Pathways to Connection: Navigating Healthy Relationships with Jason VanRuler (The Velvet)

Master Astrologer Marvin Wilkerson joins Kelly to dive deep into the intense and transformative themes of the Scorpio New Moon. With Scorpio’s energy focused on power and control, we explore how this lunar event will push us to confront what we fear most and where we seek to regain our inner strength. Add to that the game-changing Pluto and Mars transits, and you can expect some serious cosmic shake-ups. Buckle up as we break down how these massive energy shifts may manifest in our lives, and learn how to harness their impact for growth and evolution. Email Marvin at [email protected] Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com   HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this spooky yet hilarious episode, Chip and Kelly dive into the psychology behind your Halloween costume choices. What does your costume say about your shadow self or the parts of you that are repressed? Chip shares his wildest (and hilarious) Halloween stories, and Kelly gives her unfiltered analysis of what certain costume choices might reveal about your psyche. From sexy nurses to black cats, join us for a light-hearted exploration of what’s lurking beneath your mask—and maybe learn something about yourself along the way.  Email us at [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Kelly sits down with Thais Gibson, PhD, a renowned author and attachment style expert, to explore the depths of shadow work. Thais explains what the shadow self is, where it originates, and why confronting it can be a powerful tool for personal growth. They discuss how the shadow can often manifest as feeling like it’s always someone else’s fault, constant disappointment in relationships, or ongoing dissatisfaction in work and life. Thais shares how understanding and addressing your shadow can shift these patterns, improve self-esteem, and strengthen relationships. Learn practical steps to start working with your shadow and uncover the unexpected positives it can bring to your life. Check out The Thais Gibson Podcast HERE! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com GUEST: Thais Gibson // @thepersonaldevelopmentschool // thepersonaldevelopmentschool.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly and Chip dive into the mysterious world of dreams, debating whether they hold deeper meanings or are just random thoughts. They share their own recurring dreams, exploring possible interpretations. Kelly also recaps her insightful conversation with author and psychotherapist Machiel Klerk from Wednesday’s episode, delving into the psychology behind dreams and how they might impact our waking lives. Email us at [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly talks to licensed therapist, author and dream-worker, Machiel Klerk, about getting in touch with our own dreams and using them for guidance in our lives. Machiel talks through the 5 steps method to accessing the power of your dreams that he breaks down in his book, Dream Guidance and gives listeners simple questions to start asking your dreams before you go to sleep at night. Check out Machiel's Book: Dream Guidance: Connecting to the Soul Through Dream Incubation   HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com GUEST: Machiel Klerk // @machielklerk // machielklerk.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Chip and Kelly take a deep dive into the age-old question: Do looks really matter in dating? Building on their conversation with coach Keren Eldad about happiness never coming from external success, Chip opens up about his own dating experiences. He reflects on how his focus on appearance may have caused him to miss out on deeper connections. Tune in as they explore the balance between attraction and authenticity in relationships and what truly matters in finding happiness with a partner. HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Kelly sits down with personal and executive coach Keren Eldad to dive into her latest book, GILDED: Breaking Free from the Cage of Ambition, Perfectionism, and the Relentless Pursuit of More. Keren shares her own journey and offers a no-nonsense guide for overachievers who appear to have it all but feel trapped by their own success. They explore how the relentless chase for perfection can lead to burnout and a feeling of suffocation in a life that looks perfect on the outside. Tune in for insights on how to break free from the cycle and reclaim your life. HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com GUEST: Keren Eldad // kereneldad.com // breakfreewithgilded.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Kelly and Chip dive deep into the journey of accepting your authentic self—flaws and all. They explore how real self-love starts with embracing who you are, not the version shaped by social media or societal pressures. Building on Wednesday’s discussion with Jodi White about codependency and social media addiction, they highlight how our online lives can sometimes reflect a broken relationship with ourselves. Plus, they reference the new documentary Harper and Will, which sheds light on the power of authenticity. Tune in for an honest conversation about owning your story, imperfections and all. To listen, just search Velvet’s Edge wherever you listen to podcasts.   Article that was referenced: How to Find Your True Identity HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, psychotherapist, coach, and podcaster Jodi White joins Kelly to explore the parallels between love/validation addiction and our relationship with social media through the lens of Pia Melody's model. Jodi shares practical steps for listeners to gain awareness of their social media habits and the impact on their lives. They also dive deep into the collective trauma from the pandemic—how it's shaped our behaviors and why it’s not being talked about. A thought-provoking conversation on healing, awareness, and reconnecting with what truly matters.   Listen to Jodi's podcast: Journals of a Love Addict HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com GUEST: Jodi White // @jodiwhite_ // @journalsofaloveaddictSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Chip and I dive into the devastation caused by Hurricane Helene, sharing the overwhelming sense of loss and the one word that has kept coming up for both of us—community. In this episode, we reflect on how this tragedy has reshaped our outlook on the bigger picture, what it truly means to come together in times of crisis, and explore ways we can all help rebuild and support those affected. Join us as we unpack the lessons we've learned and the strength that comes from unity. Disaster Preparedness Tips  Ways to Help  HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.