The Truth About Getting Paid for P***Y - meet Jade Blair

What actually happens at a queer kinky rave? 👀🔥  This week, Reed is joined by Lily Eff - co-founder of Quench, one of London's hottest queer kinky raves and play party communities.  Tune in for wild sex party stories (including a 21-person orgy…) and how Lily is building inclusive, intentional kink spaces that feel like HOME. They dive deep into the emotional reality of exploring fantasies IRL, boundaries, consent, and what to do when things don’t go to plan.  Plus, Lily shares her BEST advice for anyone curious about going to a kinky or queer party for the first time. From nerves to outfits to aftercare, we’ve got you covered.  Whether you’re kinky, curious, or just nosy (we see you), this episode is honest, funny, vulnerable, and seriously eye-opening.  👇 Tell us in the comments:  Would you ever go to a sex party? What would you want to know first?  This episode is sponsored by Erika Lust - mastermind behind ethical, cinematic adult films. Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off their platform - erikalust.com Follow Lily: IG: @lilyeff.uncensored and @quench.hq  Grab you ticket for their upcoming event: 20th March You can join us over on Patreon to WATCH the full episode and see ALL the juicy moments ⁠⁠available for members only⁠⁠. Follow up on IG @comecurious Follow @reedamberx Follow @florencebark Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by Matty Hennessy - sex toy designer, transmasc educator, and the brilliant mind behind Eversense Toys and the chaotic internet phenomenon Dildo Nightmares.  We dive into Matty’s journey creating toys for bodies that are often overlooked by mainstream sex tech including his upcoming designs specifically supporting transmasc pleasure, bottom growth, and accessibility needs. From the story behind his first prototype to the emotional reality of relearning pleasure in a changing body, this conversation is honest, educational, and deeply affirming.  Of course, we also explore the absolute madness of the sex toy industry, including some of the most cursed designs ever created (yes… including a demon-looking toy Reed received 👀).  Matty answers your listener questions too: how to introduce toys after bad experiences, navigating intimacy with a transitioning partner, and the best ways to stimulate nipples safely and effectively.  This episode is sponsored by Erika Lust - pioneers of ethical, cinematic adult films. Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off their platform - erikalust.com Follow Matty: IG: @dildonightmares and @eversensetoys  YT:  @eversensetoys  TT: @eversensetoys Brand: Eversense Toys - eversensetoys.com Support their fundraiser here You can email them on [email protected] Follow us: @comecurious 💕 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence goes over some fun pregnancy sex facts, what breeding kinks are all about and gets into the updates you've been missing when it comes to being 30 weeks pregnant! AND you sent in some GREAT pregnancy sex related stories and questions! PLUS Florence shares the juicy deets about her upcoming erotic film for Erika Lust and rates the pregnancy porn that you can watch over on the Lust website. Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off (we know… it’s a CRAZY discount) on their website here ✨ We LOVE hearing your thoughts about what you want us to discuss so send us your burning questions, spill the beans and we’ll share all on the podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious XXXtra Kinky Episode, Florence and Reed unpack whether “red flags” are actually warnings… or just wildly subjective vibes that depend on who’s holding the binoculars. They get honest about bras, pleasure doms, consent in long-term relationships, “high value men”, performative feminism, and whether bad sex actually exists… or if it’s all just incompatibility. And just when things get extra juicy, they cross the dirty watershed and head into the explicit Patreon-only half (dating chaos, DDLG discomfort, and why stability can feel suspicious). This is for our subscribers only so if you want to get the REAL goss, then become an XXXtra Kinky Curious Fcker and tune in . PLUS we rate our FAVE Erika Lust films and this month it's all about outdoor erotic cinema! Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off (we know… it’s a CRAZY discount) on their website here ✨ We LOVE hearing your thoughts about what you want us to discuss so send us your burning questions, spill the beans and we’ll share all on the podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this fabulous, no BS episode, Reed is joined by infamous Australian sex worker, advocate, and content creator Jade Blair to talk about the reality of getting paid for p***y without shame, shock tactics, or fantasy. Jade shares what in-person sex work actually looks like: the conversations, the boundaries, the safety routines, the money talks, and the emotional labour that most people never consider. Together, Reed and Jade unpack why society is so comfortable with unpaid, disappointing sex, but will lose its mind the moment money enters the room. They talk about pleasure at work (yes, it exists), the myth of “selling your body,” the difference between sex work and trafficking, why certain terms are harmful, and how laws can either protect or endanger sex workers. This episode is all about understanding the power of SW, autonomy, consent, and asking better questions about sex, money, and power. Get to know Jade Blair on IG @jadeblairxox To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, we’re joined by award-winning porn performer and creator Axel Reigns for one of our most powerful conversations yet.  Axel pulls back the curtain on the porn industry to talk about what really needs to change - from male accountability and consent culture, to calling out abuse, complicity, and silence in spaces that are meant to be safe.  We get honest about power, responsibility, and why “not all men” simply isn’t good enough anymore. Axel doesn’t just critique - they offer a vision of what better could look like, both inside the industry and far beyond it.  If you care about sex, safety, ethics, and doing better (without shame spirals), this one’s essential listening.  Get to know Axel's work on IG @axel.reigns Plus, this episode is sponsored by the iconic Erika Lust - home for all things er0tic cinema. Use our code SPICY45 to get 45% off your Erika Lust subscription today! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by her husband John for their first ever deeply personal sit-down - and it gets real, fast. From pregnancy hormones and mismatched libidos to fears about being “good enough” and the magic of falling in love, they open up about what it’s really like to become parents together. They answer ALL your listener questions about intimacy, jealousy, how they met, and how their relationship has shifted during pregnancy. Expect laughter, awkwardness and a few emotional moments along the way. Plus, this episode is sponsored by the iconic Erika Lust, so expect some seriously sexy inspiration to keep your pleasure alive during even the wildest life transitions. Use our code SPICY45 to get 45% off your Erika Lust subscription today! Rate & Review if this pod’s ever touched your heart and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious 💋 Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Get to know our guest John on IG @johnswaba Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, we’re easing into 2026 with our annual Fuck-It List - a gentle but powerful reset for your love life, self-worth and sex. Florence and Reed reflect on the wild, messy, magical year that was 2025. Tune in to hear them unpack what they’re ready to let go of, and ask each other (and you) some seriously juicy questions about intimacy, growth, boundaries and desire. From accountability and heartbreak to pregnancy, sobriety and surrender, this episode is your permission slip to reflect, release and re-write the year ahead. Grab a journal, get comfy, and come write your own Fuck-It List with us. You can join us over on Patreon to WATCH the full episode and see our reactions, stories and sweet pretty faces as we journal together: ⁠available for Patreon members only⁠. PLUS we’re diving into two very hot femme-domme films over on Erika Lust's ethical porn platform - sharing what we watched, what we loved, and why sexy, shame-free pleasure deserves a place in your 2026 intentions. Get 45% off with the code SPICY45 - sign up here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy New Year, curious fckers! 💖 We’re popping in to wave goodbye to the chaos of 2025, share our hopes for a calmer, bigger, better 2026 (including one tiny new human !). This is our mini message to remind you (and ourselves) to stress less and give ourselves a break. We’re feeling hopeful, grateful, and so excited for what’s coming next with you. Sending our New Year wishes to you with extra gratitude to our FABULOUS Patreon family - we love what we get to share with you and value your support so much! With love F and R Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy holidays Curious Fckers! However you're celebrating this time of year, we're sending love your way! Here's a cheeky mini-message offering some sparkly joy and a gentle reminder to give yourself what you need during this holiday period (especially if you're struggling with the fam). Looking forward to dipping back in with a New Year message! With love F and Rx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices