The New Relationship Energy: Embracing Change in Open Relationships

​Can swinging be a solution to marriage issues? Today we talk about a married couple who are having some challenges in their relationship and decided to try something different to see if it could help.   The husband suggested they open up their relationship and see other people, which is something completely new and different for them. But what about the fears and concerns that come from that as they explore this new option?   Things like insecurity, managing communication, and the importance of focusing on the positives and not just the negatives.   Let's dive deeper into this couple's situation and talk about it!

In this episode, we sit down with the dynamic duo from The Swing Nation, Dan and Lacy, to hear about their incredible journey within the lifestyle. We kick things off with a fun chat about how they first met as a unicorn and a bull. Dan and Lacy share the story of their relationship’s evolution from casual encounters to a deep, loving connection, all while navigating the complexities of non-monogamy.   We discuss the challenges and triumphs of maintaining an open relationship, including how they dealt with jealousy, set boundaries, and eventually found a balance that works for them.   We also touch on their unexpected rise to fame on TikTok and how their openness about their lifestyle has impacted not just their lives but also the wider community.   This episode is packed with insights on love, communication, and the importance of being true to yourself in any relationship.

In today's blast from the past episode, John and Jackie discuss different types of Open Relationships.   From Swinging Relationships to Myths to Emotional Attachments! This short podcast is the perfect introduction to the different types of Open Relationships!   Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

In today's episode, we dive into the exhilarating yet sometimes challenging topic of New Relationship Energy (NRE).   We discuss the powerful emotions that arise when you meet someone new and how it can impact you and your partner. Whether you're new to open relationships or a seasoned pro, NRE can catch you off guard. We share personal experiences and practical tips to help you understand, embrace, and navigate these feelings with your partner. Join us as we explore how NRE can be a positive experience, offering joy and excitement, while also addressing the insecurities and fears that might arise. This episode is all about turning NRE into an opportunity for growth and deeper connection.

John and Jackie answer a follower submitted question in today's episode! "Have You Ever Faced Discrimination in the Swingers Lifestyle?"  In today's episode, they discuss their experience with people judging their relationship and how they deal with the stigma that comes from being in a "non-traditional" relationship. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

John and Jackie explore the transformative power of setting boundaries in relationships from a positive perspective. Instead of focusing on what we don't want, we discuss how emphasizing what we are comfortable with can foster a more supportive and exciting partnership.   Join us as we share practical tips and personal experiences on creating positive boundaries that enhance intimacy and connection.

John and Jackie sit down in this blast from the past episode and talk about Swinging in the Lifestyle and a few questions they received regarding swinging alone.   They share about their journey navigating through the lifestyle and how they have grown as a couple.   Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

As owners of lifestyle clubs, we hear all the common complaints from members about single guys, so we figured we make a video and share some things NOT to do as a single male at swingers clubs. ​ AVOID these at all costs if you want to connect and play well with others! ​ Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

In this episode, John and Jackie tackle various aspects of navigating the swinging lifestyle based on questions from their audience.   "How do I deal with the emotional challenges in witnessing my partner's satisfaction with someone else outside group scenarios?"   Listen in for practical advice on handling attraction dilemmas, emphasizing communication and individual comfort levels in play situations.  

We went to an incredible open relationship workshop in Austin, Texas called "True Sex and Wild Love" and here is recap in case you missed it! (And yes we talk about the pink thing.) The event was hosted by Aubrey Marcus, CEO of Onnit, a company that makes and markets nutritional supplements, fitness equipment, and more in the spirit of optimizing human performance, and his fiance Whitney Miller, who is a relationship coach. (And they both happen to be in an open relationship.) The guest speaker at their event was Dr. Wednesday Martin, author of the award-winning book "Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free". It was incredible to hear Dr. Martin talk about the benefits of open relationships from her scientific perspective and the research about the critical time period when monogamous couples seek variety (is it the man or woman?!).   And finally of course, we talk about this mysterious pink thing. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)