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Blake Bates | Overcoming Alcoholism, Finding Love & Life Transformed

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From rock bottom to rebuilding his life, Blake — owner of Tennessee Massage Collective — shares his raw and inspiring journey. In this heartfelt conversation with host Joe Adams, Blake opens up about battling alcoholism, navigating family challenges, and the life-changing moment that sparked his transformation. He also reveals how meeting his fiancée Krista changed everything, and the role healthy relationships play in lasting growth.


This episode dives deep into self-discovery, resilience, and entrepreneurship after recovery. Whether you’re facing your own struggles or supporting someone you love, Blake’s story is proof that it’s never too late to reclaim your life.


00:00 – Trust, reputation, and why the right partners matter

01:03 – Blake joins the show after years in the making

02:59 – Life as a business owner and the personal battles behind it

07:54 – Growing up: family dynamics that shaped the journey

20:09 – Why the mission behind the podcast matters

21:21 – Blake’s first steps toward sobriety

42:52 – Hitting rock bottom: the turning point

44:35 – Facing the consequences head-on

46:27 – A moment of clarity changes everything

47:13 – The uncle who stepped in and wouldn’t give up

51:47 – Failing forward: lessons from setbacks

53:18 – The Thanksgiving realization that sparked change

57:20 – The power of self-reflection and ownership

01:08:51 – Channeling anger into something productive

01:24:13 – How to put relationships first without losing yourself

01:32:14 – Breaking down defensiveness in communication

01:33:57 – How childhood experiences affect adult relationships

01:34:30 – The truth about “happy wife, happy life”

01:35:02 – Facing criticism and learning to grow from it

01:35:38 – What entrepreneurship really looks like after recovery

01:36:31 – Boundaries as a tool for survival and success

01:37:10 – Adversity as the ultimate teacher

01:37:50 – Falling in love when you least expect it

01:42:42 – Navigating difficult business relationships

01:46:53 – Reflections on how far he’s come

01:48:35 – Why genuine connections matter most

02:02:45 – Final takeaways for anyone on their own journey


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