Self Love QandA

Check out Emotional Mastery:https://bit.ly/3COJfldSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday we're going to look at the man, the myth, the legend, Tony Robbins! And we're going to use some clips from him to try and figure out some habits that can help you change your life for the better :-) ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro1:02 - #1: Use movement to get into your desired emotional state.2:31 - #2: Hesitant to do something that's good for you? Ask yourself: "Why am I hesitating?"-4:38 - #3: Never leave the scene of a decisions without first taking a specific action towards it's realization.6:46 - #4: Identify the things that frustrate or upset you.7:33 - #5: Turn your "shoulds" into "musts".-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TonyRobbins #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:http://bit.ly/4nbfU9eSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all been stuck in an awkward conversation that feels forced or boring. You want the person to like you, but you have no idea what to say. So in today’s video, we’ll go over five habits that instantly make conversation more fun and help you connect with anyone.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:11 - #1: Set a playful tone early in the interaction2:31 - #2: Give a genuine friendly compliment4:25 - #3: Share your imperfections (without shame)5:42 - #4: Ask open-ended questions6:37 - #5: Be a likeable listener-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why Instagram Is Ruining Your LifeLink To Confidence Tip:https://goo.gl/J8LD0LIf you were an alien looking at the Instagram news feed, you would have to conclude that most humans spend their lives in leisure traveling and smiling all day long. You assume that there were far more honeymoons and fights -- far more moments of laughing so hard that you cry than an actual crying and far more successes than failures but none of that is true. Our lives are not represented by the photos that we share. We are pretending and it comes at a dire cost. There's been a lot said about the dangers of consuming social media. After all, the sites are designed to be more addictive than crack. The articles do little more than waste your time and the misrepresentation of how people live can lead to depression with the state of your own life but those are the easy criticisms.The real danger of Instagram and other social media sites is not in what we consume but in what we create. Think of it this way -- every time you post a photo you are contributing to the creation of a persona. Kind of like in a video game -- you post a photo in front of the Eiffel Tower and your sophistication stat goes up, you delete a photo where you look bad and your beauty stat goes up, or you share a funny meme and your humor step goes up.2:14 You'll be more unhappy the more you care about those likes2:43 You sacrifice your own experience to promote your identity3:16 You outsource your happiness to the masses3:38 Curating an identity stops you from investing in you4:08 Curating an identity limits youFB Newsfeed Eradicator: https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/news-feed-eradicator-for/fjcldmjmjhkklehbacihaiopjklihlgg?hl=enSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Reasons The Jedi Mindset Sucks https://goo.gl/YTJrQYSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeLink to learn more about our Emotional Mastery course: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/interested-emotional-mastery/Video on overcoming social anxiety: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2yRVP9PHnEEStar Wars is often referred to as a classic good vs evil story. And it’s easy to see why when you have “bad Sith characters." Opposing the Sith are the Jedi who seem like the obvious good guys. But if you dig into their belief system, there are serious problems in the mindsets they promote. In fact, you could say that it is THEIR teachings that ultimately lead to people like Anakin Skywalker breaking and turning totally evil.That’;s why in this video I want to break down the biggest flaw in their teachings. Because you may have unthinkingly adopted these “good guy” teachings that can actually wind up destroying your life.0:40 Jedi Order expects emotional neutrality from their disciples1:31 Jedi presents negative emotions as permanent emotions 2:45 Jedi principle is to not feelConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the previous video, I spoke about self love and it's critical importance to your well being. In this video I answer questions from YOU (in the comments!) about love, self love, and self esteem.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Surprising Steps To Influence AnyoneDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2qTSVYGSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeJoin Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/Margaery Tyrell might be the most underrated player in Game of Thrones. And it’s a shame that she meets her end so early, at least in the show, because more than any other character I’ve covered, she has the most to teach you about how to behave in the real world. Which is cool, because unlike Littlefinger and Tywin Lannister, I don’t have to tell you NOT to do these things. We’re talking about good stuff here, so you’ll want to apply a lot of this even if you don't live in the Game of Thrones, beginning with Margaery’s first incredible talent: her ability to build rapport with anyone. She has a number of incredibly effective strategies. 00:16 Build rapport as the HBO show Game of Thrones here shows06:33 Learn as much as you can about the person to truly empathize07:39 Lead them as shown as examples here from Game of ThronesConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3WvHvEZSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeRagnar Lothbrok (Lodbrok) is a legendary leader and the main character in the show Vikings. In a time where power and respect meant everything, he was able to rise up from being a simple farmer to a ruler, to a king.In this video we will break down 5 ways Ragnar is able to command respect from everyone around him and how you can do the same in your own life. You don't have to pick them all, so you can pick the ones that fit you the best. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:32 - #1: Pursue ambitious goals that others want to join.2:13 - #2: Speak in "you" and "we".4:16 - #3: Project calm in the face of conflict.5:32 - #4: Lead from the front.7:29 - #5: See through other people's eyes.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Vikings #RagnarLothbrok #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic:https://bit.ly/004-26Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma.In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to.0:00 - Intro0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive1:10 - Escape the frame2:07 - Follow the shiny thing2:50 - Open the circle4:22 - Imply friendship fast4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Joe CordleEdited by Simba MahachiDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I collaborated with Paramount Pictures and Downsizing to bring you this video: Downsizing URL: http://tickets.downsizingmovie.com/Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe6 Small Things That Dramatically Boost Your Charisma https://goo.gl/aKRQgB Oftentimes the little things make the big differences and that’s true when it comes to charisma as well which is why we’re going to be covering 5 small things that dramatically boost your charisma. These are kind of basic in some cases, but they get overlooked too often.Thanks again to Paramount Pictures and Downsizing for sponsoring this video. If you want to see the Downsizing movie with Matt Damon, Kriten Wiig, Cristoph Waltz, Alexander Payne and Hong Chau, click the link in the description above for tickets. 0:48 Downsize your gift1:53 Donate the things you're not using anymore3:07 Ask the shyest what they're excited about4:03 Show engaged body language when talking to someone5:41 Support other people's passion8:07 Remember the names of the service peopleConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:http://bit.ly/3VVesM1Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeMatthew McConaughey gives off an almost effortless feeling of being cool. So today we’ll break down some of the habits that make him so charismatic and how you can incorporate them into your own life.And it’s worth noting, while Matthew McConaughey is very handsome, his confidence and charisma can apply to you no matter what you look like.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:15 - Set the mood0:17 - #1: Move slowly and don't rush when speaking0:52 - #2: Greet everyone around you1:48 - #3: Make yourself comfortable2:29 - #4: Stay anchored to yourself3:20 - Be a magnetic storyteller3:39 - #1: Use a good preframe4:37 - #2: Share your emotional experience5:00 - #3: Act out your characters6:35 - #4: Tell the story with your hands6:52 - #5: Tell your stories in the present tense7:48 - How to put this to practice--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#McConaughey #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices