending to do so), she inspired thousands of women to find power and pleasure in birth with her appearance in two documentaries. Now a mama to two boys, ages 14 and 9, she shares conscious parenting secrets to empower us all. connect with Amber: http://www.amberhartnell.com/ IG @amberalchemy our PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/honeytalks FKNHONEY.COM https://fknhoney.com/ @FKNHONEY  *** Discussed in the episode:   - Amber’s spiritual awakening at 7 when her mother died - learning to transcend pain as a child - what is spiral & continual expansion during birth - how to cultivate capacity to be with strong sensation - ecstatic vs orgasmic - how to build a birth field - how to create a meaningful ritual with children - raising boys to be sensually aware men - Amber’s “Embodied Resonance” attunement sessions   Mentioned in the episode:   - “Birth as We Know it” documentary - “Orgasmic Birth” documentary - Birthing from Within book