Love and Abuse podcast

When they shower you with love after they've done bad behavior

22/08/2024

Love and Abuse

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How can you tell if your partner's affection is genuine or a manipulation tactic? Love bombing usually takes place at the beginning of a relationship to create a strong bond between an abusive person and their victim. But it can also be used to get away with bad behavior in long-term relationships as well.

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