How I Become Loving Myself

I launched this podcast to help you face whatever challenges life is throwing at you right now. But above all so that I can find the strength to achieve the giant that stood in front of me I also do this to believe in faith again. That all this will be useful to become more humble, stronger and more determined. I'm doing the same thing Kobe did, after losing the NBA Finals and getting back on his feet again. I had to learn to like myself again, I had to not care about what others might think or talk about me. I had to learn to believe in myself, that I can be much better than I was before, living a true life. Whose first 46 years were done in reverse. I started to discover that you had superpowers. And that I was helping people even though I didn't know I was. I started being true to myself. And, finally, I began to see reality as it is and not as I would like it to be. For the first time in my life, I’m starting to have joy in being alive. And what a blessed person I am.

David and Goliath is nothing more than a story in which the Davids of this world are confronted by Giants. And by giants I mean, armies, England National Teams, bullying school mates, terrible misfortunes. Everything you can imagine as terrifying!! And when confronted by these enormous opponents, should I play by the rules of the game? Should I give up, run away or face him? Should I submit to fate and see confrontation as a fatality in life? From the start, David already knew he was going to beat Goliath when he decided to face him. He was used to kill Lions and Bears that attacked his flock of sheep. Large animals. Nothing new to face this type of opponents. Then David faced Goliath, not following the so-called conventional rules of the time. David used his sling to knock Goliath down and then with him on the ground cut off his head. David used “his weapons”.

I like public speaking. It's one of my passions. When I started, I made tons of mistakes. I said many "ums," made lots of grammatical errors. My stage posture was anything but correct. I had no vocal variety and sometimes lacked projection. In other words, I wasn’t loud enough. That was two years ago. What did I do to improve? Well, the first thing was not to give up. Then I started watching speeches on YouTube by renowned speakers, observing how they did it. I used these "notes" when I went on stage. After two years, my oratory skills have become fantastic. I mean, I’m not the best in the world, for sure, but I feel so at ease that everything flows when I’m speaking. Have you listened to the episode "My Story"? There, you can hear my story. If it weren’t for my story, my journey, my battles, I would never have created this podcast or become a better person. One thing certain, nothing comes by accident

Last Monday, at the end of the day, I was watching a news program that I have loved for a long time: 60 Minutes. It’s a program that is essentially a storyteller. And what fantastic stories it has! In that episode, they talked about a medical scientist, a neurosurgeon who, through a non-invasive technique, “cured,” or rather, stopped the progression of Parkinson's disease. All this through the use of high-frequency ultrasounds that “straighten the person.” Also in that episode, they talked about a case where the doctor managed to make a drug-addicted person become “cured.” They even spoke with this person, asking if he had relapsed or if he was truly clean. I was simply amazed. At the point that science has reached. Since I am a dreamer, I immediately began to imagine scenarios where we could use this to cure many of the world's problems. This could revolutionize the world. The way we can live our daily lives. would be living in a better world?

Have you ever noticed that the wealthiest people in the world are excellent communicators? In the Netflix documentary about Donald Trump, it was said that many of his clients came in with a preconceived idea, and after talking with Trump, they ended up buying what he wanted them to buy. Okay, you can say he's manipulative. Let me give you another example. Richard Branson, the founder of the Virgin Group. In 1985, Sir Richard Branson began running marketing campaigns that were totally different from what was being done at that time, just to put the Virgin name in every corner of the world. I'm not saying I have to ride in a hot air balloon at 250 mph between Japan and the Canadian Arctic, breaking the time record just to get my message across. No! Much simpler and less exhausting than that. Just like Shakespeare conveys in his sonnet "The memory of his beloved's love is so powerful that it makes him feel as though he possesses..". So, I just have to use my strengths

Here is the one the most beautiful myths about love and trust. Not only love and trust but other lessons on we can take to our dally lifes.  Are you confindent in you?  Is your faith bigger than anything else? Do you trust your talents and gifts? Orpheus played the lyre and was an excellent poet. Whenever he played and sang, nature and people were captivated by his music. It was his superpower. He fell madly in love with Eurydice. One day, she was by a river when she was bitten by a snake, leading to her death. Orpheus was desperate and heartbroken. He went to the underworld with his music and lyre to rescue Eurydice.

Jesus said: Give to everyone who asks you, and if they take what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others what you want them to do to you.” How is this possible? Well, this was put into practice by Diane Foley. And who is Diane Foley? She is the mother of James Foley. James Foley was killed by ISIS in 2014, decapitated, with the video filmed and posted on YouTube. The terrorist who killed, or was involved in the murder of James Foley, was known within the terrorist group as “The Beatle,” because he was English, but his name is Alexander. Diane went to meet him to get to know him and talk to him. She reconciled with the man Alexander Kotey. How is this possible? Could I do it? Could you, my listener, do it?

I love listening to podcasts (who would've thought that!!!). One of the podcasts I listen to is called "Bit of Optimism" by Simon Sinek. I was looking through the episodes and was drawn to the latest one titled "Moral Courage with Diane Foley, mother of executed journalist James Foley." I was so wowed by what I heard that the next day I went to YouTube to see if I could find more about this woman. In short, she is the mother of a journalist who was kidnapped and killed by ISIS in 2012. The person who killed him was called The Beatle within the terrorist group. He was captured and tried for the crime he committed. After some time (I don't know exactly how long), Diane Foley went to the prison to meet and talk to her son's killer, face to face, and the first thing she said to him was, "Hello Alexander, it's a pleasure to meet you." A book was written about James's death, about Diane's act, and everything involved in it. How can we love more?

In today's episode, I spoke with a businessperson from the region who had a lot of success in the heavy truck and automobile mechanics field. However, in 2012, with the Portuguese public debt crisis, he had to close and file for bankruptcy. As he told me during our conversation, "I went from being great, to being despised in the blink of an eye." Today, I will talk about the anguish he suffered during this period, the personal and family consequences, and finally the health problems that ensued. He managed to overcome all of this with true mastery, becoming a phoenix reborn. Not only did he overcome it, but he is now better off than he was before. As with the other episodes, I hope you love it and feel motivated by getting to know António's story. Porto Moniz and Madeira Island - https://visitmadeira.com/en/where-to-go/madeira/north-coast/porto-moniz/

Not everything life serves us is to our liking, and it is precisely in these moments that we eat without saying, "I don't like it!" Because we are afraid. We all fear something. As the saying goes, "He who has a butt, has fear." This is directly related to the monstrous amount of divorces occurring in the society where I live, at least in the Portuguese society. You will understand more later on. Suddenly, it seems almost all middle-aged couples are getting divorced. At first glance, we might say that nowadays people are less willing to put up with their partners. But the root of the problem if we can say problem, is much deeper than a simple lack of willingness to tolerate the other's personality after some time. Immediately, I thought of several people but particularly of a family member who recently . My cousin Paulo's divorce. It was a bombshell for all of us!Because we all thought they would be together until death. That they would never, ever separate. Here is the story