Lock in or die as “the girl who had potential”

Being respected isn’t about sounding like the smartest person in the room. It’s about becoming the person everyone wants in the room.Every successful woman I’ve met, founders, CEOs, executives, and major creators, knows how to communicate in a way that makes people want to help her, remember her, and bring her opportunities.In this episode, I’m breaking down the 6 underrated social skills that changed my life: how to become ridiculously easy to help, introduce yourself so people actually remember you, build a powerful network, make anyone feel important, ask better questions, and give compliments that genuinely land.Hard work will only take you so far. If you want to build your dream career, business, relationships, and community, you need to become charismatic, memorable, and genuinely valuable to have in the room.Master even one of these and you’ll be 10 steps ahead. Master all six and there will be nothing you can’t do!!Which one are you working on first? Tell me in the comments and let me know if you want part two 💌

The women who get everything they want aren’t prettier, smarter, more talented, or better connected than you.They just understand how the game actually works. I used to be the shy girl who never raised her hand, never volunteered, and definitely didn’t have the audacity to ask for what I wanted.Today, I live in my dream home, run three businesses, and have built a multi-million-dollar personal brand and a life my younger self could never imagine because I learned the rules no one teaches women early enough.In this episode, I’m breaking down the 6 things women who get what they want do differently: how they stay top of mind, make people feel seen, turn every ask into a win-win, refuse to settle, know how to be remembered and always somehow get their yes.There are no doors locked for you. There’s just someone behind each one who has the key, and this is the playbook on how to get it!Which of these are you working on right now? Tell me in the comments 💌

I vlogged the first time HotHighPriestess came to my house, from meeting Sarah and catching up over matcha to building our very scrappy podcast setup. Then we sat down for one of the rawest conversations I’ve ever shared, including sharing my relationship story for the first time on the internet!We talk about founding Gen She, leaving Big Tech, returning investor money, shutting down my company within 24 hours, dating as an ambitious woman, founder loneliness, friendship breakups, and the health scare that completely changed how I work.We also unpack manifestation as math, investing in people instead of ideas, creating stakes for yourself, finding your people, and why happiness is something you actively build.You can also listen to this conversation on Sarah's podcast The Priestess Perspective!

For the first time ever...I'm introducing you to my mentor!You've heard me talk about him for months, but I've never shared who he is, how I found him, or why I believe working with him has been one of the best investments I've ever made.So I flew 24 hours to Omaha, Nebraska (a place I honestly never imagined I'd visit 😂) to spend a day together.This isn't just someone I admire on the internet. He's become one of the biggest reasons my content, business, and career have accelerated over the last year. Our weekly calls have completely changed the way I think, but spending 24 hours together in person rewired my brain in ways I didn't expect.In this vlog, I'm taking you behind the scenes of:✨ how I found my mentor✨ why I chose to pay for mentorship instead of buying another course✨ the biggest mindset and business shifts he taught me✨ why I think every ambitious person should have someone who's already living the life they're trying to buildI also share a side of my business goals that I haven't really talked about publicly before: where I think Gen She is headed, the skills I'm obsessing over, and why mastering personal branding has become the foundation of everything I'm building next.If you've ever wondered how people seem to level up so quickly, this video might change the way you think about mentorship forever.Enjoy 🤍- A

Everyone has an opinion on the best city for ambitious women. Move to New York if you want to network, move to San Francisco if you want to build, move to Los Angeles if you want culture.But after spending 4+ years in each, I've learned that the answer isn't nearly that simple. In this episode, I'm breaking down the three cities ambitious women talk about most: New York, San Francisco, and Los Angeles. I'll share the real pros and cons of each, who tends to thrive there, which kinds of careers accelerate the fastest, and the trade-offs nobody tells you about before you move.More importantly, I'm going to talk about timing.The best city for you depends entirely on the stage of your career and the life you're trying to build. A city that feels like a rocket ship in your early twenties might feel completely wrong in your thirties. Whether you're optimizing for career growth, entrepreneurship, creativity, community, wealth, or lifestyle, I'll walk through exactly when each city makes the most sense and who should seriously consider making the move.And make sure you stay until the second half of the episode because that's where I get tactical.I'll break down exactly how to make friends, build a powerful network, and create real opportunities in each city, even if you're starting from scratch and don't know a single person. These are the strategies that have helped me build communities, friendships, and career opportunities across multiple cities, and they're far more effective than simply showing up to networking events and hoping for the best.If you've ever wondered whether you're living in the right city or whether a move could completely change the trajectory of your career, this episode is for you.

Everyone wants to be in the top 1% until they realize their life is usually just the accumulation of their habits. But what nobody tells you is that not all habits have the same ROI.Some habits waste your energy and make you feel productive without actually changing your life. Other habits quietly compound for years until suddenly your entire life looks different. Growing up around some of the wealthiest and most successful people in Silicon Valley taught me that success is rarely random. The people who get the farthest usually build very specific habits that shape the way they think, work, and create opportunities for themselves.A lot of the habits in this episode sound unconventional, but they completely changed the trajectory of my life. They helped me become a millionaire by 25, build a career on my own terms, and create opportunities I never thought I’d have access to. If you feel like you’re capable of more but your life still hasn’t “clicked” yet, this episode is probably going to change the way you think about success forever.

There’s a version of your life waiting for you on the other side of locking in. It helped me become a millionaire by 25, become my own boss, and build the life I had always dreamed of.In this episode, I break down:• the habit that changed my trajectory the fastest• the system that made me finally start executing consistently• and the psychology trick that made me operate like my future depended on it… because honestly, it did.

8 years ago LinkedIn was the first tech company that took a bet on me and hired me as an engineer. Now I’m interviewing the founder as a full time LinkedIn creator that gets 40M views per month on the platform. Life works in funny ways and honestly…this felt like a full circle moment I didn’t even know I was working toward. Not gonna lie, I never get nervous but I was so nervous here. This was genuinely a dream come true.In this conversation with Reid Hoffman, founder of LinkedIn, we get into the questions everyone is thinking but not asking:– Are creators actually ruining LinkedIn… or redefining it?– What AI is really going to do to your job (and how to stay ahead)– The lowest moment when LinkedIn almost didn’t make it– The habits that separate billionaires from everyone else– Exactly how he would invest his first $100K and $1M if he had to start over todayAnd yes… I made him roast my triple split screen billionaire series 😭 and his answer genuinely shocked me.If you’re building a career, a company, or a personal brand in this new era…this is one of those conversations you don’t skip!

Looking expensive isn’t about money, it’s a skill. And like any skill, it can be learned. I actually spent thousands of dollars working with a stylist to understand what really makes someone look elevated. And what I realized is…it’s rarely about big, dramatic changes. It’s small, intentional details. So in this video, I’m breaking down 10 simple shifts I made in my daily routine. Each one costs under $100, most take less than 10 minutes, and together they completely changed how I present myself. Because the truth is, 10 extra minutes in your routine can turn into 10 better hours in your day. And over time, that compounds into a completely different reality.I’ve linked everything I mentioned in my Amazon storefront below if you want to try any of them yourself: https://a.co/d/02TCXyYV

For six years straight, I failed at building my company. I tried everything under the sun—different business models, hiring teams, raising money, chasing trends. Every time, it fell apart. Sometimes I failed quietly, sometimes in ways that hurt to admit. At one point, I even gave investors their money back because I knew it wasn’t working.But those six years weren’t wasted. Every wrong turn, every mistake, every late-night pivot taught me something I couldn’t have learned any other way. And when I finally pieced it all together, when I finally unlocked what actually makes a business work, I made half a million dollars in my first six months.This is the breakdown of everything I did wrong, and the lessons I wish someone had told me sooner. If you’re serious about building a business, you can’t afford to miss this video.