EP 41: Navigating Modern Friendships (Ft. Danielle Bayard Jackson)

What if the church truly became a sanctuary—a refuge for the wounded and marginalized? Join me Megan Ashley In this episode of In Totality, we sit down with Pricelis Dominguez, author of Being a Sanctuary, to discuss her journey from growing up in New York City to her time in the Dominican Republic and how studying the book of Acts has shaped her faith. Pricelis shares her insights on resilience, the beauty of fall in NYC, and her passion for creating culturally relevant Christian content.We also confront the deep wounds caused within church communities, tackling issues like racism, sexism, mental health, and disabilities. Pricelis emphasizes the urgent need for churches to return to Bible-based, trauma-informed, and justice-oriented practices, sharing her own faith journey, including moments of doubt and renewal.Finally, we explore the vital role of diversity in strengthening Christian communities, drawing lessons from the early church’s embrace of cultural differences. Pricelis highlights the power of diverse leadership and experiences in fostering empathy, compassion, and authenticity in embodying Jesus’ teachings. This episode offers a heartfelt discussion on transforming the church into a true place of healing and refugeOther Topics You will Hear: -Spiritual Journeys-Christian Content-Resilience-Authenticity-Racism-Sexism -Mental Health,-Justice-Oriented-Unity-Diversity-Leadership-Compassion-Faith-God's Vision-Spiritual Abuse-Image Bearers-Cultural Diversity-Identity-Lived ExperiencesGet a copy of Pricelis’s book: Being a Sanctuary: The Radical Way for the Body of Christ to Be Sacred, Soft, and SafeActs 242: Discipleship Conference, Oct 25-26, Atlanta, GA. Registration is open now: (http://www.acts242conference.com)“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.” Acts 2:42Connect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Join me, Megan Ashley, for an inspiring episode of *In Totality* as I sit down with the remarkable Mrs. Lisa Bevere. Together, we reflect on my journey of rediscovering faith and the profound influence the Bevere family’s teachings have had on my life. Lisa shares her unique perspective on raising sons, offering heartfelt insights into the joys and challenges of being a boy mom, as well as her deep prayers for building strong, loving relationships with her daughters-in-law.In our conversation, we also explore Lisa’s family dynamics, from her upbringing in a non-Christian household to the intentional steps she took to cultivate unity and acceptance within her own family. We dive into the importance of male role models in today’s digital age, the value of expanding children’s worldviews, and the power of speaking words of faith and encouragement into their lives. Additionally, we discuss the evolving roles of fathers and grandfathers and the lasting impact of a mother’s unwavering support and wisdom.Toward the end of the episode, we tackle the pressing issues surrounding identity and self-worth in today’s society, particularly in the context of gender identity. Lisa and I emphasize the vital role parents play as the primary source of identity and guidance for their children. We also explore the inspiration behind Lisa’s book *Fight for Female* and the powerful call to reject worldly influences in favor of godly principles.Tune in for an enriching conversation filled with faith, wisdom, and the pursuit of a Christ-centered life.Other Topics You will Hear: -Parenting-Faith-Gender Identity-Parenting Challenges-Family Dynamics-Biblical Truth-Women Empowerment-Renewing Minds-Spiritual Connection-Unity-Humility-Spiritual Warfare-Love and Truth, -Boldness -Holy Spirit-PurposeGet a copy of Lisa’s book: The Fight for Female: Reclaiming Our Divine IdentityActs 242: Discipleship Conference, Oct 25-26, Atlanta, GA. Registration is open now: (http://www.acts242conference.com)“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.” Acts 2:42Thanks to our Sponsors ZocDoc Go to Zocdoc.com/TOTALITY and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.Connect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How do you stay faithful and resilient when faced with relentless criticism? Join me, Megan Ashley, as we explore the emotional and spiritual trials of living out our faith in the public eye, drawing inspiration from Stephen's unwavering strength in Acts chapter six, in this episode of In Totality.we delve into the narrative of Stephen, a man chosen for his integrity and filled with the Holy Spirit, we discuss the challenges he faced, including false accusations and ultimate martyrdom. The story of Stephen is a poignant reminder of the importance of serving with integrity and standing firm in truth despite opposition. We unpack the apostles' decision to appoint seven Hellenistic men to ensure fair treatment of the widows, highlighting themes of service, justice, and faithfulness.Living boldly for Christ can bring about persecution, but through Stephen's example, we see the power of defending God's word rather than our own reputations. Reflecting on our personal struggles and the necessity of a supportive community rooted in scripture, this episode underscores the essential role of the Holy Spirit in empowering us to proclaim truth and love. Embrace the call to forgive and love our enemies, and join us in navigating this season of critique and exposure with unwavering faith and fellowship.Other Topics You will Hear: -Faith-Resilience-Acts-Stephen -Christian Church-Integrity-Truth-Serving Community-Scripture-Discipleship -Critique-Exposure -Holy Spirit, -Opposition-Misunderstood-Bold-ForgivenessActs 242: Discipleship Conference, Oct 25-26, Atlanta, GA. Registration is open now: (http://www.acts242conference.com)“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.” Acts 2:42Connect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week join me, Megan Ashley, and my incredible guest, Dinorah Peña, as we embark on a heartfelt journey through faith, growth, and personal challenges. Dinorah and I reminisce about our first meeting in 2022, sharing how our bond has flourished and how we've supported each other's endeavors ever since. Listen in as we explore the profound connections we discover in our faith journeys, particularly through the trials and transitions of life. From the transition of a behind-the-scenes PR professional to a visible role in women's ministry, to the relentless grind culture and the spiritual invitation to find rest, we cover it all. Reflecting on Matthew 11:28-30, we share personal stories of overcoming anxiety, battling idolatry, and making significant life changes based on God's guidance. The conversation emphasizes the importance of spiritual rest and obedience to God's calling, even when it involves stepping out of our comfort zones.We also address the challenges of maintaining faith amidst temptations and the importance of mindful consumption of media. From the power of forgiveness and understanding God's discipline to stewarding influence responsibly in today's culture, our discussion touches on various aspects of Christian living. This episode is packed with insights on spiritual growth, the importance of forgiveness, and breaking unhealthy spiritual ties. Whether you're navigating personal trials, seeking spiritual growth, or learning to balance life's demands with faith, this episode offers wisdom and encouragement to guide you on your journey. Other topics you will hear:-Faith-Community-Discipleship Conference-Spiritual Journeys-Transitioning Careers-Spiritual Rest-Grind Culture-Anxiety-God's Guidance-Temptations-Forgiveness-Mindful Stewardship-Influence-Covenants-Spiritual Bonds-RepentanceKeep up with Dinorah Peña and join her bible study https://linktr.ee/seedsowharvestThanks to our Sponsors Better Help This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/TOTALITY and get on your way to being your best self.ZocDoc Go to Zocdoc.com/TOTALITY and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.Acts 242: Discipleship Conference, Oct 25-26, Atlanta, GA. Registration is open now: (http://www.acts242conference.com)“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.” Acts 2:42Connect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Join me, Megan Ashley, on this enriching episode of "In Totality" as I share my heart and reflections on the past year, highlighting my journey of spiritual focus and discipline since May 2023. In our exploration of embracing freedom in salvation, we delve into the transformative power of key biblical scriptures such as Romans 5:8 and John 3:16. These passages illuminate the incredible love and sacrifice of Christ for humanity, encouraging us to fully embrace God's unconditional love, forgiveness, and acceptance. The narrative of the prodigal son serves as a powerful illustration of God's boundless grace and restoration, reminding us that no matter how far we stray, we can always return to Him and be fully restored.As we discuss experiencing liberation through Christ, I share how understanding God's kindness, provision, and mercy brings peace and freedom. This chapter emphasizes the joyous privilege of living according to His teachings, not out of obligation, but from a place of honor and gratitude. Listen in as we explore practical ways to live in the freedom of being in Christ daily, balancing life with a heart check and seeking God's guidance. Reflecting on scriptures such as Psalms 139:23, Acts 3:19, and Galatians 2:20, we discuss the importance of daily repentance, embracing our identity in Christ, and avoiding temptations.Other Topics You will Hear: -Spiritual Growth -Discipline-Acts 242 Conference-Discipleship, -Spiritual Warfare-Negative Thoughts-Salvation-Forgiveness-Relationship with God -Liberation-Empowerment -Repentance -Temptations -HumilityActs 242: Discipleship Conference, Oct 25-26, Atlanta, GA. Registration is open now: (http://www.acts242conference.com)“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.” Acts 2:42Connect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if your pain and struggles were the very tools God uses to shape your identity and purpose? Join me, Megan Ashley, as I sit down with the incredible Dr. Sarita T. Lyons, author of "Church Girl": A Gospel Vision to Encourage and Challenge Black Christian Women available now! Dr. Sarita shares her transformative journey from lay leader to the Director of Community and Women's Ministry and Discipleship at Epiphany Church. Our friendship, sparked in Dallas, has blossomed, and it's an honor to explore her insights on the significance of a physical Bible, her adventures as a mother of four nearly-grown children, and the excitement of spending more time with her husband as they enter a new chapter of life.Dr. Sarita provides a rich tapestry of experiences, blending her background in clinical forensic psychology and law into her ministry work. We navigate the unique challenges of urban church ministry, the intricate balance between personal and professional commitments, and the profound impact of her husband's Air Force service post-9/11. Our conversation takes a deep dive into the Equip You program, which merges seminary rigor with the cultural richness of HBCUs, and the essential role of lay counseling and urban apologetics in addressing the needs of the community.In this episode we discuss the importance of feeling seen and valued by God amidst societal obstacles. From embracing suffering for spiritual growth to balancing rest and work in ministry, discover how God uses our struggles for a greater purpose. Tune in for a conversation that's both thought-provoking and spiritually enriching, offering a fresh perspective on finding peace and purpose in God.Other topics you will hear:-Urban Church Ministry-Discipleship-Motherhood -Clinical Forensic Psychology-Urban Apologetics-Professional Dedication-Family Life-Black Women-Faith Journey-Lifeless Lifeboats-Identity-Pain-Christ-centered Rest -Over-functioning/Under-functioning-CommunityCheck out Dr. Sarita T. Lyons book Church Girl: A Gospel Vision to Encourage and Challenge Black Christian Women: (https://www.saritalyons.com/churchgirlbook)Acts 242: Discipleship Conference, Oct 25-26, Atlanta, GA. Registration is open now: (http://www.acts242conference.com)“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.” Acts 2:42Thanks to our Sponsors ZocDoc Go to Zocdoc.com/TOTALITY and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.Connect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How do friendships shape our lives, and why are they often overlooked in discussions about personal growth? Join me, Megan Ashley, as we sit down with Danielle Bayard Jackson, a leading friendship expert and educator, who shares her inspiring journey from high school English teacher to public relations professional, all while uncovering the unique friendship challenges faced by high-achieving women. Prepare to be enlightened on the critical role friendships play in both personal and professional spheres, as Danielle sheds light on the often under appreciated value of platonic relationships.Explore the evolving dynamics of friendships in today's fast-paced world, where time spent with friends has noticeably declined. Danielle and I discuss the significant health and happiness benefits of maintaining strong social circles, challenging the societal emphasis on romantic relationships. We also navigate the complexities of interracial female friendships, underlining the importance of understanding and mutual responsibility to foster meaningful connections across racial lines.Friendship breakups are on the rise, and this episode delves into the cultural shifts and digital influences contributing to this trend. With Danielle's expertise, we offer practical tools for evaluating the health of your friendships and strategies for navigating difficult conversations with honesty and vulnerability. Tune in to gain valuable insights and learn how to create more fulfilling connections.Other topics you will hear:-Friendship-High-Achieving Women -Modern Friendships -Toxic Friendships-Difficult Conversations-Vulnerability-Communication,-Low-Maintenance Friendships-Intimacy -Commitment-Platonic Bonds-Biblical Perspective-Fear-Desires-ReconciliationCheck out Danielle’s book Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships: (https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/fighting-for-our-friendships)Acts 242: Discipleship Conference, Oct 25-26, Atlanta, GA. Registration is open now: (http://www.acts242conference.com)“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.” Acts 2:42Connect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How can you transform past shame into a powerful testimony for Christ? Join me, Megan Ashley, on this episode of In Totality, where we unravel the true power of faith and submission. Reflecting on my own spiritual journey, I answer a few questions from the village community about overcoming the weight of past sins. Together, we explore the redemptive nature of grace, how to embrace our identity in Christ, and the importance of gratitude over guilt. We also delve into the miraculous healing in the book of Acts,to showcase God's transformative power in our lives.Inspired by the unwavering faith of Timothy's grandmother Lois and mother Eunice, I share insights on the vital role women play in the spiritual development of young men. As a single mother, I've faced the challenge of discipling teenage boys without a male role model, and I offer practical advice and biblical wisdom on nurturing their faith. Finally, we discuss integrating faith into everyday life, emphasizing humility and dependence on God amidst personal struggles. This episode is packed with heartfelt stories and scriptural guidance. Tune in to learn how living out your faith authentically can serve as a compelling witness to others, and discover the beauty of suffering in strengthening your relationship with Christ. Other topics you will hear:-Faith, -Redemption -Obedience-Shame-Gratitude-Acts-Discipling-Parenting-Ego-Biblical Teachings-Temptations-Offended-Suffering, -Patience -Impact-ForgivenessThanks to our Sponsors Better Help This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/TOTALITY and get on your way to being your best self.”Acts 242: Discipleship Conference, Oct 25-26, Atlanta, GA. Registration is open now: (http://www.acts242conference.com)“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.” Acts 2:42Connect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you ever wonder how mindful content consumption can transform your spiritual journey? Join me, Megan Ashley, as we sit down with our much-anticipated guest this week, Pastor Jerry Flowers Jr. lead pastors of Time of Celebration Ministries Church in Houston, TX. Together, we unravel this profound topic, cautioning against the alluring but potentially shallow practice of "buffet style" sermon listening. Pastor Jerry highlights the importance of engaging deeply with spiritual teachings. Drawing from his rich experience as a student pastor, Pastor Jerry shares how he crafts relatable illustrations to help bridge the gap between complex theological concepts and everyday understanding, ensuring the core message of the Word remains intact and impactful.In this enlightening episode, we delve into the intricate dynamics of generational discipleship and the unique upbringing of a pastor's child. Pastor Jerry offers a heartfelt glimpse into his life, emphasizing the significance of witnessing genuine faith in one's parents and the delicate balance of discipline and grace in a spiritual household. As we explore the lives and emotional challenges faced by pastors, Pastor Jerry underscores the necessity of authenticity and empathy in leadership. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone seeking to deepen their faith and understand the profound influence of spiritual leadership. Tune in for a conversation that promises to enrich your spiritual experience and offer valuable insights into the life of a pastor.Other topics you will hear:-Mindful Content Consumption-Spiritual Realm-Sermon -Listening-Theological Ideas-Generational Discipleship-Faith-Discipline-Grace, -Leadership-Authenticity -God's WordCheck out Pastor Jerry's Therapy Thursday: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzLD4ioyQ24&feature=youtu.be)Acts 242: Discipleship Conference, Oct 25-26, Atlanta, GA. Registration is open now: (http://www.acts242conference.com)“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.” Acts 2:42Connect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What does it truly mean to "seek first the kingdom of God" in our everyday lives? Join me, Megan Ashley, as I unpack how prioritizing God can bring profound transformation to your spiritual journey. Responding to insightful questions from my Patreon community, the Village, we'll discuss practical ways to deepen your understanding of scripture and the value of biblical literacy, with special mentions of the Tony Evans Study Bible and the crucial role of seasoned believers in guiding us toward contextual understanding.Imagine how prioritizing Christ can redefine your relationships and personal identity. Through personal reflections and candid discussions about therapy, discover the challenges and triumphs of letting go of old attachments and seeking God's guidance in every aspect of life. We'll also navigate the complexities of church culture, exploring how to find a church home that aligns with biblical teachings and discerning when to grow within a community or move on when faced with cultural misalignments. This episode highlights the delicate balance between faith and mental health strategies, providing a holistic approach to well-being.Other topics you will hear:-Biblical Teachings -Experienced Believers-Church Culture -Mental Health -Spiritual Practices -Intimacy-Friendships-Self-identity-Letting Go-Divine Guidance-Prayer-Fasting-DiscipleshipConnect with us:  @immeganashleyWebsite: https://www.themeganashley.comCall me at 265-792-8819My Amazon Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/immeganashley Youtube: In Totality  In Totality with Megan Ashley Is edited and produced by Idea to Launch PodcastsSign up for our PATREON for EXCLUSIVE access and additional:https://www.patreon.com/meganashleySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.