Strengthen Your Boundaries in Sobriety with Terri Cole

Powerhouse psychotherapist, boundary expert, and author Terri Cole joins me today for an incredibly enlightening talk about boundary setting, codependency, and how it all plays out in sobriety. Terri will share how she came to dedicate her life to helping people navigate boundary setting and what she has coined ‘high functioning codependency’. She’ll share what boundaries and codependency truly are, how alcohol plays into disordered boundaries, the first steps you can take if you’re ready to create stronger boundaries in your relationships, and why codependency is weakening your relationships with others. Terri has offered a free high functioning co-dependent toolkit at www.terricole.com/hfc Check out Terri’s website www.terricole.com for her incredible books, podcast, and Youtube channel I was on Terri’s podcast recently! That episode can be heard here. Are you craving a community in sobriety? Join us in the Sober Mom Life Cafe! You’ll get access to 12 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, happy hour, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link! Or, check out our new community offering - The Sober Mom Collective! With one peer support meeting a week and access to the community social feed, this is a great way to dip your toes in. Get Your Copy of my book The Sober Shift I’m on a book tour! Take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. https://www.instagram.com/thesobermomlife/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jessica Stewart from The Sober As F*ck Podcast joins me today to share her sobriety journey, one that is deeply entangled with the addictions of her mom, brother, and husband. Jessica vulnerably shares how the addictions of her loved ones played out in her own life, and how it affected her choices with everything including alcohol, partying, parenthood, her marriage and more. Jessica has been sober since June! And she is so grateful for the sobriety of her brother and her husband. If you are someone who has struggled with the addictions of those that you love, we hope this episode will give you hope and peace. Listen to The Sober as F*ck PodcastCheck out Suzanne’s episode on Jessica’s podcastAre you craving a community in sobriety? Join us in the Sober Mom Life Cafe! You’ll get access to 12 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, happy hour, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link! Or, check out our new community offering - The Sober Mom Collective! With one peer support meeting a week and access to the community social feed, this is a great way to dip your toes in. Get Your Copy of my book The Sober Shift I’m on a book tour! Take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. https://www.instagram.com/thesobermomlife/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Katie and I are back with another installment of SobrieTEA, where we spill the tea about our favorite escape: Bravo and Reality TV! Fall truly begins with the premiere of Bravo’s fall TV lineup. We’ll get into the Real Housewives of Miami reunion, The OC, the great Real Housewives of Salt Lake premiere, and what we expect when Potomac returns. Plus - A peek into Suzanne’s book release week, and the fantastic Charlie Sheen documentaryAre you craving a community in sobriety? Join us in the Sober Mom Life Cafe! You’ll get access to 12 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, happy hour, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link! Or, check out our new community offering - The Sober Mom Collective! With one peer support meeting a week and access to the community social feed, this is a great way to dip your toes in. Get Your Copy of my book The Sober Shift I’m on a book tour! Take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. https://www.instagram.com/thesobermomlife/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today’s Real Sober Mom, Jennifer, is celebrating one year of sobriety! To celebrate, she is coming full circle and telling her story here on the podcast after feeling so supported by other women who have shared their stories in the same space. Alcohol found its way into Jennifer’s life through her older brother, and as they became adults a culture of partying became central to her family dynamic. This family dynamic weaved its way through her relationship with alcohol, even as she navigated liver issues in her twenties and cancer in her thirties. Jennifer began to question her relationship with alcohol after she completed treatment for colon cancer. Once she realized that she was a ‘gray area drinker’ she began to explore quit lit and hired a sober coach, but it took some time for sobriety to fully ‘click’ for her. The Sober Mom Life community served as a major turning point for Jennifer as she realized for the first time that she wasn’t alone. With a year of sobriety under her belt, Jennifer shares about how sobriety has impacted her family dynamic, and how finding new ‘tools’ to cope in place of alcohol has made all the difference in her life. Are you craving a community in sobriety? Join us in the Sober Mom Life Cafe! You’ll get access to 12 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, happy hour, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link! Or, check out our new community offering - The Sober Mom Collective! With one peer support meeting a week and access to the community social feed, this is a great way to dip your toes in. My book, The Sober Shift, is out now, and I’m going on a book tour! Take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. I would LOVE to meet you and thank you for being a part of this incredible community! https://www.instagram.com/thesobermomlife/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s a big week! My book, The Sober Shift: A Modern Day Guide to Living an Abundant Sober Life, officially releases on Tuesday, September 30th! To celebrate, I’m giving you something special: a sneak peek of the audiobook. Today you’ll hear the introduction to The Sober Shift. Thank you all so much for your support, and for listening in as I’ve been on this journey alongside you. This space has given me the opportunity to explore my personal views on sobriety in a way that allowed me to write this book. I could not be more grateful to have you as a listener! I’m going on a book tour! Take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. I would LOVE to meet you and thank you for being a part of this incredible community! Are you craving a community in sobriety? Join us in the Sober Mom Life Cafe! You’ll get access to 12 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, happy hour, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link! Or, check out our new community offering - The Sober Mom Collective! With one peer support meeting a week and access to the community social feed, this is a great way to dip your toes in. https://www.instagram.com/thesobermomlife/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Therapy can be a life changing experience, but it can be so unclear on where to start and how to navigate the experience! So today, our resident therapist Susan (my mom!) is here to give us a crash course in Therapy 101. She’ll share insight into how to find a good therapist, the many different therapy modalities that you can consider trying, what it looks like to really feel your feelings with the guidance of a professional, and what to do if you feel like you need more from your therapist or if you are ready to move on. Are you craving a community in sobriety? Join us in the Sober Mom Life Cafe! You’ll get access to 12 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, happy hour, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link! Or, check out our new community offering - The Sober Mom Collective! With one peer support meeting a week and access to the community social feed, this is a great way to dip your toes in. The Sober Shift is now available for pre-order! Pre-order now for three free mocktail recipes and access to my pre-order launch Zoom in October. Plus, take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. I would LOVE to meet you and thank you for being a part of this incredible community! We have two spots open for The Sober Mom Life retreat Oct 23-26th in Scottsdale, AZ! Join us for an incredible sober getaway!https://www.instagram.com/thesobermomlife/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today we’re doing a deep dive into RHOC, where Tamara brought of the ancient drama of Naked Wasted at a lie decector party. We went back and refreshed our memories by watching Naked Wasted (Season 4, Episode 8 if you’d like to do the same) and we have some THOUGHTS! After we explore the toxicity of RHOC we’ll dip our toes into the palette cleanser of Real Housewives of Miami and recap our thoughts on their trip to Seville. Plus: Unknown Number, why Bravo is more enjoyable now that we’re sober, and our personal experiences with ADHD and OCD minds. Are you craving community in sobriety? Join us in The Sober Mom Life Cafe! You'll get access to 4 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link!The Sober Shift is now available for pre-order! Pre-order now for three free mocktail recipes and access to my pre-order launch Zoom in October. Plus, take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. I would LOVE to meet you and thank you for being a part of this incredible community! We have two spots open for The Sober Mom Life retreat Oct 23-26th in Scottsdale, AZ! Join us for an incredible sober getaway!https://www.instagram.com/thesobermomlife/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mindfulness and meditation teacher Jacq StPierre of Mindfulish is here today to share how mindfulness and sobriety can go hand in hand! Jacq has been a staple within the Sober Mom Life Cafe for years, and she has been such a leader in our space regarding all things mindfulness. Jacq will share her personal eating disorder recovery and alcohol sobriety story. Then, she’ll detail how yoga, meditation, breathwork and mindfulness can be incredible tools for navigating your own sobriety journey. Connect with Jacq: Website: https://www.mindfulish.org/Instagram @mindfulishYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNrMLNCFZIo15NUvVaGYVZAJacq is active and regularly supports our community with mindful sobriety in the Sober Mom Life Cafe! Join us for access to 4 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link! The Sober Shift is now available for pre-order! Pre-order now for three free mocktail recipes and access to my pre-order launch Zoom in October. Plus, take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. I would LOVE to meet you and thank you for being a part of this incredible community! We have two spots open for The Sober Mom Life retreat Oct 23-26th in Scottsdale, AZ! Join us for an incredible sober getaway!https://www.instagram.com/thesobermomlife/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You guys, my best friend Katy is here. We’re talking about sobriety, parenting, and everything in between. You’ll hear about our early drinking days, her sobriety story, the beauty of sober concerts, and what she calls her ‘playful rebellion’ now that her children have all reached their teen years. Katy is featured heavily in my upcoming book, The Sober Shift! Pre-order now for three free mocktail recipes and access to my pre-order launch Zoom in October! Plus, take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. I would LOVE to meet you and thank you for being a part of this incredible community! Follow Katy on Instagram @mindful_librarianJoin Us on The Sober Mom Life Retreat February 26 - March 1, 2026 in Mexico! https://thesobermomlife.com/2025/07/11/the-sober-mom-life-retreat-is-here/Are you craving community in sobriety? Join us in The Sober Mom Life Cafe! You'll get access to 4 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link!Check out The Sober Mom Life on InstagramSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Author Jessica Guerrieri joins me for a chat about her incredible novel, Between the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea. This book is a must read for any woman who has struggled with Mommy Wine culture. Jessica shares openly about her own 12 year sobriety journey from alcohol, which included a relapse into addictive behavior surrounding THC and pills. We’ll talk about the similarities between alcohol and THC and the troubling trend within the cannabis market to market to sober and sober curious women. We’ll also touch on the intersection between addiction and OCD, the joys of sober motherhood, problematic representations of alcohol in media, and Jessica’s journey to publishing the book! Grab a copy of Between the Devil and the Deep Blue SeaConnect with Jessica on Instagram @jessicaguerrieriauthorVisit https://www.jessicaguerrieri.net/Pre-orders my book Sober Shift: A Modern Day Guide to Living an Abundant Sober Life. It hits shelves on September 30th, 2025! Join me at a stop on my book tour! RSVP to an event here https://suzannewarye.com/eventsJoin Us on The Sober Mom Life Retreat February 26 - March 1, 2026 in Mexico! https://thesobermomlife.com/2025/07/11/the-sober-mom-life-retreat-is-here/Are you craving community in sobriety? Join us in The Sober Mom Life Cafe! You'll get access to 4 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link!Check out The Sober Mom Life on InstagramSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.