“Does he love ME or my ____?” (Money, Looks, Status)

Barry explores the common worry “Does he love ME or my ____?” (Money, Looks, Status) and gives two solutions.

Barry discusses how studies show self-reported ‘wants’ tend to be inaccurate in dating, and the importance of distinguishing wants from needs to have a healthy relationship. This helps avoid narcissists and people pleasers, creating an equitable dynamic based on self knowledge and what really matters most.

Barry explores the different stages of “Living Together & Living On Your Own” as a single person and a person in a relationship — each one can bring up emotional needs and fears. He details these and what to do to experience the joy, love and connection of living together without losing yourself in the process.

How Relationships Are Like Investments. Barry shares how to invest your heart wisely.

Barry describes “How To Have Men Open Up And Talk About Feelings”. He explains the challenges men have with expressing feelings, why they have those challenges, the difference between Open Masculinity and Closed Masculinity, and exactly how to get a man to be more emotionally expressive.

Barry describes how stressful times affect your dating and relationships. He explains why that happens, and how to handle stressful times in a way that allows a healthy, empowered, less stressed you, and thereby a healthy, empowered relationship! If you deal with any stress in your life, you need to listen to this!

Dating and relationships don’t have to just be effort and self-growth, they can be fun and easy! Today, Barry shares a simple approach to make it fun and easy!

Create Meaningful Connection With Meaningful Conversations

Barry explains the 9 Environments we usually use in coaching to improve all 9 areas of our life, and then teaches you how to apply these 9 Environments for date ideas and relationship activities that are fun, connective and help you get to know one another more deeply!

Barry explains how we all have moments of full certainty and knowing about guys amd relationships; whether it’s realizing he’s the wrong guy, realizing they are the “One” for you, realizing you don’t love your partner anymore, or something else — our intuition, gut instinct, deep wisdom KNOWS. Barry explains how this occurs, discusses the neuroscience of gut instinct, how and why we often ignore it and how trusting your intuition in key moments is key for healthy, empowered relationships.