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A Twin Dad on the Regrets, Rewards, and Pure Joy of Raising Identical Girls with Dr. Charles Glassman

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In this special Father's Day episode of the Twiniversity Podcast, Natalie sits down with Dr. Charles Glassman — internist, life coach, podcast host, and twin dad of identical girls now in their late 20s. Charles and Natalie cover the full arc of twin parenting from the moment of the surprise diagnosis (spoiler: his wife was "just pregnant" until a 16-week sonogram revealed two heads) all the way through the extraordinary milestone of his daughters celebrating their 21st birthday together in Paris — and the business partnership they've built since. It's an honest, warm, and deeply encouraging conversation for twin parents at any stage, told from the rare perspective of a dad who is also a physician, a middle child, and someone who has learned — sometimes the hard way — that patience, perspective, and knowing when to take a time-out are the best parenting tools in the kit.

Charles opens up about the regret he carries most (not carving out enough individual one-on-one time with each twin), the moment he confirmed his daughters were monozygotic at Disney World, why discovering their identical DNA at age 12 may have accelerated their drive for independence, and how — after going to different colleges on purpose — they ended up choosing the same semester abroad rather than spend a year apart from each other's best friend. Plus: the "Daddy takes a time-out" technique that every twin parent needs to hear.

Connect with Dr. Charles Glassman:
Website: www.charlesglassmanmd.com
The Coach MD Podcast: Listen on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachmd-podcast/id1728326555
His daughters' creative agency: Aperitif Collective — sister-owned branding & design, Miami - https://www.aperitifcollective.com/
Instagram: instagram.com/coachmdofficial
Facebook: facebook.com/CoachMD
X (Twitter): @CoachMDofficial 
YouTube: youtube.com/@CoachMDofficial

EPISODE THEMES 📝

  • Parenting four kids (two singletons + twins) and learning to navigate the balance
  • Why clumping twins together as a unit can feel necessary — and why twins may eventually push back on it
  • The power of the 'Daddy takes a time-out' discipline technique for parents who feel triggered
  • Discovering at Disney World (age 12) that the girls were 100% monozygotic — and how it may have changed them
  • Going to different colleges to establish independent identities — but then refusing to go abroad a semester apart
  • Celebrating their 21st birthday together in Paris: the twin bond that always wins
  • Why individual one-on-one time is Charles's biggest parenting regret with the twins
  • What birth order as a parent does to your parenting style (the middle child theory)
  • How parenting shaped Charles as a physician — and as a human being

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Twenty-seven years of twin dad wisdom
01:55 Meet Charles: an intro to today's guest
08:20 The twin pregnancy surprise nobody saw coming
10:10 One twin in the NICU: the blur of those first months
12:25 From two boys to four kids: navigating the zone defense
14:00 'The boys and the girls': grouping twins and why they push back
16:50 Finding out at Disney World they were identical all along
19:30 Age 12, a DNA swab, and 99.9% monozygotic
22:00 Different colleges, same soul: the drive for independence
26:35 'I can't miss a year with my best friend': choosing the same semester abroad
28:30 'Daddy takes a time-out': the discipline technique every twin parent needs
33:10 Parenting under pressure: how Charles kept calm coming home from a heavy shift
37:00 The twin bond through high school — and why it matters so much
38:10 His biggest regret: not making more individual time for each twin
44:00 His daughters today: Aperitif Collective and living in Miami
47:40 What fatherhood did for him as a doctor and a human being
51:55 Wrap-up and where to find Twiniversity

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