The Beautifully Anxious

Remember the beginning of COVID where you were furiously scrubbing away at your groceries and Lysol was more expensive than gold? We do. In what is very much a time capsule episode (this was recorded at the beginning of the first worldwide lockdown in April 2020), Dave, Phivos and Benet are joined by friend of the show, actor, singer, and dragon-slayer Luke Evans. They chat about coping tools, meditation, success, pressure and (inevitably) how unprepared everyone felt for a lockdown.About Us:Instagram | Patreon | ContactGuest Info:Luke Evans - Instagram | Twitter | IMDB | SpotifyLuke  Evans is a Welsh actor and singer. In 2013, Evans starred as the antagonist Owen Shaw in the blockbuster Fast & Furious 6, and also played Bard the Bowman in Peter Jackson's three-part adaptation of J. R. R. Tolkien's The Hobbit. More recently Luke starred as Gaston in Disney's live-action adaptation of Beauty and the Beast, and had a lead role in the period drama series The Alienist. You can currently see him in on the Hulu drama miniseries Nine Perfect Strangers.-------------------------------------------Sponsored by: RETOLD RECYCLING | InstagramUse code ANXIOUS15 to get 15% off while helping to save the planet.Music:Narcy - Website | Instagram | TwitterOpening Credits:Narcy - Superhero (Instrumental) | Produced by SandhillClosing Credits:Narcy - Free (One Day) | Produced by NarcyEdited By:Milad Yousofi - Website ©Anxious Fox LLC

Dave, Phivos and Benet are joined by their friend Ramy Youssef, a successful comedian, actor, creator (but failed NBA player). They candidly discuss his experience of therapy, navigating relationships, what 'success' means, and everything in-between.About Us:INSTAGRAM | PATREON | CONTACTGuest Info:RAMY YOUSSEF - Instagram | Twitter | WebsiteRamy is a Queens born, New Jersey raised stand-up comedian, actor, writer, and director known for his role as Ramy Hassan on the Hulu comedy series Ramy, for which he received the Golden Globe Award for Best Actor – Television Series Musical or Comedy and a Peabody Award in 2020. He was also nominated for two Primetime Emmy Awards: Outstanding Directing for a Comedy Series and Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series.Had he not been successful as an actor/writer/comic, he would've definitely made it as an NBA player.-------------------------------------------Sponsored by: RETOLD RECYCLING | InstagramUse code ANXIOUS15 to get 15% off while helping to save the planet.Music:Narcy - Website | Instagram | TwitterOpening Credits:Narcy - Superhero (Instrumental) | Produced by SandhillClosing Credits:Narcy - Free (One Day) | Produced by NarcyEdited By:Milad Yousofi

About Us:INSTAGRAM | PATREON | CONTACT-------------------------------------------If You Wanna Know More:Grief | Psychology TodayWhat You're Feeling is Grief - Nylah Burton | VoxKeanu Reeves on DeathFive Ways To Cope With Your Parents Death - Elizabeth Kiefer | ViceBook Recommendation-------------------------------------------Music:Narcy - Website | Instagram | TwitterOpening Credits:Narcy - Superhero (Instrumental) | Produced by SandhillClosing Credits:Narcy - Free (One Day) | Produced by NarcyEdited By:Milad Yousofi

About Us:INSTAGRAM | PATREON | CONTACT-------------------------------------------If You Wanna Know More:Perfectionism | Psychology TodayPerfectionism Is Killing Us - Christie Aschwanden | VoxIt’s Never Going to Be Perfect, So Just Get It Done - Tim Herrera | New York Times The Intolerable Rise of Perfectionism - Paula Cocozza | The GuardianPerfectionism Is a Mental Illness and It's Ruining My Life - James Nolan | Vice-------------------------------------------Music:Narcy - Website | Instagram | TwitterOpening Credits:Narcy - Superhero (Instrumental) | Produced by SandhillClosing Credits:Narcy - Free (One Day) | Produced by Narcy

About Us:INSTAGRAM | PATREON | CONTACTGuest Info:NATALY AUKAR - Instagram | Twitter | WebsiteNataly is a Lebanese born and raised stand up comic based in New York City.​After working as a writer at a production house in Lebanon throughout college, Nataly graduated from the American University of Beirut and immediately moved to NY to pursue stand up comedy.-------------------------------------------If You Wanna Know More:Hypochondria | Psychology TodayThe Treatment of Health Anxiety - Frederic Neumann M.D. | Psychology TodayHow an 18th-Century Priest Gave Us the Tools to Make Better Decisions - Liv Boeree | VoxA New Approach To Treating Hypochondria - Jane E.Brody | New York TimesThe Global Coronavirus Threat Is Making Life Hell for Hypochondriacs- Anya Zoledziowski | Vice-------------------------------------------Music:Narcy - Website | Instagram | TwitterOpening Credits:Narcy - Superhero (Instrumental) | Produced by SandhillClosing Credits:Narcy - Free (One Day) | Produced by Narcy

ABOUT US:INSTAGRAM | PATREON | CONTACT-------------------------------------------TOPICS:02:52 - Defining ‘anger’03:51 - You wouldn’t like Dave when he’s angry13:39 - Rules + Expectation = Anger17:44 - Anger is usually easy21:33 - Broken Steering / Broken Boundaries27:53 - Anger can be healthy32:21 - Too angry?52:57 - It’s not about the blueberries56:35 - There’s so much to be angry at-------------------------------------------MORE INFO:Anger | Psychology TodayWhat Your Anger May Be Hiding - Leon F.Seltzer Ph.D. | Psychology TodayBronx School Embraces a New Tool in Counseling: Hip-Hop - Winnie Hu | New York TimesHip-Hop TherapyWhy we get mad — and why it’s healthy - Ryan Martin | TED Talk-------------------------------------------Music:Narcy - Website | Instagram | TwitterOpening Credits:Narcy - Superhero (Instrumental) | Produced by SandhillClosing Credits:Narcy - Free (One Day) | Produced by Narcy 

Dave & Phivos are back, this time to dive into some of their obsessive-compulsive thoughts and behaviors with friend and therapist Benet.Dave shares what drives the compulsions he has and has had throughout his life. They look at the sliding scale of OCD, some of the unhelpful and (who would’ve thought) helpful ways that it manifests, as well as different treatment options that are available. But most importantly, they answer the eternal question: ‘How can Dave eat ass, but not wear a clean sock that’s been dropped on the floor?’-------------------------------------------ABOUT US:INSTAGRAM | PATREON | CONTACT-------------------------------------------TOPICS:01:53 - Why Dave is a “Slipper Person” now05:19 - OCD and Hollywood06:48 - Defining “obsessions” and “compulsions”07:24 - Why Dave’s dad spent so much on video game controllers11:00 - Overcooked chicken isn’t the answer27:10 - “I’m a little OCD”36:29 - How do you help someone with OCD?42:28 - “They fuck you up, your mum and dad”54:20 - Medication and treatment-------------------------------------------MORE INFO:Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder | Psychology TodayAs Good As It GetsObsessive Thoughts: A Darker Side of OCD - Olivia Loving | The AtlanticI’ve spent years taming the OCD monster - Matthew Cantor | The Guardian-------------------------------------------Music:Narcy - Website | Instagram | TwitterOpening Credits:Narcy - Superhero (Instrumental) | Produced by SandhillClosing Credits:Narcy - Free (One Day) | Produced by Narcy  

A panic attack is like a giant wave coming at you. You can’t stop the wave, you can’t punch it, you can’t kick it, but you know it will pass. Knowing that it is going to come and go is the key to riding it out.Dave, Phivos, and Ben return, this time discussing something they are both very familiar with, ‘Panic Attacks’. A lot more common than you might imagine, Ben listens as our hosts reveal how having them regularly affected their lives, from Phivos walking for miles to avoid the subway, to Dave wondering if his barber is actually going to murder him. All this and how dry humping is cool (if you’re into that kind of thing). -------------------------------------------ABOUT US:INSTAGRAM | PATREON | CONTACT-------------------------------------------TOPICS:05:48 - Sabretooth tigers and job interviews07:18 - Are panic attacks a good thing?08:49 - Cardiologists are not funny11:45 - “Clit”14:14 - Definition of a panic attack16:46 - Panic-ception19:00 - What if my barber is Sweeney Todd?22:05 - Isn’t everything a possibility?40:51 - It’s gonna be OK-------------------------------------------MORE INFO:Panic Attacks - Psychology TodayHow To Manage Panic Attacks - Charles Schaeffer, Ph.D. | Psychology TodaySurviving Anxiety - Scott Stossel | The Atlantic (January 2014)-------------------------------------------MUSIC:Narcy - Website | Instagram | TwitterOpening Credits:Narcy - Superhero (Instrumental) | Produced by SandhillClosing Credits:Narcy - Free (One Day) | Produced by Narcy

Dave & Phivos overcome their procrastination and FINALLY start their podcast. Guided by their friend and practicing therapist Benet, join them as they wander through the world of mental health, on a vulnerable, honest (often shameless) journey to be better. In this introductory episode, the hosts share a bit about their backgrounds, daily anxiety struggles and compulsions they experience, while Benet does his best to make sense out of all this. Amongst many things they explore ‘why a jacket can be more than just a jacket’, and ‘why Dave’s socks sometimes make him go soft’.-------------------------------------------ABOUT US:INSTAGRAM | PATREON | CONTACT-------------------------------------------TOPICS:03:24 - Thinking of seeing a therapist?09:13 - Does anyone care?09:56 - Phivos gets a pep talk10:57 - Is it ok to call people crazy?16:31 - Why Dave & Phivos have the cleanest apartment21:50 - Twitter Feedback36:04 - Sometimes, it’s not really about the jacket47:00 - Dave & the barista-------------------------------------------FURTHER READING:Imposter Syndrome - WikipediaImposter Syndrome - Psychology Today'What If' TreeTED Ed Talk - What Is Imposter Syndrome & How Can You Combat It?The Confidence Gap - The Atlantic (May 2014)-------------------------------------------MUSIC:Narcy - Website | Instagram | TwitterOpening Credits:Narcy - Superhero (Instrumental) | Produced by SandhillClosing Credits:Narcy - Free (One Day) | Produced by Narcy