The Truth About Confidence No one Told You | Dr Shadé Zahrai

Make It Make Sense: Ramadan EditionEpisode 3: When the story finally makes senseRamadan is a month of reflection, healing, and returning to Allah. But for many of us, we enter it carrying chapters of our lives that feel confusing, painful, or unfinished.Moments where we asked why.Moments where the outcome felt unfair.Moments where nothing seemed to fit into a clear plan.This series, Make It Make Sense: Ramadan Edition, reconnects the struggles we live through with the stories Allah preserved for us in the Qur’an. Stories that reveal something powerful about how divine wisdom unfolds.Because sometimes the hardest part of faith is not the hardship itself.It is living inside a chapter that has not been explained yet.In this episode, we explore the moment when meaning finally becomes clear through four powerful stories:• The surrender of Ibrahim (AS), who was asked to sacrifice the very son he waited decades to receive, revealing that the test was never about losing the blessing, but about trusting the One who gave it.• The journey of Musa (AS) and Khidr, where actions that looked destructive, unjust, and confusing were later revealed to be acts of protection, mercy, and divine precision.• The struggle of Hajar, who ran between Safa and Marwa searching for water, only to discover that the miracle of Zamzam was written in a place she never even looked.• The moment of Sulaiman (AS) and the ant, a quiet reminder that even the smallest details in creation are seen and guided by Allah.Together, these stories reveal a powerful truth.Collapse breaks you.Waiting reshapes you.But revelation is what finally explains everything.If you are in a chapter of life that feels confusing, delayed, or unfair, this episode is for you.Because sometimes the reason your story does not make sense yetis simply because you have not reached the ending.Trust the Author.You can download my Umrah Guide here: https://sheenpodcastacademy.gumroad.com/l/hijkrg

Make It Make Sense: Ramadan EditionEpisode 2: When nothing is changing... even though you’re doing everything right.Ramadan is a month of healing, clarity, and returning to God but for so many of us, we enter it carrying unanswered questions, silent pain, or moments in our lives that just don’t make sense.This series, Make It Make Sense, is about reconnecting the struggles we live with the stories Allah preserved for us in the Qur’an. Stories of people who broke, who questioned, who felt isolated, who lost everything and yet were rebuilt through divine wisdom in ways they couldn’t see in the moment.We explore the four kinds of delay every believer faces:•⁠  ⁠False accusation and delay: through Yusuf (AS), who remained in prison for years despite his innocence.•⁠  ⁠A lifelong unanswered du’a: through Zakariya (AS), who prayed for a child long after biology said it was impossible.•⁠  ⁠Trust in uncertainty: through the mother of Musa (AS), who placed her newborn in a river and waited without answers.•⁠  ⁠Silent formation: through Musa (AS) himself, before prophethood, before miracles, before the sea split.These aren’t just stories, they’re mirrors. Reminders that delay doesn’t mean denial. It often means “not yet.”If you’re entering Ramadan in a season where nothing seems to be moving… where your du’as feel delayed, your efforts feel unnoticed, and your life feels paused… this episode is for you.Because sometimes it is not the breakdown that transforms you.It is the waiting.You can download my Umrah Guide here: https://sheenpodcastacademy.gumroad.com/l/hijkrg 

If you’ve recently reverted to Islam, or you’re seriously thinking about taking that step, this episode is for you. In this conversation, we sit down with two incredible women, Sina port and Emma Flicc, who share their real, unfiltered journeys into Islam. From the moment they said their shahada to navigating family reactions, learning how to pray, finding community, and rebuilding their identity, they walk us through what reverting actually looks like beyond the announcement. If you are new to Islam and feel overwhelmed, confused about where to start, unsure how to structure your learning, or silently struggling with loneliness, this episode gives you clarity and direction. This is not a surface-level conversation. It is an honest, in-depth look at what it truly means to revert. This episode will ground you, guide you, and remind you that you are not alone. Thank you to Sajada for sponsoring this episode! Get your beautiful premium prayer mats and phonetic prayer mats here and use my discount code DRSHEEN for 10% OFF:https://sajada.com/

Make It Make Sense: Ramadan EditionEpisode 1: When Everything Falls ApartRamadan is a month of healing, clarity, and returning to God but for so many of us, we enter it carrying unanswered questions, silent pain, or moments in our lives that just don’t make sense.This series, Make It Make Sense, is about reconnecting the struggles we live with the stories Allah preserved for us in the Qur’an. Stories of people who broke, who questioned, who felt isolated, who lost everything and yet were rebuilt through divine wisdom in ways they couldn’t see in the moment.We explore the four kinds of collapse every believer faces:• Rejection: through the story of Taif, when the Prophet (ﷺ) walked away with his sandals filled with blood.• Emotional breaking: through Maryam (AS) and the weight she carried alone.• Isolation: through Yunus (AS) in the belly of the whale, surrounded by darkness.• Complete loss: through Ayyub (AS), who watched his world disappear but never lost his trust in Allah.These aren’t just stories, they’re mirrors. Reminders that collapse doesn’t mean Allah has abandoned you. It often means He is redirecting you.If you’re entering Ramadan carrying pain, confusion, or a part of your life that has fallen apart… this episode is for you. Because sometimes the breakdown is the beginning of the rise.

Generations before I earned my degrees at Oxford and Cambridge, my ancestors were brought to Mauritius as indentured labourers, men and women who arrived with nothing but resilience, faith, and the hope of a life with dignity.In this deeply personal episode, I sit with my father in our hometown in Mauritius to trace the journey of our family from Indian labourers on the plantations…to a new identity shaped on this island…to becoming the first Mauritian woman with both an Oxford degree and a Cambridge PhD.This isn’t just a story about education, it’s about sacrifice, history, migration, and the determination of a people who refused to be defined by their circumstances.If you’ve ever wondered how generational courage shapes who we become today, this conversation is for you. 

In this conversation, we sit down with Dr. Shadé Zahrai to dive deep into what confidence truly is and what it isn’t. Drawing from Dr. Shadé’s research and the science behind confidence building, we break it down step by step into an actionable process for anyone who struggles with self belief, speaking up, or showing up fully for themselves.If this conversation resonated with you, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who believes in taking risks, growing, and becoming more confident.You can book our beautiful studio to record your podcast here:https://procast-studio.podyx.com/time-slots?setup=755504f2-e334-4ed3-b27d-7f5006e3d846You can order Dr Shade's book here: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Trust-Self-Doubt-Confidence-Success/dp/0063378159

In today’s episode, I sit down with Chidi Ashley, entrepreneur, investor, and the true definition of building wealth with purpose.We unpack the real mindset behind creating abundance, balancing ambition with life, and what it actually takes to build generational wealth as a woman.From her upbringing to her global businesses, Chidi opens up about money, motherhood, friendships, failure, and the reality behind the “have it all” narrative. This conversation is transparent, grounded, and full of practical gems for anyone building something of their own.

In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, award-winning investigative journalist Rana Ayyub joins me to unpack her journey into journalism, the personal cost of speaking truth to power, and what it really means to be a woman with a public voice in today’s world.From her childhood and early inspiration to undercover investigations, online hate, loneliness, and resilience, Rana reflects on navigating patriarchy, public judgment, relationships, mental health, and the evolving role of journalism in the age of social media. This episode goes beyond headlines to explore the human side of journalists — their fears, values, and unwavering commitment to facts.A must-watch for aspiring journalists, storytellers, and anyone trying to stay grounded while standing for something bigger than themselves.

In this episode, I sit down with Maha Abouelenein for a deeply honest conversation about identity, ambition, reinvention, and what it really takes to build yourself from the ground up. From growing up between cultures and navigating self-doubt, to making bold career pivots, moving countries, and redefining success on her own terms, Maha shares the life lessons that shaped her leadership style, her approach to work, and her outlook on success. We talk about humility, rejection, building real value, leadership, hiring the right people, and why learning to say no is one of the most powerful skills you can develop. Maha also opens up about friendships, forgiveness, balance, writing her book, and living a life with no regrets. This episode is for anyone navigating change, building a career with intention, or learning how to trust themselves through uncertainty.

This episode is a grounded, eye-opening conversation that challenges some of the most common misconceptions about Islam, from women leading prayer to how Islamic law evolves, and why a women-only mosque is transforming community life in the heart of the UAE.I’m joined by Dr. Sohaira Siddiqui, scholar of Islamic law, professor, and the visionary founder behind Al-Mujadilah Center & Mosque for Women, the first women-only mosque in the region.Together, we unpack the nuance, depth, and beauty of a faith often misunderstood, and explore what it means for Muslim women to reclaim their spiritual spaces, voices, and leadership.This episode is brought to you by Al-Mujadilah Center & Mosque for Women. A women-only mosque dedicated to providing a safe and welcoming space for women to worship, learn, and connect with their community.https://almujadilah.qa/en