SWM 091 – April 2022 Anonymous Questions

January 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Phone sexOral sex to completionForgiveness and trust after betrayalAre pictures and videos a problem?Increasing female libido naturallyWhat is our duty?Toxic wifeAbusive employerHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Our Sexploration List (printable)Oral sex survey results (post)Do Christians make sex tapes - survey results (post)Why masturbation is a problem, whether you're married or single (post)Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course)Where did my sex drive go? (ebook)Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

December 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Does my wife know what I'm doing to her?I want to share orgasms with my husbandWhat are your thoughts on BDSM?Is bondage a problem for me?Wife doesn't like direct clitoral stimulationHow do I hold my wife accountable?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Your definition of gross changes when you're aroused (post)Episode 95 - Question 1 - Coming clean about faking orgasms (post/podcast)Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course)Making it easier to orgasm - guide for Christian wives (ebook)Introduction to Talking Dirty (ebook)Our Sexploration List (printable)My wife wants me to tie her up!? (post)Honour bondage (post)Beginner bondage questions (post)Bondage resources - Question 6 (post/podcast)Are dominance/submission games okay in the bedroom? (post)Why does my spouse always push for more during sex? (post/podcast)She Comes First - BookLately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

SWM 101 - Why does my spouse always push for more during sex? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.Today I'm answer this question I received in my inbox: Jay, I enjoyed the book (Introduction to Talking Dirty) that my hubby put on my iPad. The thing is, no matter what I do in my comfort zone, it isn't enough. I do many, I mean many, of the examples you use, even the F WORD. How do I get him to be grateful for what I do instead of needing more? I always feel inadequate.Anyways thanks for helping many couples enjoy their intimacy more!Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful supporters!If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

November 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Spouse falls asleep during romantic getawayHusband wants her to wear revealing clothesPublic sexAre we responsible for our dreams?How to encourage your spouse to be healthierHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course)37 Questions for spouses to ask each other about sexLately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

October 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Where does the energy come from?Mutual masturbationSharing fantasies and machinesMasturbation due to struggles with orgasmingSpontaneous / Responsive desire quizWhy do married men masturbate?How do you meet other people?Can I use sex to encourage my husband to lose weight?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course)Upcoming webinar (Jan 21, 2023) about our BMSE CourseMutual masturbation (post)Mutual masturbation (survey results)SWM 093 - Question 3 - Should you share fantasies with your spouse?Spontaneous / responsive desire quiz (beta)Why do married men masturbate?Can Christians have threesomes?Can Christian couples swing?Sexy coupons (printable)Our Sexploration List (printable)Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

September 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Where are you?How to hide bruisesWhat role do I have in God changing my heart?Mother of 3 young kids isn't as interested in sex as husbandHow to recover from faking orgasms?Husband wants to be pursuedWhere do you get your garbage theology?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course)Upcoming webinar (Jan 21, 2023) about our BMSE CourseCovenantEyes - Porn and more blocker (software)Where did my sex drive go? (ebook)Marriage coachingSWM 030 - Question #1 about credentialsLately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

Why men being submissive is problematic. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.A reader posed the following question:Hi. I wanted to know if there is any reason that the man can't be the submissive part sometimes during sex. Because I feel like I want to be submissive from time to time, but I don't want to ask my wife because it's an awkward topic.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Anonymous have a question pageWhat does our physiology say about who should lead?According to the Bible, which gender should lead?TheLionWithin.us - Leadership for Christian menIntimacy Advent CalendarFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful supporters!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

August 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Coming clean about faking orgasmsWanting wife to wear a diaperWet and messy / humiliation fetishIs oral sex a measure of love?Married and lonelyChastity playSex outdoorsPre-orgasmic wifeLast chance to jump in on our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a great way to add some intimacy to the holidays. Interested in learning more? Check it out here and get 25% off with the coupon code BLACKFRIDAYHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:CoachingMarried Sex - Gary Thomas and Debra Feileta (book)Intimacy Ignited - Dillow, Dillow, Pintus and Pintus (book)Becoming more sexually engaged - For Christian wives (course)Introduction to talking dirty (ebook)Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

Who is more righteous? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.A reader posed the following question:There are two people. The first person participates in the modern Sexual Marketplace by dating around, having a series of mid-to-long-term relationships that involve sex, and having a few hookups, but ends up in a stable marriage and has children by his mid-to-late twenties. The second person follows Biblical Courtship (or whatever you want to call it), saves sex for marriage, only courts/dates Christians, but never finds a spouse and ends up as a 40-year-old childless virgin.Who was the more righteous of the two?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Anonymous have a question pageSWM 063 - Sermon - It's all worth itFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterLastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.