AP 636: Do you blame yourself for your stress? + thoughts on the surgeon general’s advisory || Growth Spurt

This episode originally aired on my listener-supported, premium podcast, More Personal. If you want access to more deep dives, including part two of this episode, honest reviews, casual convos, book reports, and other bonus content, make sure to become a supporter. As a woman navigating modern life, I find myself torn between two worlds. On one hand, I embrace traditional values: marriage, motherhood, and homemaking. Yet, I also recognize the importance of feminism and the pursuit of equality. Ultimately, I believe in a woman's right to decide, and navigate, her own path. The "tradwife movement," while appealing to some, raises concerns about potential limitations and societal pressures. Ultimately, the goal should be to create a society where women are empowered and valued for their contributions, regardless of their chosen path. Favorite Things 8 Year Giveaway! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes This episode is sponsored by LMNT, get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/Progress; and by AirDoctor, use code MONICA for up to $300 off air purifiers; and by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Something that I noticed after the 2020 pandemic was that my face changed dramatically, leaving me feeling insecure after years of stress and upheaval. Even though I knew better, I was struggling with attaching my sense of self to my outward appearance. Fortunately, I was able to have a conversation with Dina Scippa, a life coach and founder of Enough Labs, who specializes in helping women navigate crises of confidence and reconnect with their true selves. We explore what confidence truly means, how life circumstances can deeply affect our self-esteem, and practical steps you can take to regain self-trust and authenticity. Plus, Dina offers invaluable tips on dealing with low moments and how to build a sustainable foundation of self-confidence. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that promises to uplift and empower. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Favorite Things 8 Year Giveaway! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/PROGRESS and get on your way to being your best self; and by LMNT, get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/Progress; and by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the 'Wise Women' series, I sit down with Gabe Cox, a goal planning and business strategist, to discuss how we can redefine our relationship with goals. Gabe shares her journey from perfectionism to progress, emphasizing the importance of breaking down big dreams into manageable steps and celebrating small victories along the way. We delve into how shifting our focus from the summit to the path can bring joy and fulfillment, even in the busiest seasons of our lives. Whether you're looking to set new goals or simply find peace in your current journey, this conversation is packed with insights on achieving progress without the pressure of perfection. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Favorite Things 8 Year Giveaway! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/PROGRESS and get on your way to being your best self; and by LMNT, get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/Progress; and by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's coaching call, I had the pleasure of speaking with Krystal, a dedicated mom of four who recently had her fourth baby. We delved into the challenges she's been facing with maintaining energy levels and establishing healthy eating habits, especially after being diagnosed with Hashimoto's. One key takeaway from this conversation is the importance of self-compassion and practical strategies for making nutritious meals manageable, even with a hectic schedule. Join us as we explore how to create habits that not only fit into a busy mom's life but also help in regaining a sense of self and energy. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Favorite Things 8 Year Giveaway! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/PROGRESS and get on your way to being your best self; and by LMNT, get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/Progress; and by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the U.S. Surgeon General’s recent advisory on the mounting stress facing parents today, highlighting how mental health challenges in caregivers impact both parents and their children. With 33% of parents reporting high stress compared to 20% of non-parents, it's clear that the pressures of modern life—raising kids in a fast-paced, tech-driven world, and dealing with financial and safety concerns—are taking their toll. I want to emphasize that stress isn’t a personal failing, but a reflection of real-life challenges. I'm sharing practical steps to manage your stress, nurture your well-being, and support your family, with tips you can incorporate into your daily life. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode we're diving into the practical and emotional aspects of managing money with Jen Smith, personal finance expert and co-host of the Frugal Friends podcast. I share my personal struggles and transformations when it comes to budgeting and impulse spending, and we explore how you can move from feeling guilty about your finances to empowered by them. You'll learn how to do a 90-day spending inventory, understand the importance of aligning your spending with your values, and even discover the benefits of a 30-day no-spend challenge. If you're ready for a fresh, guilt-free approach to money that you can actually stick with, this episode is for you. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! 8 Years Favorite Things Giveaway Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by LMNT, get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/Progress and Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod and AirDoctor, use code MONICA for up to $300 off air purifiers Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I share a particularly tough Monday where a series of small, frustrating events made me feel overwhelmed and ready to run away. From toddlers making messes to kids having meltdowns, I experienced it all. I then had a moment of clarity that helped me find peace in the chaos – realizing 'this is the job.' It's about accepting the responsibilities and challenges that come with being a parent and leaning into them with a positive mindset. I hope my story and the lessons I've learned inspire you to embrace your own challenges with resilience and dedication. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever found yourself doom scrolling into the late night, or snacking when you're not even hungry? You're not alone, and it's more common than you think! In this episode, we're diving deep into why we all numb out and, more importantly, how we can better cope with life's stressors. I'm sharing personal examples from my own life and from the many women I've coached. We’ll break down what triggers our numbing behaviors and how we can transform these habits into healthier ones. From understanding the science behind our tendencies to escape through low-energy activities, to learning actionable tips to bring more intention and self-care into our daily routines, there is something for everyone to learn about this subject! Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! 8 Year Favorite Things Giveaway! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by LMNT, get your free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/Progress and by Aquatru, use code 'MONICA' for 20% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This monthly series features an episode sharing my recent highs and lows, how my habits are going, a Do Something List update, plus what I'm loving lately and my commitments for the upcoming month. I hope this glimpse into my life, my family, my work, and my own self development encourages you in your own journey. Around here the goal is never perfection, just to keep trying, even if in very simple ways. I think you'll see that with all of the big changes going on for me, taking the smallest of steps has helped to keep me afloat and feeling like myself. As always, I encourage you to get messy, too! Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parenthood surprised me in countless ways, but the biggest one was how angry my kids could make me. In this episode, Emily Hamblin shares her personal journey as a mom who unexpectedly faced struggles with anger and how it affected her and her family. She discusses the biological and mental aspects of emotional regulation, offering practical advice for managing anger and understanding its root causes. From identifying personal triggers and maintaining a 'body budget,' to using self-compassion and tailored coping strategies, this conversation is packed with valuable insights and ways to take action. Tune in to learn how to navigate the challenges of parenthood with empathy, understanding, and realistic tools to become the parent you aspire to be. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Emily's Podcast, Website Regulation episode 541 Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the code PROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod and Aquatru, use code 'MONICA' for 20% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices