BraveCo Podcast

In this powerful episode of the BraveCo Podcast, Jason dives deep into the tragic shooting of Charlie Kirk and the impact it has on men and society today. As a man of faith and experience, Jason shares his raw emotions, reflecting on the loss of a fearless truth-teller who stood up for freedom and faith in the face of hate. This episode is not just about mourning the loss of Charlie Kirk, but about what it means for men to stand up in a time when masculinity is being shamed, truth is under attack, and the world feels more volatile than ever.Jason challenges men to reflect on their own lives and the role they play in the battle for truth. He emphasizes that it’s time to stop sitting on the sidelines and to fully engage in the mission God has given each of us. Whether it’s through being a strong leader in your family, standing for what’s right in your community, or defending truth in the face of opposition, this podcast calls men to rise up and take action. It’s not about making noise online—it’s about living with integrity, purpose, and boldness in every area of life.Finally, Jason highlights the importance of getting back to the basics—immersing ourselves in Scripture, taking on the armor of God, and preparing ourselves for the spiritual battles we face every day. Charlie Kirk’s life serves as a wake-up call, reminding us that we’re all in a fight for truth, faith, and morality. Now is the time for men to step up, and this episode serves as a clarion call for every man to take responsibility for his role in the kingdom of God.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction to the Episode and Charlie Kirk's Tragic Death00:27 - Reflecting on 9/11: A Day of Tragedy and Loss01:04 - Charlie Kirk’s Legacy: A Fearless Freedom Fighter02:17 - How Charlie Kirk Handled Hate and Conflict with Grace03:31 - The Real Threat: Why People Hated the Truth Charlie Presented05:12 - The Impact of Charlie Kirk’s Life on Our Generation08:21 - Losing a Voice to the Youth: The Tragedy for America11:29 - What It Means for Men to Stand Up in This Cultural Battle16:06 - How to Take Action and Make a Difference as a Man of Faith20:56 - The Call to Engage in the Battle and Be Fully EquippedABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Are you struggling to break habits that hold you back? On this final episode of our addiction series, I sit down with my friend Cole Zick to uncover the truth about overcoming addiction. We dive into why habits persist, the role of environment, and how small and drastic changes can transform your life. This episode isn’t about shame—it’s about strategy, mindset, and freedom.We explore life-changing insights from studies like the New York subway revitalization, Vietnam veterans’ heroin recovery, and the Rat Park experiments. Learn why context matters more than willpower and how your environment may be silently keeping you stuck. Whether you struggle with phone addiction, unhealthy friendships, or other habits, this episode gives you the tools to reset your life and win.I also share practical steps you can take today: changing toxic contexts, building new routines, embodying change, and tools like the Be Present app to limit screen time and regain focus. If you’re ready to reclaim your strength, walk in freedom, and live the life you were made for, this episode is for you.Listen, share, and subscribe to Brave Co Podcast to never miss an episode! If this episode blesses you, send it to another man who could benefit—because transformation starts with one brave step.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction: Why Masculinity is Under Attack01:00 - The Final Episode of the Addiction Series03:00 - Cole Zick: Experience in Addiction Recovery and Leadership05:00 - Redefining Addiction: Beyond Drugs and Alcohol07:00 - Understanding the Power of Context in Overcoming Addiction10:00 - The Subway & Vietnam Veteran Studies: Lessons in Context15:00 - Drastic Changes That Can Reset Your Life20:00 - Practical Tools: Changing Your Environment and Habits24:00 - Apps & Small Wins: Managing Phone and Screen Addiction26:00 - Closing Prayer & Final Encouragement for Brave Men🔥 Recommended Actions:Subscribe to the Brave Co Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@BraveCoWatch our previous episodes on addiction: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLT4Vf7mom3rNpDQlDaFSR47aGqZ_kSkOs&si=wM-K4Yx01Nt1HHJTUpgrade your wardrobe and grab Brave Co merch: https://shop.braveco.org/ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Hey guys, welcome back to the Brave Co. podcast! This week, I’m excited to share with you an emotional and empowering conversation. We dove deep into some really vulnerable topics about overcoming fears of rejection and how to connect deeply with other men calling in LIVE in studio. Whether it’s facing the challenges of reaching out to new friends or navigating emotional pain from past experiences, this episode is a game-changer if you’ve been struggling with true connection in your life.We also explored how to heal unresolved pain, especially from past mentors or leaders. I had a powerful conversation with a listener who shared how the loss of his mentor left a hole in his life that’s been tough to fill. Through the conversation, I broke down how to process this grief and pain and gave him practical tools to move forward. I really want to emphasize that healing isn’t linear, but there are steps you can take to rebuild your life and relationships with God’s help.Lastly, we talked about the importance of finding purpose and connection even when things feel uncertain. I share how you can grow in your current role, learn through the struggles, and ultimately align your job and passions with your purpose in life. I hope this episode inspires you to take action—whether that’s reaching out to a guy you admire, confronting past pain, or just showing up for your family. Tune in and stay brave!Topic Timestamps with Titles:00:00 - Introduction: Building Strong Men’s Leadership & ConnectionIntro to the podcast, free courses available for building masculinity and leadership.01:26 - Q&A Live: Tackling Connection Struggles with Other MenFirst live listener joins to ask about struggles with connection and fear of rejection.03:00 - Navigating Fear: Why Men Struggle to Invite & ConnectDiscussion about the fear of rejection and how it impacts building friendships.04:01 - Overcoming Self-Doubt: How to Conquer Fear of Not Being LikedPractical advice on confronting subconscious fears and building confidence in male relationships.05:24 - Finding a Tribe: Why It’s Important to Surround Yourself with Like-Minded MenThe importance of finding your people and building relationships around shared hobbies.06:59 - Confronting Past Pain: Overcoming Emotional Blocks from Past ExperiencesConversation with a listener about the pain of not reconciling with a lost mentor.08:43 - Rebuilding Your Self-Worth: How to See Yourself as Worthy of ConnectionAddressing negative beliefs about oneself and confronting the voices that keep men from connecting.10:06 - The Power of Journaling: Processing Pain and ForgivenessUsing journaling as a tool to process unresolved grief and emotional pain.12:37 - Rebuilding Trust: How to Reconcile Loss and Find New MentorshipAdvice on healing after the loss of a mentor and how to open up to new relationships.22:03 - Purpose Over Pay: Aligning Your Work with Your Mission & VisionAdvice on finding purpose and personal fulfillment in the work you do while growing emotionally.ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Best way to connect with BGR: https://bethelglobalresponse.com/tijuana-feeding-program/In this episode of the BraveCo Podcast, I sit down with two of my favorite people—my son Elijah and his wife Ally—to talk about what it really looks like to live with courage, faith, and purpose in the middle of chaos. From the frontlines of Ukraine to disaster zones in Brazil, Turkey, and Mexico, their stories reveal what happens when ordinary people step into extraordinary risk to bring help and hope.As we unpack moments like evacuating families while bombs fell overhead, mucking mud out of flooded homes in Brazil, and providing safety for thousands of refugees in Mexico, one thing becomes clear: following God always requires action. It’s not about playing it safe; it’s about saying yes to the hard places where lives are hanging in the balance.You’ll hear powerful testimonies of how the peace of God shows up in the scariest moments, how practical acts like providing meals can literally save lives, and why every single one of us has a role to play. Whether it’s adopting a refugee family for just $30 a month or simply being willing to step out of your comfort zone, this conversation will challenge you to live braver, love deeper, and stand strong in a world that desperately needs men to rise.⏱️ 10 Timestamps:00:00 – The Crisis of Masculinity & Why This Podcast Exists00:28 – Meet My Guests: Family, Faith & A Future Baby01:05 – From Ukraine to Global Disasters: Elijah & Ally’s Mission02:25 – First Time in Ukraine: Facing Fear & Finding Purpose04:04 – Flat Tires, Drones & God’s Protection on the Frontlines06:04 – Risk, Faith & Evacuating Families Under Fire10:08 – What Most of the World Is Really Facing Every Day11:50 – Life-Changing Moments: From Flooded Homes to Restored Hope13:36 – The Birth of Bethel Global Response During the California Fires17:18 – How Disasters Unite Communities & Reveal God’s Power21:02 – Why Mexico’s Refugee Crisis Matters & Our Call to Help29:00 – Feeding 1.6 Million Meals: The Mission in Tijuana32:46 – How You Can Adopt a Family & Change a LifeABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

I’ll never forget the first time I heard Nate Larkin’s story. His honesty, his pain, and his redemption hit me in a way that few testimonies ever have. As men, so many of us live with secret battles—porn, addiction, shame—that we think we can fight alone. But Nate’s story proves that isolation only leads to destruction, while brotherhood and authenticity lead to freedom.In this week’s BraveCo Podcast, I sit down with Nate Larkin, founder of the Samson Society and author of Samson and the Pirate Monks. Nate opens up about his hidden struggle with pornography and sex addiction, the devastating impact it had on his marriage, ministry, and faith, and the powerful way God restored his life. This isn’t just theory—it’s lived experience, raw and unfiltered.If you’re a man wrestling with addiction, shame, or feeling like you can’t measure up, this episode is for you. Nate’s story will challenge you, encourage you, and show you that freedom is possible—but only when we stop hiding and start walking in brotherhood. Don’t miss this conversation.Timestamps:00:00 – Why masculinity is under attack today01:22 – Meet Nate Larkin: From ministry to addiction04:02 – The first encounter with pornography06:31 – Marriage, ministry, and the hidden battle10:29 – Planting a church while struggling in secret12:15 – The moment Nate hit rock bottom13:17 – The words from his wife that saved his life15:23 – Rebuilding trust in marriage after betrayal20:07 – Understanding addiction, trauma, and shame26:02 – Why recovery only happens in brotherhoodABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

When I hit 290 pounds and 33% body fat, I knew something had to change. I was stressed, overworked, and living in a constant state of anxiety. My health was failing, I’d just had my gallbladder removed, and the reality hit me — if I didn’t make a shift now, my future would be full of medication, surgeries, and limitations. But instead of diving into a brutal all-or-nothing plan that would burn me out, I decided to start small. Really small.I committed to just one workout a week and tracking 2,500 calories a day, eating whatever I wanted as long as I stayed within that limit. Slowly, I built momentum. One day became two, then three. I stopped obsessing over the scale and started focusing on body fat percentage, strength, and how I felt. This wasn’t about punishing myself — it was about being kind to myself and building habits I could actually sustain.Over the next year, I lost 65 pounds, cut my body fat in half, and gained more confidence and mental health than I’d ever had before. In this episode, we dive into the mindset shifts, the practical strategies, and the identity changes that made it possible. If you’ve been stuck in the cycle of starting strong and burning out, this conversation is your roadmap to long-term change.Chapters:00:00 - Why Most Men Fail to Step Into Their Calling  02:00 - Meet Ahab: From Overweight & Stressed to Fit & Focused  03:16 - The Simplest Definition of Addiction  04:50 - Ahab’s Breaking Point & Health Scare  07:42 - The First Small Steps Toward Change  10:38 - Avoiding the All-or-Nothing Trap  14:46 - The Science of Stress & Cortisol  18:33 - Why Shame Doesn’t Work for Long-Term Change  22:44 - Learning to Stop Punishing Yourself  27:04 - Setting Realistic Goals & Tracking the Right Metrics  ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

12 week : P*rn Recovery // Online Small Group, Starting late August Lead by Aaron Zint w/ 10+ years of experience walking men into Wholeness Sign up here: https://pillar.io/thezints/checkout/002cb6d0-5d07-11f0-a37f-93965abef48bIn this Episode Part 2 of our addiction series, Aaron Zint and I dive deep into the inner workings of addiction: not just the behavior, but the brain wiring behind it. Together we unpack dopamine, shame, neuroplasticity, and how porn becomes a super-normal stimulus that rewires a man’s reward system.I speak from experience: I’ve walked this road. In sharing my own story of relapse and recovery, I walk you through the addictive cycle—from preoccupation and ritualization to despair and false resolution. You’ll gain tools on building self-awareness, identifying triggers, disrupting the ritual before it hits, and avoiding shame-driven shame spirals. I’ll show you how I used journaling, alarms, emotional vocabulary, and accountability with friends to break free.Finally, I guide you into rebuilding a healthy ecosystem: daily rhythms, purposeful goals, deep connection, and sustainable fulfillment that doesn’t rely on fleeting highs. This episode isn’t about quick fixes or shame-heavy guilt-trips—it’s about understanding what’s going on inside your brain, owning your emotional world, restoring relationship, and crafting a life that doesn’t depend on addictive stimuli. Stay brave.Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction: Why Masculinity Feels Shamed Today  00:27 – Why We’re Doing Part 2: Addiction Is the Solution to Pain  01:36 – The Addiction Beast: How Common It Is for Men  03:07 – Addiction and the Brain: Neuroplasticity & Wiring  05:02 – P*rn as a Super‑Normal Stimulus: How It Spikes Dopamine  11:01 – The Cool‑down Effect: Numbness, ED & Boredom  19:28 – Addiction Cycle Explained: Preoccupation, Ritual, Despair  21:05 – My Personal Ritual: From Benign Scrolling to Relapse  28:45 – Growing Self‑Awareness: How to Build the Muscle  37:52 – Building a New Ecosystem: Daily Rhythm, Connection & Purpose  ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

12 week : P*rn Recovery // Online Small Group, Starting late August Lead by Aaron Zint w/ 10+ years of experience walking men into Wholeness Sign up here: https://pillar.io/thezints/checkout/002cb6d0-5d07-11f0-a37f-93965abef48bI’m Jason Vallotton, and in this second episode of our Brave Co addiction series, I dive deep with my friend Aaron Zint—one of the most resilient men I’ve ever known. We trace his journey from childhood s*xual trauma and early exposure to p*rnography, all the way through marriage, relapse, and ultimately, healing. Together, we unpack how addictive patterns form not out of weakness or sin, but out of unresolved pain, disconnection, and a lack of agency.Aaron shares how addiction became his “solution” when life’s weight exceeded his capacity to carry it. We talk vulnerability, passivity, and the hard work it takes to confront the pain beneath the behavior. You’ll hear how learning to take responsibility, to embrace uncomfortable conversations, and to connect deeply with a community transformed his life—and continues to guide hundreds of men through recovery.This isn’t a quick‑fix approach. Instead, it’s about lasting transformation: addressing shame, building inner structure, and living within intentional, accountable relationships. Whether you’re dealing with p*rnography, alcohol, or another addiction, this episode gives clear tools to identify your real obstacles—and begin building capacity, connection, and courage.Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction & Free Brave Co Courses  02:00 – Why This Series Matters (Addiction Series Overview)  05:00 – What Addiction Really Is: Point A to Point B  06:45 – Aaron’s Early Exposure: Abuse & Childhood P*rn  09:00 – Signs You’re Addicted Even When You Don’t Feel “Addicted”  11:10 – A Spiritual Turning Point & Temporary Sobriety  13:00 – How Passivity Leads to Powerlessness and Addiction  16:00 – P*rn Is Not the Problem—it’s How We Cope  18:30 – Building Capacity with Courage, Connection & Community  23:00 – Invitation to “Numb to Known” 12‑Week Group Starting Aug 2025  ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

I’ve spent my life as a pastor and counselor, helping men find strength, clarity, and purpose. In this episode, I kick off a game-changing series focused on addiction—whether it’s alcohol, porn, overeating, or prescription meds. I get raw about my own 14-year struggle with masturbation, porn, and medications like clonazepam—and how I learned that real freedom isn’t about willpower, it’s about rewiring our lives around connection.We dive into pivotal research, like the Rat Park experiment, which shows addiction thrives in isolation—not substance. When rats are connected and nurtured, addiction evaporates. That truth hits hard because most of us men were raised without proper emotional connection. We were wired for chaos, trauma, and triggers—so we medicate. But medication without connection falls short.I unpack the 4 pillars of deep relationship—courage, authenticity, compassion, vulnerability—borrowing from Brené Brown and my own journey. These aren’t personality traits, they’re strategies. A life rebuilt on these principles isn’t just free from addiction—it’s alive, present, wired for purpose. Stick around—I’ll show how to reclaim your story, feel worthy of love, and build bonds that empower real healing.00:00 - Intro & Purpose: Why this addiction series matters00:35 - Personal Stakes: My lifelong struggle with addiction01:59 - My Story: From masturbation and porn to medication dependency04:14 - Defining Addiction: “Giving up what you want for what you don’t want”06:12 - Signs We Are All Addicts: Driven, desperate, but often unaware07:36 - Addiction is a Symptom: Trading one compulsion for another09:36 - Rat Park Experiment: Community vs. isolation12:07 - The Real Opposite of Addiction: Connection over sobriety15:07 - Childhood Wiring: Why we feel unsafe, unseen, unheard22:04 - Two Essential Connections: Deep bonds and tribe belonging25:21 - The 4 Pillars of Connection39:05 - The Path to Crushing AddictionABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

This week on the BraveCo. Podcast, I'm diving deep into one of the most critical topics in marriage: becoming the anchor. As a pastor, counselor, and man who's walked through my own challenges, I’ve seen too many relationships fail simply because men have no idea what it means to lead emotionally. We aim for the wrong things—sex, status, success—and miss the real target: building a home where our wives and kids feel safe, seen, and known.I get raw and real about the dangers of emotional unpredictability, the breakdown of leadership in the home, and what happens when men abandon their responsibility. I share personal stories, hard truths, and practical wisdom about how we bring peace to chaos—not by being perfect, but by being consistent, present, and emotionally grounded. Your role as a man isn’t to dominate—it’s to lead with courage, clarity, and compassion.This episode is for every man who wants more from his marriage. If you’re tired of the disconnect, the arguments, or feeling like roommates instead of lovers, it’s time to shift your target. You are the anchor. And when you own that role, everything changes.Chapters:00:00 - Why Men Feel Lost in Modern Masculinity00:34 - The Real Target in Marriage (And It’s Not Sex)02:12 - Dating vs. Marriage: When the Aim Shifts03:55 - Emotional Safety: The Missing Link in Most Homes06:06 - What Happens in a Home Without Connection09:05 - The Hidden Power of Healthy Conflict11:03 - God’s Design for Men: Bring Peace to Chaos14:05 - Why Avoiding Responsibility Breeds Chaos17:13 - Emotional Predictability: The Anchor Your Wife Needs24:00 - Reclaiming Leadership Without Controlling HerABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.