E168 | Jessie Cruickshank - Part 2 | Understanding Identity & Faith Development

In Part 2 with Jessie Cruickshank, we discuss deeper connections and meaningful relationships through the lens of Identity Formation Theory. Our conversation covers various phases of human and spiritual development from infancy to adulthood, highlighting how our understanding of ourselves and God evolves.  You will be invited to explore phases of growth, the importance of autobiographical memory, and the concept of deconstruction in faith. This rich discussion provides insights for anyone interested in emotional and spiritual maturity. Learn more at whoology.co.   00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:28 Upcoming Events and Opportunities 01:03 Immanuel Institute Programs 01:35 Understanding Trauma Course 02:28 Identity Formation Theory: Phases 0 to 1 04:13 Identity Formation Theory: Phase 2 08:57 Identity Formation Theory: Phase 3 13:08 Deconstruction and Faith Transitions 20:15 Phase 4: Owning Your Faith 23:18 Organizational Dynamics and Faith 30:15 Phase 5: The Dark Night of the Soul 40:08 Petty Doctrinal Issues in Modern Faith 40:31 Understanding Phase Five in Spiritual Growth  42:27 The Role of Community in Faith Transitions 43:20 Elder Stage and Teaching Teenagers 44:40 Navigating Spiritual Direction Schools 46:26 Fear and Control in Religion 48:22 Creating Safe Spaces for Questions 50:51 The Journey of Identity Formation 59:53 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 01:04:54 Autobiographical vs. Semantic Memory

E167 - Jessie Cruickshank - Part 1 | Understanding Identity & Faith Development In this episode, we introduce Jessie Cruickshank, a neuro-ecclesiologist with a background from Harvard. We discuss the concept of identity formation, delving into various phases of human development based on a theory Jessie evolved from Fowler's stages of faith development. The episode covers infancy and toddler stages, emphasizing the importance of naming and identity in the early years. Jessie shares insights on how our experiences shape our perception of self and God. We have compelling conversation on the significance of naming children and how it impacts their identity and faith journey.   00:28 California Vibes and Upcoming Events 01:25 Dash Away and Immanuel Institute Announcements 04:24 Introducing Jessie Cruickshank 05:13 Jessie Cruickshank's Background and Journey 14:32 Neuro Ecclesiology and Organizational Psychology 19:08 The Art of Connection: Sales Techniques and Attunement 21:01 Exploring Identity Formation Theory 22:44 The Journey of Faith Development 24:41 Introducing Identity Formation Theory 27:06 The Role of Caregivers in Spiritual Development 34:13 The Importance of Naming and Identity 37:52 Helping Others Discover Their True Identity 42:31 Conclusion and Next Steps

In this episode, we continue our deep conversation with Australian guest David Tensen. David shares a provocative viewpoint on decentering God from one's life and discusses the symbolic concept of the Trinity as a non-centralized entity. We explore notions of deep spiritual maturity, deconstruction of religious belief systems, and the importance of eldership. The episode further discusses how to experience personal transformation through retreats like Dash Away Weekends and closes with a reflective poem by David. The overarching theme emphasizes the importance of embracing unity with Christ, letting go of dogmatic constructs, and finding freedom in spiritual growth.   00:28 Episode 166: Part Two with David Tensen 01:15 Upcoming Dash Away Weekends Retreat 02:32 David Tensen on Decentering God 04:37 Understanding Union with God 11:31 The Concept of Panentheism 14:07 Deconstruction and Decentering in Faith 19:12 Maturity and Letting Go of Constructs 22:58 Navigating Personal Beliefs and Open-Mindedness 24:47 The Role of Love and Guidance in Healing 25:18 Decentering the Need for Change 26:40 The Impact of Social Media on Judgment and Arguments 29:37 Companioning and Grieving 32:58 Embracing Mystery and Uncertainty in Faith 35:45 The Value of Diverse Perspectives 37:41 Closing Reflections and Poetry 39:47 Final Thoughts and Farewell   To learn more about David’s work: https://davidtensen.com/  

In this episode, we discuss important shifts, including the transition from 'Face to Face Ministries' to 'Face to Face Network'. We had an excellent conversation with David Tensen, an Australian philosopher, teacher, chaplain, and poet, known for his profound insights into eldering and inner healing. David shares his journey through advanced pastoral care, internal healing methods, and his new book, 'Decenter Everything'. The conversation delves into why decentering is essential, especially the critical distinction between centering God versus our construct of God. David also touches on the Life Model's stages of human development, and the urgent need to embrace eldering in a world stuck in adolescent and early adulthood stages. Tune in for part two to explore deeper into the concept of decentering God.   00:32 Exciting Changes and New Beginnings 01:15 Rebranding to Face-to-Face Network 02:05 The Vision and Philosophy Behind the Network 04:16 Challenges with the Term 'Ministries' 06:48 Upcoming Events and Website Changes 07:29 Introducing Our Guest: David Tenson 10:37 David Tenson's Background and Work 22:53 Reflecting on Ministry and Personal Challenges 23:48 Discovering the Life Model 24:35 Experiencing Burnout and Transitioning to Academia 26:55 Writing and Publishing 'The Wrestle' 27:42 Introducing 'Decenter Everything' 28:29 Exploring the Life Model Stages 32:39 The Concept of Eldering 37:57 The Call to Decenter Everything 40:41 Concluding Thoughts and Future Discussions To learn more about David’s work: https://davidtensen.com/  

Joni us as our conversation takes a deep dive with guest Hannah Ploegstra, an expert on Gen Z, discussing the unique challenges and strengths of this generation. Hannah shares her personal journey of raising four Gen Z children and explains the generational need for deeper relational skills and connection. Emphasizing compassion and the importance of presence, she articulates ways older generations can support and understand Gen Z, highlighting their potential to bring healing and leadership to the world.  The episode concludes with a hopeful message for Gen Z about their essential role and the healing they can bring to society.   00:00 Introduction to the Face-to-Face Podcast 00:28 Episode 164 Kickoff and Updates 00:38 Dash Away Retreat Recap 01:29 Upcoming Events and Trainings 03:02 Introducing Hannah Ploegstra 03:47 Hannah's Journey with Gen Z 06:40 Challenges and Insights on Gen Z 18:08 Gen Z's Struggles with Technology and Connection 25:27 The Role of Maturity in Guiding Gen Z 25:53 Challenges Faced by Gen Z 27:20 Building Relational Experiences 28:45 The Importance of Presence and Support 29:55 Understanding and Connecting with Gen Z 31:30 Practical Steps to Engage with Gen Z 32:51 The Unique Traits of Gen Z 41:54 A Message to Gen Z 45:07 Closing Remarks and Future Episodes   For more information: https://www.brineknit.com/

Join us today on the Face to Face Podcast as we dive into a profound conversation with guest Cyd Holsclaw on the topic of embodiment and spiritual connection. Discover the importance of being in tune with your body, practical exercises to increase body awareness, and how this awareness impacts your spiritual and emotional health. Learn more about the Immanuel Approach, the significance of healthy attachments, and the joy of Jesus' presence in our lives. Don't miss out on valuable insights and practical advice that can transform your relationship with yourself and God. For more info visit: https://www.cydholsclaw.com/ 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:32 Updates 01:02 Immanuel Institute Announcement 02:01 Upcoming Events and Registration Details 03:24 Introduction to Cyd Holsclaw and Embodiment 03:39 Practical Ways to Connect with Your Body 07:15 Understanding Attachment and Nervous System 17:13 Building Healthy Attachment with Jesus 22:31 Understanding Healthy Attachments 22:52 Exploring Emotional Landscapes 25:10 The Role of Parts in Spiritual Experiences 31:13 Embracing Emotions as Gifts 37:28 Resources and Final Thoughts      

Join hosts Melinda Wilson and Cathy Little on the Face-to-Face Podcast as they dive deep into the importance of living an embodied life with guest Cyd Holsclaw. Discover the interconnectedness of body, mind, and spirit, and explore how our faith roots in our physical forms. From nervous system regulation to Jesus' incarnation, this episode offers insights on embracing our bodies fully.  00:32 Meet Our Guest: Cyd Holsclaw 00:56 Upcoming Events and Announcements 02:51 The Importance of Living Embodied 04:00 Understanding Embodiment and Faith 12:51 Misinterpretations of Scripture on the Body 16:18 Practical Examples of Embodied Living 21:14 Recognizing Unconscious Patterns 21:49 The Role of Relationships in Self-Awareness 22:39 Imagining Your Ideal Life 23:26 Compassionate Self-Exploration 25:01 Understanding and Honoring Survival Strategies 26:43 The Concept of Parts 34:41 Implicit vs. Explicit Memory 37:09 The Importance of Embodiment 41:38 Conclusion and Upcoming Content For more information or to contact Cyd: https://www.cydholsclaw.com/

In this episode, we continue our conversation with Michael Sullivant who is addressing the pressing issues of church victimization and the celebrity culture within religious communities. Discover practical steps for aiding victims, rebuilding trust, and experiencing genuine spiritual healing through the Immanuel Approach. Learn more about Michael at radiusministries.org   00:00 Introduction to the Face to Face Podcast 00:28 Exciting Announcements and Upcoming Events 03:22 Introducing Michael Sullivant 03:26 Addressing Scandals in Christian Ministries 12:15 Creating Safe Church Cultures 20:52 Embracing Weakness and Finding Strength 21:14 The Rhythms of Spiritual Life 22:03 High Energy Ministries and Nervous System Health 23:42 The Importance of Lament 26:00 Joy and Peace Amidst Sorrow 27:25 Creating Healthy Church Cultures 33:09 Offering Hope to the Victimized 36:24 Resources and Training Opportunities 37:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts    

In this episode, we discuss upcoming Dash Away events and training in the Immanuel Approach, and welcome back guest Michael Sullivant. Michael shares his experiences and thoughts on addressing recent scandals in major Christian ministries, the importance of mental health in discipleship, and how to build safer church communities rooted in humility and agape love. Tune in for an insightful conversation on creating accountable and loving church environments.   Learn more about Michael at radiusministries.org   00:00 Introduction to the Face to Face Podcast 00:29 Exciting Announcements and Upcoming Events 01:19 Introducing Michael Sullivant 04:58 Michael Sullivant's Journey and Life Model Works 08:55 Understanding Neurotheology 16:44 Addressing Scandals in Christian Ministries 26:46 Creating Safe Church Cultures 35:30 Conclusion   

In this episode, Melinda Wilson and Cathy Little welcome listeners to the new year, 2025, with exciting updates and personal reflections. They discuss the significance of rest during winter, share holiday experiences, and introduce the Immanuel Approach workshop. Instead of a guest, they offer a gift - a group Immanuel encounter to connect more deeply with Jesus. The episode is filled with warmth, joy, and practical insights on spiritual growth.   In today's episode: New Year's Reflections Holiday Highlights Upcoming Workshop Announcement"Is the Immanuel Approach Right for Me?" - Monday, Jan 13th at 1pm ET Live via Zoom Register at immanueltraining.com/register A gift: A group Immanuel Approach Exercise20 Minute Immanuel Encounter led by Melinda