Stop the Comparison Crap

If you're a solopreneur eyeing another tool, you don't need the best one. You need the one that fits the business you have right now, not someone else's, and not your dream version. How I’ve learned to make not just better but GREAT choices. A past client was convinced the right tool would make her business "real." I helped her choose it, and a few months later she was still stuck, because the tool was never the real problem. In this episode I share that story, plus my own lesson-in-progress about lifetime deals, lost trust, and buying again with my eyes open. Then I walk through my G.R.E.A.T. framework (Grow, Responsive, Easy, Appropriate, Trusted) and three things to check before you buy anything.In this episodeWhy the tool is the most visible problem, and rarely the first oneWhy "everyone's using it" is not the same as "people like me are using it"What I got wrong, what I'm doing differently this time, and why I bought another lifetime deal with my eyes openThe five G.R.E.A.T. questions, plus the bright shiny object checkThree takeaways: the 9 p.m. test, people like me, and clunky first, big laterYour permission slip: You can say no to the tool. You can say not yet. You can say good enough for now. And you can change your mind when you need to.MentionedThe free G.R.E.A.T. Tech Choices workbook: https://www.mightymarketingmojo.com/great-tech-workbook/Earlier this season: the shoulds, the overstuffed backpack, and cut the comparisons episodesYou can stop the overthinking - you've got this.

You pull up someone else's website — dialed in, polished, converting like crazy — and think I am so behind. You have zero idea what their stockroom looks like. This one's about the three ways comparison lies to you, a mastermind member's line that nails it exactly, my confession about the six microphones I own (and the fifteen-dollar one I actually use), and a real three-question audit for next time you spiral.You've got this.

A recent email newsletter in my inbox stopped me cold at the keyboard: "if you have multiple priorities, you don't really have any priorities at all."Woah. Sit with that like I did. So why do we keep doing it anyway? Piling everything on as "the priority" — content, tech, health, family — until our brains just... implode.This one's about finding the happy medium. Using two actual road trips (one where I stuck to the plan, one where we found Skyline Drive and happily blew it up) to talk about knowing your rough direction without booking every hotel from your driveway.Plus: the flip side nobody talks about — what happens when you over-plan instead. Planning happy, shiny, pastel kitten-themed sales posts from way back in sunny spring, could be landing and living in a fall season that's full of more than the usual pumpkins and ghouls. And a simple now/next/someday system to help you land on the one thing that's actually the priority — not ten things wearing the same label. Remember that old saying of "if everything is urgent, nothing is."

I know HOW to do the thing. I WANT to do the thing. I have templates. I have swipe files. I have content sitting right there, ready to go. And I still couldn't hit send on the darn emails — not for most of 2026. Irony for someone who has literally taught email marketing to other solopreneurs.This one's an honest confession, not a victory lap. It isn't about willpower, or not having content, and why the pressure to have your whole strategy first can quietly become the thing that stops you from sending anything at all.

Ever feel like you're carrying way more than you need — in your backpack, your business, your brain?I travel a lot and I sure was.I had rocks. Literal rocks. In my backpack. My husband called me out. The luggage guys nearly fell over.So I unpacked. And it turned into a whole thing. Plus a metaphor for biz + marketing.This isn't a checklist episode. It's a real story about lifetime software deals that weren't, a membership I can't quite quit (yes, I'm calling myself out), and the questions my own mastermind members ask before they buy anything new. Just some of the real things we are each carrying that maybe we need to take out, put down.Turns out the backpack was never just about the backpack.This is your permission to set one thing down this week. Doesn't have to be dramatic. Just lighten your load a bit - metaphorically and maybe literally.

How many "shoulds" are you carrying around in your marketing right now?The ones from experts (even me). The ones you handed yourself. The ones that are just... in the air, and nobody remembers where they came from.I've got three real moments — including a mastermind member who pushed back on MY advice, and was right to.Plus the meta one: all the shoulds I had to ditch just to bring this podcast back at all. My own coach's structure. The "right" way to produce an episode. The schedule I was supposed to keep.Turns out pushing back — out loud, in your own words — is the one thing no AI can do for you.This is your reminder: you're allowed to disagree with the shoulds.

Is YOUR brain like a browser with 15 open tabs … some opened weeks or months ago … and one has a video playing somewhere? Feeling stuck? Foggy? Overthinking your next move? And you are OVERTHINKING everything?!You’re not alone.I'm stuck back in that spiral right now too. Again. Ugh!Let’s talk about what to do when you’re spiraling — not just how to avoid it.This isn't packed with long tips list, it's a real-time check-in, a behind-the-scenes share, and you can borrow my MVP - Minimum Viable Plan, aka the Backpocket Basics. What you can try doing when nothing else is feeling right or the mud seems too deep.It's what helped me get through roughest times in business and what I've turned to again. This chat is also a reminder that you’re not alone if life or the season has you foggy, frazzled, or frozen.

If you've ever heard the maxim or advice that "practice makes perfect" ... well that advice kinda sucks!What often happens - in life, business, my golf swing - is that practice just grooves our BAD habits. We need to improve our starting points, our intentions, and purposes so we can practice the right things.In marketing we tend to jump right into tactics and tools and working on those things first because it feels productive. It's great to create things in Canva, schedule posts to Facebook or Instagram, plan out and email series. And none of those are bad! Not at all.But there's no magic formula that says X number of posts, Reels, or emails automatically equals purchases, bookings, or referrals.AND ... if we skipped a step and didn't get super clear about our audience, their true needs and wants, and our message .... then no amount of posting, publishing, sending etc is gonna fix things.Where do we start in marketing? We need to start with being able to really, truly answer the "So What?!" or "why should I care?" that is going through our prospective customers' minds. Here's your help on how to Start Here and get through "so what" to a "so that ...." that matters.

Let me ask you something:Are you running your business like a marathon… or white-knuckling, and panic-sprinting this week? Frantic because you haven’t posted in two weeks?This episode comes from a live chat I did with a group of coaches, consultant, course creators in my month-long marketing event—but the message hits home for every smart solopreneur I know.Because I believe - I KNOW - that truly sustainable marketing doesn’t come from adrenaline and hustle. It comes from rhythm, rest, and a strategy that actually fits your pace.So if you’ve been crash batching, ghosting your audience, or just stuck in a spiral of “shoulds”—Take this as your rest stop or beverage break. Let’s use this sports analogy to talk about what it's often like for soloprenerus, and to break the wild sprinting and panic posting. And what it really takes to build marketing momentum that lasts.

The You're Overthinking Marketing slow-roll, podcasting re-entry!Right after launching OM, life hit super hard and I lost my voice - my way in content and business. I'm not alone - I know it's happened for many other smart folks. But now is the time for me to walk my talk in terms of business and content marketing.Remember that old McDonald's jingle?! Well, Your Voice is your special sauce in your marketing. You need to bring that flavor to everything you do.This comes originally from an inspirational chat available only to participants in my 30-day content creation event - but it was too good, and too timely, to keep it stashed away. What better way to start the re-entry to podcasting.