#190 - Ruby Josif - Why My Sex Life Isn’t Working (And What I’m Missing)

We are joined by John Templeton, a personal development coach and fitness trainer who guides individuals through the work of uncovering who they truly are beneath performance and expectation.So much of identity is shaped by childhood patterns, societal roles and the pressures we silently absorb. We grow into personas that help us survive yet eventually trap us. Only when these structures begin to crack do we recognise the deeper questions we’ve been avoiding.We’re taught that growth is about building more discipline, more success and more certainty but often the real transformation comes from letting go — releasing the identities built on validation or fear. Avoiding this inner work leads to a quiet dissatisfaction, the sense that achievement isn’t the same as fulfilment and that something essential is being overlooked in the rush to “become someone.”If we don’t turn inward, this misalignment can echo through our relationships, choices and sense of meaning.Who are we without the roles we’ve relied on? And what truths emerge when we stop negotiating with our own discomfort?John Templeton is deeply skilled at helping individuals navigate this unraveling with grounded clarity and embodied understanding.Expect to learn about:Why authenticity is an ongoing practice and not a fixed identityHow structured environments can shape but not define who we becomeThe subtle pull of external validation and what lies beneath itHow identity crises signal deeper transitions in purposeWhy achievement without inner alignment leads to emptinessThe role of contribution in creating a life that feels meaningfulHow presence restores clarity and reduces unnecessary sufferingHow morality, truth and language influence the way we interpret realityFollow John's Work: https://www.instagram.com/johntempletonofficial/Get my Top 50 Must Read Books:BOOK LIST HEREAll Links:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eganbrooks/Big love,Make sure to hit the follow button & the 3 dots, then rate show.Egan

We are joined by Mitchell Vickridge and Jayde Alexandra, a couple in the personal development space who help people reclaim their power and live authentic meaningful lives.Many of our ideas about love come from Hollywood fantasies and the belief of one sided love where the “right person” creates effortless harmony, meets every need and dissolves insecurity without us having to face ourselves.True love isn’t one sided bliss, it’s the integration of challenge and support, the mutual evolution that happens when two people choose growth over fantasy. When we avoid that work, resentment grows due to unrealistic expectations, misread intentions, reactive triggers and intimacy that slowly fades under the misguided illusion of perfection.This conversation asks:What shifts when we let go of the movie version of love and meet our partner as they truly are?And how do relationships transform when we treat them as a place for evolution rather than escape?Mitchell and Jayde offer grounded guidance that brings clarity, integration and embodied understanding to this deeper relational journey.Expect to learn about: How relationship patterns stem from our parentsWhy relationships are not meant to make you happyWhat changes when infatuation transitions into ‘real’ loveWhy partners serve as mirrors for disowned traitsHow to master the art of communicationWhat to do if you are attracted to other peopleHow linking values strengthens the relationshipWhat intimacy truly isPlus so much more.This episode is for anyone ready to move beyond idealised relationships and move into relationships grounded in presence, responsibility and meaningful growth.Sponsors:Use Code ‘TM10’ for 10% OFF Mind Mastery:https://nirvanahealth.co/mindmasteryBook 1:1 Consult with Mitch: https://nirvanahealth.co/bookingwithmitch10% OFF Blue Light Gear (Automatically Applied) https://www.blockbluelight.com.au/?ref=eganbrooksGet my Top 50 Must Read Books:BOOK LIST HEREAll Links:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eganbrooks/Follow (guest):https://www.instagram.com/jayde.alexandra/https://www.instagram.com/mitchellvickridge/Big love,Make sure to hit the follow button & the 3 dots, then rate show.Egan

We are joined by Torin Redpath, an online fitness coach who has gained over 700,000 followers in six months by sharing simple, viral health recipes. Many people chase self-improvement hoping it will finally quiet their old insecurities. But even the most impressive transformation can leave us wondering whether we’ve changed ourselves or just changed the image we present. Progress without reflection can easily become pressure and discipline can turn into another way to avoid what’s really going on inside.We’re often told to push harder, achieve more and never slow down. Yet the cost of ignoring our inner world eventually shows up: strained relationships, emotional fatigue and a life that looks better from the outside than it feels on the inside.So the real question becomes:How do we grow without losing balance?And what does healthy ambition look like when it’s not driven by fear or self-judgment?Expect to learn about: How ambition can create new forms of insecurityWhat happens when self-improvement becomes an escape instead of supportHow rapid success creates pressure most people never seeWhat balance looks like in real life, not in theoryHow connection helps you stay grounded while pursuing big goalsWhat desire and constant wanting do to your mental well-being, drawing from ideas by Naval RavikantHow material achievements fail to fix deeper emotional patterns, reflected in insights from Will SmithHow to use self-audits to stay aligned and avoid burnoutThis episode is for anyone who wants growth that’s steady, honest and sustainable for those seeking ambition with balance and fulfilment built from the inside out.Sponsors:Use Code ‘TM10’ for 10% OFF Mind Mastery:https://nirvanahealth.co/mindmasteryBook 1:1 Consult with Mitch: https://nirvanahealth.co/bookingwithmitch10% OFF Blue Light Gear (Automatically Applied) https://www.blockbluelight.com.au/?ref=eganbrooksGet my Top 50 Must Read Books:BOOK LIST HEREAll Links:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eganbrooks/Follow (guest):https://www.instagram.com/torinredpath/Big love,Make sure to hit the follow button & the 3 dots, then rate show.Egan

We are joined by Carmen McNamara, leading Australian dermal therapist and founder of Perth Skin Clinic.So much of what happens to our skin sits quietly beneath the surface: influenced by stress, hormones, the pace of our days and the roles we’re trying to hold together at once. Many of us move through life without realising how closely our emotional state, our routines and even our relationships are reflected back to us through the body.In a culture that celebrates productivity and resilience, it can be difficult for women - especially mothers, to find the balance between caring for others and caring for themselves. The pressure to “manage it all” often leads to burnout, inconsistent self-care and confusion about what our skin actually needs. At the same time, the beauty world is filled with contradictory advice, making it easy to fall into common mistakes that unknowingly disrupt skin health.And beneath all this lies a quieter truth: our skin responds to our lifestyle, our stress, our nutrition and the subtle emotional tensions we carry but rarely explore. Especially when hormonal factors like coming off birth control can add another layer of complexity.This episode asks honest questions many women quietly sit with:How do we support our skin while navigating the realities of family, work and wellbeing? And what do we need to understand about our bodies so we can make choices that truly serve us long-term?Carmen brings a deep skillset with tons of experience and an embodied understanding to these questions.Expect to learn about:Why most skincare routines fail and how to simplify themHow stress and emotional load affect your skinWhat nutrition and lifestyle habits reveal about long-term skin healthWhat to know about skin changes after stopping birth controlHow to balance motherhood and business without losing yourselfWhat misconceptions exist around products like Tretinoin and how to use them safelyWhy slowing down and listening to your body improves self-careA must listen episode for this curious about mastering their skin, balancing their responsibilities and understanding how interconnected the mind and body are with plenty of simple tips to make huge differences.Sponsors:Use Code ‘TM10’ for 10% OFF Mind Mastery:https://nirvanahealth.co/mindmasteryBook 1:1 Consult with Mitch: https://nirvanahealth.co/bookingwithmitch10% OFF Blue Light Gear (Automatically Applied) https://www.blockbluelight.com.au/?ref=eganbrooksGet my Top 50 Must Read Books:BOOK LIST HEREAll Links:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eganbrooks/Follow (guest):https://www.instagram.com/theskinfairy_/Big love,Make sure to hit the follow button & the 3 dots, then rate show.Egan

We are joined by Melissa Kupsch, a homeopath and educator who works with the body’s energetic intelligence to support healing beyond symptoms.Much of our health is shaped by what goes unprocessed like emotional experiences and internal stress that the body quietly holds.We’re often taught that medicine fixes the body from the outside. This conversation challenges that view, exploring homeopathy as a system that listens to the body’s signals and works with its innate intelligence rather than overriding it.When this is ignored, the cost shows up as anxiety, depression and disconnection and healing becomes harder when symptoms are treated in isolation.So what changes when healing is relational rather than mechanical? And what responsibility do we carry in meeting what the body is asking for?Melissa Kupsch is deeply skilled at helping individuals navigate this process bringing her homeopathic wisdom to the fore.Expect to learn about:What homeopathy is and how energetic medicine worksWhy symptoms are signals, not problems to suppressThe role of emotions and relationships in healthCommon misconceptions around placebo and skepticismHow anxiety and depression can reflect deeper imbalanceWhy responsibility and awareness matter in healingThis episode is for those open to a deeper root cause solution approach to healing. A must listen for those wanting to optimise their health and healing.Sponsors:Use Code ‘TM10’ for 10% OFF Mind Mastery:https://nirvanahealth.co/mindmasteryBook 1:1 Consult with Mitch: https://nirvanahealth.co/bookingwithmitch10% OFF Blue Light Gear (Automatically Applied) https://www.blockbluelight.com.au/?ref=eganbrooksGet my Top 50 Must Read Books:BOOK LIST HEREAll Links:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksFollow (guest): https://www.instagram.com/thathomeopath/Big love,Make sure to hit the follow button & the 3 dots, then rate show.Egan

We are joined by Charles Myssy, a shadow alchemist who works with the body, psyche and soul to transform unconscious patterns. Life begins shaping us long before we ever learn to shape ourselves. The emotions we buried to stay safe, the traits we disowned to be accepted and the truths we hid to avoid rejection all settle into the unseen architecture of our identity. These forgotten parts continue to influence our choices, relationships and sense of worth even when we believe we’ve “moved on.” We’re often taught that growth is about constant progress: being more positive, more self-aware and more “on top of our stuff.” But what if this endless effort to improve is itself a form of avoidance? What if real transformation isn’t about doing more work but learning to confide in the tension we keep trying to outrun? And beneath it all: what actually is the shadow and how does it learn to hide itself so convincingly that we mistake its patterns for our personality?Avoiding these questions carries an invisible cost. It shows up as the exhaustion of perpetual self-improvement, relationships that repeat the same emotional loops and a body that holds what the mind refuses to feel and the slow ache of living a life that doesn’t quite feel like our own.So how do we finally turn toward what we’ve spent years trying not to see? And what changes when we learn to work with the shadow rather than against it?Charles Myssy is deeply skilled at helping individuals navigate this process, bringing clarity, integration and an embodied understanding of how to uncover and work with what the psyche hides.Expect to learn about:What the shadow really is and why the psyche hides itHow childhood experiences shape our sense of worth and identityThe hidden cost of living inauthenticallyWhy accountability is a true marker of inner workMasculine and feminine dynamics in healingWhy manifestation requires action, not just beliefWhy Individuation is a lifelong process of becoming wholePlus so much more.A powerful episode for anyone ready to stop bypassing their inner world and begin the deeper work of integration, truth and self-responsibility.Use Code ‘TM10’ for 10% OFF Mind Mastery:https://nirvanahealth.co/mindmasteryBook 1:1 Consult with Mitch: https://nirvanahealth.co/bookingwithmitch10% OFF Blue Light Gear (Automatically Applied) https://www.blockbluelight.com.au/?ref=eganbrooksGet my Top 50 Must Read Books:BOOK LIST HEREAll Links:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eganbrooks/Follow (guest): https://www.instagram.com/charlesmyssy/Big love,Make sure to hit the follow button & the 3 dots, then rate show.Egan

We are joined by Ruby Josif, a sexologist, sex coach and writer who helps women become wildly confident in sex, intimacy and dating. Sex is one of the most intimate parts of our humanity yet it remains incredibly taboo, shameful and misunderstood for many. Most of us learn to explore our sexuality in silence, unable to communicate or express our needs with cultural narratives pushing us towards extremes. We often assume self-exploration or relationships will naturally solve these struggles but true empowerment stems from real education and the ability to overcome shame and take new action. Avoiding the difficult conversations can lead to dissatisfaction, resentment and low self-worth as it silently controls the most intimate parts of ourselves. So how do we know where to start? Who to listen to? And what needs changing? Ruby Josif is a sex coach deeply skilled at helping individuals navigate this process and we dive into the most important things you need to know. Expect to learn about:Why sex is not spoken about enoughHow shame prevents us expressing our sexualityHow porn negatively affects sexHow long sex should really lastWhat the ‘Orgasm Gap’ isWhat you need to know about self-pleasureHow social media can help or destroy sexualityWhy presence is at the core of intimacyPlus so much more. One of the most interesting conversations so far and super relevant for everyone navigating their sexuality.Use Code ‘TM10’ for 10% OFF Mind Mastery:https://nirvanahealth.co/mindmasteryBook 1:1 Consult with Mitch: https://nirvanahealth.co/bookingwithmitch10% OFF Blue Light Gear (Automatically Applied) https://www.blockbluelight.com.au/?ref=eganbrooksGet my Top 50 Must Read Books:BOOK LIST HEREAll Links:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/eganbrooks/Follow (guest):https://www.instagram.com/ruby.josif.sex.coach/Big love,Make sure to hit the follow button & the 3 dots, then rate show.EganEgan’s Links:Guest:

We are joined by Joel Rafidi, a coach, writer, podcaster and artist. Seeking truth in a world full of lies and misinformation has become the antidote to chaos, but what if it was also a form of avoidance? Why do we spend so much time finding answers in the external world when real truth lies within?There is a strong tension between becoming aware of the world’s bullshit and also letting it dictate your reality. How does one navigate the desire for truth with the desire for peace and certainty in their lives?Joel Rafidi is an expert at helping individuals navigate the dance with the search for truth and freedom in both the external and internal worlds.Expect to learn about:Joel’s music journey and speaking up during COVIDWhy we all have a unique soul blueprintWhat the matrix truly isHow to balance empathy with boundariesWhy the self-help industry can be a treadmillHow to navigate the inner journeyPlus so much more. A must listen episode for those wanting to find answers in the world and not lose themselves in the process.Use Code ‘TM10’ for 10% OFF Mind Mastery: https://nirvanahealth.co/mindmasteryBook 1:1 Consult with Mitch: https://nirvanahealth.co/bookingwithmitch10% OFF Blue Light Gear (Automatically Applied) https://www.blockbluelight.com.au/?ref=eganbrooksEgan’s Links:Get my Top 50 Must Read Books:https://eganbrooks.kit.com/96fd04e538All Links:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksFollow Joel: https://www.instagram.com/joelrafidi/Big love,Make sure to hit the follow button and click the 3 dots to rate show.

We are joined by Cam Watkins, he is a sports physio and movement educator.The human mind and body is a complex system that governs our life, but how can we really connect the two? How does our nervous system connect our mind and body? And how can we use our understanding of it to optimise our life?Identifying with problems makes them worse at times, so how do we listen to the feedback and make positive changes without trapping ourselves?Cam has spent years dedicated to mastering the mind, body and soul and we dive into these questions.Expect to learn about:How the nervous system controls our lifeHow the mind and body are connectedWhat you need to know about inflammationWhy movement is super undervalued for longevityHow the soul connects into our mind and bodyWhy the body always adapts to the habits we teach itPlus so much more. I love Cam’s presence and it’s super interesting to dive into the intersection of mind, body and spirit to learn how we can integrate them all for optimal living.Follow (guest): https://www.instagram.com/camwatkins_87/Use Code ‘TM10’ for 10% OFF Mind Mastery:https://nirvanahealth.co/mindmasteryBook 1:1 Consult with Mitch: https://nirvanahealth.co/bookingwithmitch10% OFF Blue Light Gear (Automatically Applied) https://www.blockbluelight.com.au/?ref=eganbrooksGet my Top 50 Must Read Books:BOOK LIST HERESign Up To The Sunday 7 Newsletter:SIGN UP HEREAccess my other platforms:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksBig love,Make sure to hit the follow button & the 3 dots, then rate show.Egan

We are joined by Dr Robert Glover, author of No More Mr Guy which has sold over 2 million copies. At the heart of the nice guy is covert contracts, hidden unspoken agreements where nice guys perform nice actions with the secret expectation that the other person will automatically reciprocate with love, approval or a relationship, often leading to resentment when these assumed rewards don’t materialise because they aren’t a mind reader. It’s a form of conditional kindness disguised as selflessness often stemming from a fear of directly asking for needs, creating an unstable dynamic built on manipulation rather than genuine connection. Dr Robert Glover has changed the lives of millions with his work and we dive into it all. Expect to learn about:The symptoms of the nice guyWhat causes a ‘nice guy’ to formHow convert contracts govern the nice guyWhy the nice guy is manipulativeWhy nice guys are full of shameWhy women need emotional tension in relationshipsHow other men can help reduce shame for menWhy the integrated man is the end goalPlus so much more. A super incredible chat with a very wise and articulate man. Really really enjoyed diving deep into this super relevant topic.Use Code ‘TM10’ for 10% OFF Mind Mastery:https://nirvanahealth.co/mindmasteryBook 1:1 Consult with Mitch: https://nirvanahealth.co/bookingwithmitch10% OFF Blue Light Gear (Automatically Applied) https://www.blockbluelight.com.au/?ref=eganbrooksGet my Top 50 Must Read Books:BOOK LIST HEREAll Links:https://linktr.ee/eganbrooksBuy Dr Robert Glover's Book: https://amzn.to/457s5wJBig love,Make sure to hit the follow button & the 3 dots, then rate show.Egan