203. The Sneakiness of Grief with Lisa Keefauver

In this heartfelt and deeply personal conversation, Danielle and Kristy welcome Lisa Keefauver, author of, “Grief is a Sneaky Bitch” to explore the complexities of grief, sharing personal experiences, and insights on how to navigate loss. Lisa, a grief activist and author, discusses the importance of understanding grief as a multifaceted experience that impacts our identity, relationships, and overall well-being. The conversation also touches on the challenges of showing up for others in their grief and the necessity of open communication and understanding. **Get the new Big Talk Questions – Starter Pack** Guest’s Website: Lisa Keefauver Guest’s Podcast: Grief is a Sneaky B!tch Podcast with Lisa Keefauver, MSW7 Things To Do When Grieving, Lisa Keefauver | End Well TODAY’S BIG TALK QUESTION: What do you wish you knew about grief before you were in it? Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.  Work with Kristy: You can work with Kristy one-on-one or hire her to speak with your team to improve workplace communication. Visit Kristy’s website at www.kristyolinger.com  and find her work journal at Work Journal — Kristy Olinger. Connect with us at [email protected]

What if the most productive thing you could do right now… was rest?  In today’s episode, we talk to leadership coach Maegan Megginson about what it really means to be deeply rested; explore how rest is not a “one size fits all;” and discuss the nuances between vacations, retreats, and sabbaticals. Guest’s Website: Home - Maegan Megginson Guest’s Podcast: Deeply Rested Podcast Landing Page - Maegan Megginson TODAY’S BIG TALK QUESTIONS: What is something that you find restful that you don’t think others would also find restful? When was the last time that you did something (other than sleep) in the name of rest? Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.  Work with Kristy: You can work with Kristy one-on-one or hire her to speak with your team to improve workplace communication. Visit Kristy’s website at www.kristyolinger.com  and find her work journal at Work Journal — Kristy Olinger. Connect with us at [email protected]

Sometime too much information is the real problem in our age of constant connectivity.  In today’s episode Danielle and Kristy sit down with Liane Davey, organizational psychologist to discuss the topic of workload vs. thought load and how too much of the latter is leading to serious burnout. Leanne offers practical strategies for managing thought load, including creating priority lists, understanding emotional experiences, and embracing "doing nothing" to restore creativity and productivity.  Guest’s Website: Enough about Workload, the Problem is Thoughtload Resource: Time Timer Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.  Work with Kristy: You can work with Kristy one-on-one or hire her to speak with your team to improve workplace communication. Visit Kristy’s website at www.kristyolinger.com  and find her work journal at Work Journal — Kristy Olinger.

We’ve reached the 200th Episode of The Opposite of Small Talk (TOOST).  Join Danielle and Kristy as they celebrate this milestone with a bit of reflection, discussion of their first summer “break,” and a peek into the future of TOOST.  Cheers to the 200th and here’s to 200 more opportunities to “stay curious and talk big!”   Connect with us at [email protected]  Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.  Work with Kristy: You can work with Kristy one-on-one or hire her to speak with your team to improve workplace communication. Visit Kristy’s website at www.kristyolinger.com  and find her work journal at Work Journal — Kristy Olinger.

What if in just five minutes a day you could completely change the way you think, perform, and handle life’s challenges?  We’ll explore this question and more in today’s episode with Lindsey Wilson, a mindset and mental performance coach best known as The Sports Hypnotist™. With a professional basketball career spanning close to a decade, Lindsey took her knowledge of the mental game to work with athletes at all levels including professional athletes (including Olympians and players in the NFL and WNBA); collegiate athletes;  and youth athletes early in their journey.   Lindsey’s Website: Positive Performance Training | Home Get Your free Ebook: How to Become a Mental Performance Coach (without your sports psych degree).  TODAY’S TALK BIG QUESTION What are some things in life that require more mental fitness than technical skill to do well? Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.  Work with Kristy: You can work with Kristy one-on-one or hire her to speak with your team to improve workplace communication. Visit Kristy’s website at www.kristyolinger.com  and find her work journal at Work Journal — Kristy Olinger.  

In the final installment of the special four-part series, Summer Camp, which explores the topic of solopreneurship, Danielle is once again joined by Kerry Dobson, previous TOOST guest, respected group coaching expert, and friend of the podcast. In today’s discussion, Danielle and Kerry come full circle following three episodes of discussing all things solopreneur and share the early stages of an endeavor they are working on which will aim to bring together a group of solopreneurs for what they hope will be a powerful and fruitful collaboration.   Kerry Dobson:  JJ Dak Inc. Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.     

In the third installment of the special four-part series, Summer Camp, which explores the topic of solopreneurship, Danielle is once again joined by Kerry Dobson, previous TOOST guest, respected group coaching expert, and friend of the podcast. Today’s discussion touches on the positive aspects of being a solopreneur and the great things Danielle and Kerry have experienced including working with people you like, being true to yourself, the flexibility of making your own schedule, and creating something you love. Kerry Dobson:  JJ Dak Inc. Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.

In the second episode of the special four-part series, Summer Camp, which explores the topic of solopreneurship, Danielle is once again joined by Kerry Dobson, previous TOOST guest, respected group coaching expert, and friend of the podcast. Today’s discussion touches on, “what is missing” as a solopreneur and how both Danielle and Kerry have navigated the transitions from corporate to solopreneurship including the work/life balance, setting boundaries, and deconditioning from previous corporate mindsets and habits.  Next week, Summer Camp, Episode 3, Danielle and Kerry will share the upside of solopreneurship. Kerry Dobson:  JJ Dak Inc. Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.   

In this episode of The Opposite of Small Talk (TOOST), Danielle introduces a special four-part series, Summer Camp, which explores the topic of solopreneurship. Danielle will be joined by Kerry Dobson, previous TOOST guest, respected group coaching expert, and friend of the podcast.  In upcoming episodes of Summer Camp, Danielle and Kerry will discuss solopreneurship in depth including: real talk around it, lessons learned, and dispelling myths. Kerry Dobson:  JJ Dak Inc. Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.   

In this special episode, live from Danielle’s hometown, Terri Trespico, award-winning writer, speaker, brand advisor, and author of “Unfollow Your Passion: How to Create a Life that Matters to You,” joins Danielle and Kristy for a funny and engaging conversation on the topic of Boredom, Creativity, and Breaking the Rules. Terri discusses her book and shares her personal insights on embracing boredom, comfort zones, and the importance of creating space for personal discovery. During the episode, Danielle and Kristy reflect on how their podcast has transformed their perspectives, with candid discussions about career, relationships, and the power of questioning conventional wisdom.   Guest’s website: Home - Terri Trespicio Guest’s Book:  Unfollow Your Passion - Terri Trespicio TALK BIG QUESTIONS Use these prompts to have the opposite of small talk in real life. What is something in your life that you never thought you’d do, but have since done?     Thinking about your longest friendship, what is one new thing you’ve recently learned about that person?  Is there something new they’ve learned about you? Is there a guest from TOOST that has really resonated with you or helped you to discover something new about yourself? Work with Danielle: If you are ready to start working with a life coach or just want to learn more about the impact that coaching can have in your life, visit Danielle's website at www.daniellemccombs.com and schedule a complimentary exploratory session.  Work with Kristy: You can work with Kristy one-on-one or hire her to speak with your team to improve workplace communication. Visit Kristy’s website at www.kristyolinger.com  and find her work journal at Work Journal — Kristy Olinger.