The Queerly Blax Show With Ashley

In this episode of The Queerly Black Show, Ashley chats with Tray about her journey in both personal life and gardening. Dive into their candid conversation covering various aspects of being queer in the South and beyond.Discover how Tray got into gardening and her platform dedicated to it.Hear about her first steps in recognizing her sexuality from a young age.Learn about navigating queer identity within a religious Southern Baptist background.Get practical gardening tips, especially for beginners struggling with plant care.Find out Tray's future aspirations with gardening and potential homesteading.Subscribe, download, and set your reminders to never miss an episode of insightful stories and experiences. Tray IG: @lets_talk_gardeningQueerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshowQueerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos ►I hope guys enjoy this video! ►If you enjoy this video, please like and share it ► don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos►Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTYMore episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91sJessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1sAmanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzgYoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ

Gender Roles in Queer Relationships WITH Bee: The Queerly Blax Show Join Ashley and Bee on The Queerly Blax Show as they delve into the complexities of gender roles in contemporary relationships. From traditional expectations to modern adaptations, this discussion provides practical insights into maintaining harmony and clear communication.Challenges and societal unwillingness to sustain long-term relationshipsIndividual circumstances defining roles rather than traditional normsThe importance of clear communication about household duties and responsibilitiesNavigating financial contributions and the value of non-monetary supportThe evolving landscape of gender roles in both straight and queer relationships Bee IG: @missbeeb_Queerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshowQueerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos ►I hope guys enjoy this video! ►If you enjoy this video, please like and share it ► don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos►Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTYMore episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91sJessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1sAmanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzgYoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ

Join Ashley and Bee on The Queerly Blax Show as they delve into the complexities of gender roles in contemporary relationships. From traditional expectations to modern adaptations, this discussion provides practical insights into maintaining harmony and clear communication.Challenges and societal unwillingness to sustain long-term relationshipsIndividual circumstances defining roles rather than traditional normsThe importance of clear communication about household duties and responsibilitiesNavigating financial contributions and the value of non-monetary supportThe evolving landscape of gender roles in both straight and queer relationships Bee IG: @missbeeb_Queerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshowQueerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos ►I hope guys enjoy this video! ►If you enjoy this video, please like and share it ► don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos►Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTYMore episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91sJessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1sAmanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzgYoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ

In this episode, we're diving headfirst back into the whirlwind of life that comes with newborn babies. Soy opens up about the stark contrasts between their children's early days, including a heart-wrenching NICU stay. We'll chuckle together at the anecdote of snoring disturbances within Ashley's own household, reminding us all of the lighter, more humorous side of shared lives.Our conversation will boldly wrestle with the use of labels in our community. From identifying as "dom" or "stud" to watching the younger generations twist, turn, expand, and sometimes discard these labels altogether, we'll discuss how as we age and find our people, the importance of these labels tends to fade. This thought-provoking dialogue delves into the intersectionality of identity, parenting, and the pressures of societal norms.SK candidly shares how parenthood has altered their relationship dynamics, touching on the importance of rekindling romance as children gain independence. Tai reveals the intimate challenges of breastfeeding and the paramount importance of communication, especially when faced with adversity.Through laughter and heartfelt storytelling, our episode traverses the subjects of bedtime routines, meal prep, and the character play from "The L Word." More profoundly, we discuss how parenting reshapes love and communication, transforming individual priorities and changing the texture of relationships.Prepare for a raw, honest reflection on the challenges and triumphs that come with being a non-birthing parent. Listen as we confront the vulnerabilities of parenting, the importance of maintaining a "self" amidst the blur of Babyville, and the beauty of growing together through life's unexpected turns.Grab your headphones, find a cozy spot, and let's peel back the layers on the evolving meanings of labels, love, and life—as only The Queerly Blax Show can.Let the journey begin, right here, on The Queerly Blax Show. Ashley IG: @queerlyashleySK IG: @esskayySoy IG: @soyboogieTai IG: @lifewithmamadeuxQueerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshowQueerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos ►I hope guys enjoy this video! ►If you enjoy this video, please like and share it ► don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos►Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTYMore episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91sJessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1sAmanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzgYoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ   

Today's show is a special one – we're diving into the first part of a profound discussion on "Non-Birthing Moms," bringing light to an often under-represented experience.In this episode, I'm joined by three remarkable parents, Soy, SK, and Tai, each bringing their own unique perspectives and heartfelt stories from the nontraditional path of motherhood. We'll plunge into the emotional nuances supporting a partner through pregnancy and how each of our guests navigated the complex journey of conception via IUI and IVF amidst the challenges of finding the right donor, familial reactions, and seeking proper medical support.Soy takes us through the delicate matters of identity and family dynamics, SK shares her transformative experience from indifference towards parenting to a deep sense of family, and Tai offers a candid insight into the hardships of infertility treatment. We also touch on managing constant togetherness, making crucial decisions about child-bearing, and confronting societal views on family without a traditional male figure.From the struggles of explaining non-traditional pregnancy to a family, to the triumphs of building a family against the odds, we cover it all. The conversation is candid and sometimes light-hearted, but it’s always real.So join us as we address the common concerns, misconceptions, and the beautiful complexities non-birthing moms face. Stay tuned as we reveal the fears, the moments of joy, and the resilience it takes to navigate parenthood. And don't forget, this is only the first part – you won't want to miss the continuation in episode 99, where we'll explore life after kids. Trust me, it's going to be a conversation you'll be thinking about long after you've stopped listening.Let the journey begin, right here, on The Queerly Blax Show. Ashley IG: @queerlyashleySK IG: @esskayySoy IG: @soyboogieTai IG: @lifewithmamadeuxQueerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshowQueerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos ►I hope guys enjoy this video! ►If you enjoy this video, please like and share it ► don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos►Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTYMore episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91sJessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1sAmanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzgYoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ

In today's episode of The Queerly Blax Show, we heard from the talented music artist, Justy, as she shared her journey of self-discovery and coming into her own as a queer black woman in the music industry. From discussing her early influences to finding her unique sound, Justy's transparency and authenticity shine through. She also touched on her experience coming out to her family and the power of consistency in pursuing your dreams. With her new single 'Couple Goals' on the horizon and her message of transparency in her music, Justy is making her mark. Be sure to follow Justy on Instagram and TikTok for more updates and to check out her music on all streaming platforms. This is Justy, and this is her story. Justy IG: @justymusicQueerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshowQueerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos ►I hope guys enjoy this video! ►If you enjoy this video, please like and share it ► don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos►Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTYMore episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91sJessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1sAmanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzgYoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ

We're getting up close and personal with Whit, whose life story reads like a captivating novel. From the tension of military service and the beat of the drum, to the glitz of LA’s entertainment scene, Whit's journey is brimming with resilience, creativity, and relentless spirit. Whit opens up about the roller-coaster ride of serving in the military under the shadow of "don't ask, don't tell" and how standing up for justice led to a honorable discharge for misconduct due to whistleblowing—a decision that speaks volumes about character.A dream that began with a tap on pots and pans evolved into the pulse of Whit's life as a drummer. Despite hardships, their move from Georgia to LA marked the transition from the military beats to the rhythms of Hollywood. From the hopeful beginnings to collaborations with titans like Issa Rae, Samuel L. Jackson, Cardi B, and J. Cole, Whit invites us to a backstage pass to their professional landscape.But it’s not all glamour and spotlights. Whit candidly shares the darker sides of industry life, confronting underpayment, discrimination, and even heartache in the world of sound engineering. Yet, through it all, they remain unapologetically themselves, committed to authenticity in a challenging environment.In today’s heartfelt conversation, we'll talk about Whit's pivot during the pandemic, the power of music, and the ongoing battle for fairness and recognition in a field that often overlooks the contributions of queer Black talent. This is a story of not just surviving, but thriving. So, tune in, settle down, and join us as we unpack the beats of Whit's extraordinary life. Whit IG: @twhit_the_drummerQueerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshowQueerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos ►I hope guys enjoy this video! ►If you enjoy this video, please like and share it ► don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos►Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTYMore episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91sJessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1sAmanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzgYoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ

Today's powerful episode dove into the heart of 'The Word Queer' with our phenomenal guests, Ariel and Dom. We unpacked their journey as a resilient black queer couple navigating the challenges of visibility, self-acceptance, and the quest for genuine representation. They shared the evolution of their love story, from an innocent college chemistry to converting personal struggles into a dynamic platform for education and empowerment. Whether facing societal biases or celebrating milestones, this duo is transforming the queer narrative. And there's nuggets of wisdom for every listener—embracing your truth fiercely and loving authentically. Stay tuned for more inspirational tales and conversations that break barriers, right here on The Queerly Blax Show." Ariel & Dom IG: @thewordqueerQueerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshowQueerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos ►I hope guys enjoy this video! ►If you enjoy this video, please like and share it ► don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos►Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTYMore episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91sJessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1sAmanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzgYoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ

In todays episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Phalisia. We talked about her coming out experience, going on squid games and making it deep into the game, challenges of starting a family, life in Denver and so much more. Other Topics: “Non” Coming out story Experience as a femme Meeting her wife Challenges with starting a family Going on Squid Games The Challenge Phalisia IG: @phalisia Queerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshow Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143 Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos I hope guys enjoy this video! If you enjoy this video, please like and share it don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos. Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTY More episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91s Jessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1s Amanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98 Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzg Yoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8 CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ

In todays episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Jasmine. We dug deep into her life as a single mother of her beautiful children, transitioning from traditional work to full time content creation, living in New York City, dating masculine women over men and so much more. Jasmine IG: justjazzy_Queerly Blax IG: @thequeerlyblaxshowQueerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos ►I hope guys enjoy this video! ►If you enjoy this video, please like and share it ► don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more upcoming videos►Subscribe now - https://bit.ly/3yqJvTYMore episodes: Jerrie Johnson - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6rPW3V4gFU&t=91sJessica Betts & Niecy Nash - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JkBWQ8BU1sAmanda Grace Jenkins - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZqKcBI0R98Zashia Santiago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7GRCZtggzgYoe Apolinario - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1o-Yz61rC8CJ The Trainer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM2tpCM1nPQ