#489 The Pursuit of Peace (and Why My Brain Keeps Getting in the Way)

The Pursuit of Peace (and Why My Brain Keeps Getting in the Way) We've all experienced the frustrating paradox: we know what habits and practices would bring us closer to emotional well-being, yet we often find ourselves doing the opposite. We understand the importance of mindfulness, healthy boundaries, or simply taking a break, but our brains seem to have other plans. This isn't simply a matter of willpower or laziness; there are complex psychological factors at play. Our brains are wired for survival, not necessarily happiness, and sometimes our deeply ingrained patterns and coping mechanisms steer us towards familiar discomfort. We may fear change, feel unworthy of peace, or simply be overwhelmed by the effort required to shift our habits. Understanding these barriers is the first step towards overcoming them and creating a life that aligns with our deepest desires for inner peace and happiness. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 19 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #pursuitofpeace #thepursuitofpeace #happinesspodcast

Beyond Delight: Finding Growth in Life's Challenges "Beyond Delight: Finding Growth in Life's Challenges" is a podcast that delves into the transformative power of adversity. While joyful experiences undoubtedly bring us happiness, it's often the difficult moments that catalyze profound personal growth. We'll explore how pain, loss, and setbacks can serve as catalysts for self-discovery, resilience,and ultimately, a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us. Join us as we uncover the hidden gifts within life's challenges and learn to navigate the path from struggle to strength. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 19 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #beyonddelight #lifeschallenges #growthmindset #happinesspodcast

The Joy of Less: The Anticipation Trap Expectations are a double-edged sword. While they can motivate us to achieve our goals, they can also lead to disappointment and dissatisfaction if they are not met. Often, when our expectations are met, we merely feel like we've broken even, rather than exceeded anything. This is due to our tendency to adapt to new levels of pleasure or success, and the constant comparison we make to others.  However, by understanding the nature of expectations, setting realistic goals,and embracing a "good enough" mindset, we can free ourselves from the trap of constantly chasing after the next thing and find more contentment in the present moment. By managing expectations and focusing on the journey, not just the destination, we open ourselves up to the possibility of exceeding our own expectations and those of others, leading to even greater rewards and satisfaction. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 19 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #thejoyofless #beyondexpectations #theanticipationtrap

Right of Way or Right of Mind? "The Path to Peace" Ever been cut off in traffic or felt the rage of someone honking their horn at you? We all experience those moments when someone seems to think they have the "right of way," but do they have the "right of mind?" In this podcast, Right of Way or Right of Mind?: The Path to Peace, we delve into the common frustrations and disagreements we face on the road of life. We'll explore how our reactions, whether fueled by anger or understanding, can shape our experiences and relationships.  We'll discuss practical strategies for cultivating patience, empathy, and forgiveness, helping you navigate life's challenges with grace and discover a greater sense of inner peace. Join us as we journey towards a more peaceful and harmonious existence, one mindful choice at a time. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 19 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #pathtopeace #rightofway #rightofmind #roadrage #happinesspodcast

Beyond Happiness: Mastering the Art of Change In a world obsessed with finding lasting happiness, this podcast takes a different path. Instead of chasing an elusive perfect state, we explore the art of adaptability and resilience. Life is full of ups and downs, unexpected twists and turns.  Rather than seeking a constant high, we delve into the skills that allow us to navigate these challenges with grace and strength. Join us as we unpack the tools and strategies that help us thrive amidst life's imperfections. We'll discuss how to build mental fortitude, embrace change, and find meaning in the journey, not just the destination. This isn't about denying happiness; it's about reframing it. It's about acknowledging that true fulfillment comes from learning to adapt and grow, not from seeking a fleeting emotion. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 19 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #beyondhappiness #masteringtheartofchange #happinesspodcast

This Too Shall Pass: The Emotional Observer In "The Emotion Observer," we explore the revolutionary idea that we are not our emotions, but rather witnesses to the ever-changing landscape of feelings within us. Join us as we delve into the transformative power of non-attachment,learning to observe our sadness, anger, and joy without getting caught up in their intensity. We'll discover how to navigate the waves of emotion with grace and resilience, ultimately cultivating a life of greater peace, clarity, and freedom. Tune in to "The Emotion Observer" and embark on a journey of self-discovery as we unlock the secrets to emotional well-being. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 17 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #thistooshallpass #theemotionalobserver #happinesspodcast

Mind Over Matter: How Thoughts Shape Our World This podcast delves into the fascinating ways our internal landscape directly influences how we perceive the world.  Exploring the interplay of emotions, thought patterns, and past conditioning, "Mind Over Matter" reveals how these factors mold our understanding of reality. Listeners will discover that our minds are not just passive observers but powerful architects, shaping our experiences from the inside out. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 17 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #mindovermatter #howthoughtsshapeourworld #findinghappiness

Personal Growth: Lessons from Others' Failures Have you ever wished you could avoid the pitfalls and setbacks that inevitably come with navigating life? The good news is, you don't have to learn everything the hard way! In "Personal Growth: Lessons from Others' Failures" we delve into the missteps and mistakes of others – in relationships, careers, finances, and more – extracting valuable wisdom for you to apply to your own life. Discover how to sidestep common blunders, accelerate your growth, and achieve your goals faster by learning from those who've gone before you. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 17 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #PersonalGrowth #LessonsfromOthersFailures

Never Give Up: Finding Your Good Life This talk dives into the profound truth that a fulfilling life is possible, even after setbacks and difficult experiences. We'll explore the transformative power of hope and the importance of self-belief in overcoming challenges. Discover actionable steps to break free from the weight of the past, redefine what a "good life" means for you, and cultivate the resilience to pursue it relentlessly. This talk offers a message of empowerment and possibility, reminding you that your story is far from over. The most famous Winston Churchill quote about never giving up is: “Never give in, never give in, never, never, never—in nothing, great or small, large or petty—never give in except to convictions of honour and good sense. Never yield to force; never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy.” This quote was delivered in a speech at Harrow School on October 29th, 1941, during World War II. It became a rallying cry for Britain and a timeless source of inspiration. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 17 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #nevergiveup #findingyourgoodlife

The Quiet Mind: A Path to Happiness In a world saturated with noise and distraction, "The Quiet Mind: A Path to Happiness" offers a sanctuary from the storm. This guide invites you on a journey of self-discovery, teaching you how to tame the restless chatter of the mind and uncover the wellspring of peace within. Through insightful teachings and gentle practices, you'll learn to cultivate mindfulness, break free from the grip of anxiety, and tap into the profound joy that arises from a quiet mind. As you embrace the stillness, you'll discover that happiness isn't something found in fleeting external pursuits, but an ever-present state of being, waiting to be awakened within your own heart. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https://www.HappinessPodcast.org 💛 Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? ➡️ I explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 17 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, it happens when we take specific actions in our lives to create it 💯 Welcome to my channel! My name is Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. I am an author of 13 books, I am a TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer. I have been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and I would love to share what I've learned with you! My Happiness Podcast is entirely free to listen to, so why not give it a try! ➡️ So, come and explore the Happiness Podcast, my books, and Psychology Today blog, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life! ************* ✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media: Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/ LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/ 📧 Email Dr. Robert Puff: [email protected] 📞 Contact Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 📲 WhatsApp Dr. Robert Puff: 1-714-337-4889 ✅ Dr. Puff, Clinical Psychologist: https://www.DoctorPuff.com � Music: By Kevin MacLeod #thequietmind #apathtohappiness #happiness #happinesspodcast #howtobehappy #happy #happinessisachoice  #happinessisaninsidejob #enlightenment #drrobertpuff #stressmanagement #findyourhappiness #becomehappy  #happinesscomesfromwithin #happinessiswhereyouare #happinessisbeautiful #HappinessYouDeserve #happinessallaroundme #happinessjourney #createyourhappiness #happyyou #pursuityourhappiness #clinicalpsychologist #drrobertpuff #happinesscomesfromwithin #HappinessPodcast #newportbeachpsychologist