bh209: Gav in the spotlight

In this episode we speak to Jess, who shares her personal journey and insights into the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. Jess, describing herself as a "9-year-old who has been to a lot of therapy", recounts entering the scene through polyamory after university and later discovering swinging post-lockdown. She identifies as solo poly, preferring to engage in swinging independently, shaped by her own desires and boundaries. Jess emphasises the importance of "doing the work" to unlearn monogamous norms, reframing jealousy, and establishing clear boundaries, particularly not dating monogamous individuals or poly people with negative views on swinging. She covers body image issues and overcoming a hierarchy in the swinging community that sometimes invalidates single participants. Check out this podcast now for a delightful stroll through Jess's experiences and the usual questions!   Thanks for hopping into our bed.

In this episode we bring you up to date on what's being going on in our lives. From poorly pets, to great lifestyle success, solo dates, all the way through to HRT - we give you a behind the scenes look at life with the bed hoppers. Find out if Mrs H picked up on some recent sexy hints! We move on to talk about Channel 4's Open House programme. We talk about what worked for us in season three, what could have been better and why we occasionally yelled at the TV. We add some listener views about the show too and talk a bit about our time on television. We'd love your views on Open House - so do reach out if you'd like to share them. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we chat to single fella Gav. He talks about his journey, how he's started exploring his bi side and some of the challenges you might face as a single gentleman exploring the swinging lifestyle. We cover advice for newbies, what Gav would put in the lifestyle bin and if we've ever deleted one of our podcast recordings. It's fun romp through one man's journey from newbie to experienced swinger. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy info Look out for Gav on Fabswingers and other sites at gavla7799.

In this episode (part two of two) we talk about our final few days in Cap d'Agde and our experience as part of the Spicy Match and Libertine event. We cover the foam party, Le Glamour and our overall experience in the French naturist village. We pick up where we left off on the question 'are we shit swingers?' and try to figure out what's changed and why. As ever, we'd love your thoughts - so please reach out to [email protected].  This one is perfect if you're looking to explore Cap d'Agde, thinking about attending events or if you're wondering about your style and approach to swinging.  Thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we talk about our trip to the South of France, visiting the naturist village of Cap d'Agde.  This one is a two parter - with more to follow, but we do explore the first half of our week. We talk about about some of the clubs, events and what we got from our Spicy Match trip. From poolside orgies to cold sores - this one covers a lot of ground! Mr H takes time out to reflect on 'if we are good swingers?' and we talk about our style. If you're heading to Cap, this one might come in handy - likewise if you're not sure if events and clubs might be for you!  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Want to come to our Reassembled social event in Birmingham on 6 September?  Drop us a line at [email protected]  

In this episode we talk about Mrs H's solo adventure in Paris. Was it all Pokemon hunting or was there something a little more naughty? We explore how it all went, how we felt during the trip and talk a little bit about what Mr H got up to whilst Mrs H was away.  Will Mrs H bring him back a croissant, will it be too hot in Paris, will Mr H have changed the theme tune again and what happens when storm stops play? Find out all of this and more in this delightful edition of the bed hoppers podcast. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Want to come along to our 6 September social in Birmingham? Drop us a message on Swinghub, Fabswingers, X or email us at [email protected] 

This episode features a candid conversation with delightful guests Ads and Chantelle, about their experiences in the swinging lifestyle. They discuss how they initially entered the lifestyle through an amateur adult content blog and the subsequent evolution of their relationship, including Chantelle's discovery of her bisexuality and Ads's exploration of his own. The couple shares insights into overcoming challenges, such as ghosting and boundary violations, and emphasise the importance of communication and building a supportive community within the lifestyle. They also touch upon their role in organising social events and offer advice to newcomers, advocating for open-mindedness and dispelling common misconceptions about swinging. You can find Ads and Chantelle on Swinghub at MrMrsWood. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we dive into a discussion about rules and boundaries. We talk about how our rules have evolved from when we first started swinging, how they’ve changed and why we’ve changed them. We explore why we have them there in the first place and if we’ve broken any rules along the way. You might find this a useful listen if you’re about to explore ethical non monogamy and swinging - or it might be a timely reminder to have a discussion about your current rules and boundaries. Either way, we dig into the topic and have some fun along the way. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we catch up on our solo dating experiences and explore why we've been having some separate play dates over the last few months. We cover what's to come and why we might keep this activity as part of our overall play experience. If you're looking to explore this aspect of Swinging, this one might inspire a conversation or two. And if you're just looking to be entertained, there's nothing better than Mrs H trying to tell a sexy story (we can't back that up).  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/bedhoppersuk  

Did you know that data is sexy? Join our episode today and find out about a recent survey we put out about swinging and people's experiences. We make some surprising discoveries about when people started, who brought it up and what people would throw in the swinging lifestyle bin. From age ranges to play-style preferences, we excel at exploring a whole range of data (ha! spreadsheet puns - I wonder what the formula for those is?). Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Come along to the Manchester Mixer - details here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/