stop healing, you’re ruining yourself

in episode 18 of season 2 of sex and the city, samantha jones said that men are (just) for fucking, but is this true?in today’s episode we explore the world of having “lovers” as opposed to long-term partners, whether or not this is the direction women are headed, as well as whether or not this is a better alternative.if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesinstagram: @kelley.nelemusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected] on quisamory: https://www.thecwordmag.co.uk/sexandrelationships/quisamorous-okay-in-a-relationship-okay-singlehttps://carefree.substack.com/p/discovering-im-quisamorousblog post on quisamory: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/2025/07/27/quisamorous-okay-in-a-relationship-okay-single/

is your self-awareness making you more miserable? has your healing journey caused you to feel more isolated? you’re not the only one. most of gen z is struggling with the same issue of being “too self-aware” whilst not being able to actually process their feelings. in today’s episode we explore why your self-awareness is causing you more distress, why you’re actually hurting yourself by “healing” and how to actually heal once and for all.if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesinstagram: @kelley.nelemusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected]

we all know the friend, the one that wants to bring their boyfriend to every girl date. it’s annoying, i know. that’s why, in today’s episode, i breakdown what you should do when you have a friend like this.if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesinstagram: @kelley.nelemusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected]

you don’t need to ask the universe or god for a sign or compare birth charts to know iff someone is “the one,” in fact there’s only one real way of knowing, and that’s what i break down in today’s episode so tune it.if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesinstagram: @kelley.nelemusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected]

happy trans day of visibility ☺️🏳️‍⚧️if you’ve ever wondered what dating is like for transgender people then you’ve come to the right place. in today’s episode we answer the following questions: do people find transgender individuals attractive? what is dating like when you’re transgender? are people who are attracted to transgender individuals gay?if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesinstagram: @kelley.nelemusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected]

in today’s episode we answer the age-old question of whether or not you need to be fully healed to date.if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesinstagram: @kelley.nelemusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected] article: https://www.thecwordmag.co.uk/sexandrelationships/quisamorous-okay-in-a-relationship-okay-single

what if i told you there was more to queer sex than being a top, bottom, or vers?in today’s episode we explore all the concept of a side as well as how cis women can relate to being a side too.if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesinstagram: @kelley.nelemusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected]

unpopular opinion? not everyone should get married and/or have kids. so what do they do with their lives when the whole world tells them they should?in today’s episode we explore all the alternatives to happily ever after and illustrate how you don’t need the nuclear family and white picket fence to be happy and fulfilled.if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesmusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected]

welcome back skanks!tell me something… do you struggle with happiness and pleasure? is it hard for you to chill, give yourself permission to indulge yourself? this episode is for you then. today we chat about our culture obsession with suffering, the philosophy hedonism and how it’s the key to your overall happiness.if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesmusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected]

welcome back skanks!as you can see, today we’re going to be getting into why friendships with relationship-obsessed women are so out… done… R.I.P, grab a drink, sit back and enjoy 🍷if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/servicesmusic by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : [email protected]