How to Focus on Yourself (& what that even means)

Last week a male trainer took one look at me and told me I had 15 pounds to lose. It was such a shockingly uneducated and unsolicited comment that I had to speak about it online, with a reel that resonated over 1M times.Clearly this is a topic we need to talk more about, so in this 30 minutes I dive into the entire story of that experience, how it made me feel, and everything that is backwards with the women’s fitness industry.Follow AC on Instagram: @anncatherinconneenFollow Caroline on Instagram: @carolineconneenFollow AC on Tik Tok: @anncatherineconneenFollow Caroline on Tik Tok: @carolineconneenFollow GWG on Instagram: @girlswithgoalspodFollow GWG on TikTok: @girlswithgoalspodSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Life feels better when you know who you are - but in a world of trends, social media, and constant comparison, it’s easy to accidentally outsource your identity.In this episode, we’re breaking down why confidence is a skill, why finding your unique personality changes your life, and how small daily behaviors shape the person you become.If you’ve ever thought, “I just wish I felt more like myself,” this conversation will change that for you.Follow AC on Instagram: @anncatherinconneenFollow Caroline on Instagram: @carolineconneenFollow AC on Tik Tok: @anncatherineconneenFollow Caroline on Tik Tok: @carolineconneenFollow GWG on Instagram: @girlswithgoalspodFollow GWG on TikTok: @girlswithgoalspodSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In our 20s, decisions feel heavier not because they actually are but because we attach identity and permanence and hypothetical futures to them. The choice isn’t just “what should I do next” it becomes “who am I if I choose this?” We’re feeling it… a lot. So in this episode we dove into what we’re each struggling with and how to navigate theDecision paralysisSocial comparison,Imposter syndrome, andMore that come with this phase of life.Follow AC on Instagram: @anncatherinconneenFollow Caroline on Instagram: @carolineconneenFollow AC on Tik Tok: @anncatherineconneenFollow Caroline on Tik Tok: @carolineconneenFollow GWG on Instagram: @girlswithgoalspodFollow GWG on TikTok: @girlswithgoalspodSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We all lose our spark sometimes. Whether you’ve been feeling burnt out, unmotivated or lost and need to snap back into your best self, here’s how we’re resetting.Follow AC on Instagram: @anncatherinconneenFollow Caroline on Instagram: @carolineconneenFollow AC on Tik Tok: @anncatherineconneenFollow Caroline on Tik Tok: @carolineconneenFollow GWG on Instagram: @girlswithgoalspodFollow GWG on TikTok: @girlswithgoalspodSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Let’s talk about what it actually means when people say “focus on yourself…” and how to do itFollow AC on Instagram: @anncatherinconneenFollow Caroline on Instagram: @carolineconneenFollow AC on Tik Tok: @anncatherineconneenFollow Caroline on Tik Tok: @carolineconneenFollow GWG on Instagram: @girlswithgoalspodFollow GWG on TikTok: @girlswithgoalspodSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Discipline isn’t easy, but it’s simple: do what you said you would.In this episode, we talk aboutWhy discipline is social currencyHow keeping small promises to yourself builds confidence, clarity, and momentum over timeWhy building discipline now is going to put you ahead of the curveChoosing delayed gratification (because all good things take time)& HOW to build disciplineFollow AC on Instagram: @anncatherinconneenFollow Caroline on Instagram: @carolineconneenFollow AC on Tik Tok: @anncatherineconneenFollow Caroline on Tik Tok: @carolineconneenFollow GWG on Instagram: @girlswithgoalspodFollow GWG on TikTok: @girlswithgoalspodSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

If you’ve ever opened your phone to do ONE thing, and then fallen into a half hour black hole of scrolling, this episode is for you.By the end, you’ll have a step-by-step detox you can do this week - and a realistic way to stay in-addicted after. And knowing us, we’re not just throwing information at you, this is full of motivation to help you (and us) make the change tooFollow AC on Instagram: @anncatherinconneenFollow Caroline on Instagram: @carolineconneenFollow AC on Tik Tok: @anncatherineconneenFollow Caroline on Tik Tok: @carolineconneenFollow GWG on Instagram: @girlswithgoalspodFollow GWG on TikTok: @girlswithgoalspodSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week we have a 4 step guide to choosing the right goals for you this year, AND following through with them. Listen up and get ready to make this the year you do everything you want <3Follow AC on Instagram: @anncatherinconneenFollow Caroline on Instagram: @carolineconneenFollow AC on Tik Tok: @anncatherineconneenFollow Caroline on Tik Tok: @carolineconneenFollow GWG on Instagram: @girlswithgoalspodFollow GWG on TikTok: @girlswithgoalspodSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Is it crazy to say this is our favorite episode of the year?? Thinking back on an entire 365 days can be overwhelming, so we have 5 questions to guide you as we reflect on them ourselves! Low pressure, good vibes, and lots of motivation for 2026Follow AC on Instagram: @anncatherinconneenFollow Caroline on Instagram: @carolineconneenFollow AC on Tik Tok: @anncatherineconneenFollow Caroline on Tik Tok: @carolineconneenFollow GWG on Instagram: @girlswithgoalspodFollow GWG on TikTok: @girlswithgoalspodSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Winter wants you to rot, we’re not letting that happen. Here’s your Girls with Goals guide to staying healthy and happy all winter (because if you lean into the right things, this can be the most game changing season)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girls-with-goals/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy