S2E11: The Silent Energy Leak That Drains Us

In this episode, I uncover how family dynamics—both loving and dysfunctional—shape our stress patterns, emotional reflexes, and long-term metabolic health. I get personal, sharing my own experiences and those from the clinic and my program.  How your childhood emotional environment shapes adult health Recognizing 3 common family stress patterns  How family dynamics drive burnout, inflammation, and chronic dissease The concept of "Shamilies" and how it quietly affects so many of us The Roseto Effect vs the "Silicon Valley Effect" How to break inherited stress patterns and create a healthier family tradition. 

There's a quiet form of stress we mistake for normal — a constant readiness that silently drains our energy. I personally discovered it not too long ago, and in this episode I share how to spot it and take your power back. You'll learn: The brain science behind anticipation and anxiety How even a silent phone nearby burns glucose and attention Why this "always-on" state disrupts sleep and mood The benefits of phone-free walks and mindful mornings Simple ways to turn outward alertness into inward awareness Go to my blog at culturalhealthsolutions.com for related resources and show notes on most episodes.

Your mind never stops taking shots — so how do you defend your peace? In this episode I explore how to train your mind like an athlete, treating life as a continuous mental game where playing good defense is critical. We cover some of the following: Using an athletic framework to counter our conditioned self (aka ego) Learning to play great defense to protect the mind "Coach Ego" and the myth of multiplicity Simple drills to improve your mental fitness and wellbeing Everyday opportunities to improve awareness Go to my blog at culturalhealthsolutions.com for related resources and show notes on most episodes.  

Your mitochondria and microbes are ancient communities that mirror how we live, connect, and find purpose. We keep turning to the outside to learn from others, instead of tapping into this profound inner wisdom. In this episode, I explore what these inner networks teach us about resilience, loneliness, purpose, and thriving from the inside out. You'll learn: Mitochondria origin story Lessons we can learn from mitochondria and microbial behaviors How Survival fo the Fittest has led us astray How mitochondria and microbes communicate with the brain The loneliness myth and what might matter more than social connection Go to my blog at culturalhealthsolutions.com for related resources and show notes on most episodes.    

Prompting AI chatbots is a new skillset humanity has recently acquired. In this episode we use our understanding of how LLMs (Large Language Models) work to gain a deeper understanding of ourselves in an effort to free our minds from ego. We'll cover some of the following:  How AI engines mirror the way our ego runs on old scripts and algorithms Why middle-of-the-night "why" and "how" questions usually come from ego, not your authentic self Meet WAYDE, the imaginary AI Agent I created to help free me Prompts to break mental loops and rewire your responses How habitual self-prompting can help liberate your mind and optimize your physiology Go to my blog at culturalhealthsolutions.com where I post a brief summary and show notes for most episodes with relevant links.     

In my clinic, I'm seeing too many individuals with heart disease that's getting missed due to imperfect risk calculators and AI predictions. There are some serious blindspots in our current risk assessment tools. In this episode, we cover: The current risk calculators and why they often underestimate risk Typical examples of a mismatch between true and estimated risk Key blindspots risk calculators miss routinely What you can do to better assess your own risk Lifestyle areas to focus on Go to my blog at culturalhealthsolutions.com where I post a brief summary and show notes for most episodes with relevant links.   

An entry from my journal and a passage from J.Krishnamurti inspired my latest episode, which views displeasure and discontent in an entirely new way. I share personal stories and lessons from my own life, and from the highly successful patients I see in my clinic who experience emotional and metabolic health challenges despite material success. Some topics include: The pleasure-displeasure cycle explained through my summer trips to India Why "extraordinary discontent" is often essential for growth Deep lessons from the movie, The Matrix (even if you haven't seen it) My own cycles of discontent and how they led to growth The link between metabolism and mindset Go to my blog at culturalhealthsolutions.com where I post a brief summary/show notes for most episodes with relevant links. 

In prior episodes we've talked about how suppressed emotions can activate the immune system and trigger disease. A critical skill is detecting these emotions and sensations as early as possible so you prevent emotional flickers from turning into full blown fires. In this episode we discuss some of the following:  Discover your body's "smoke detectors" (interoceptors) in the heart, gut, and lungs Understand bottom-up vs. top-down emotional signaling Explore how ancient wisdom aligns with modern science  One of my favorite techniques to improve interoception, intuition, and manage stress Go to my blog at culturalhealthsolutions.com where I post a brief summary/show notes for most episodes with relevant links. 

Why are so many seemingly healthy young men and women getting heart disease? These are individuals with seemingly normal labs, no family history, who might even be exercising and eating relatively healthy, but end up with a heart attack or visible plaque on a heart scan test. In this episode we discuss: Surprise heart disease in seemingly healthy individuals Brief science primer on heart disease using boats and tunnels Concept of arterial flammability Commonly overlooked risk factors  Common personality profiles for surprise heart disease The role of COVID-19 and Microplastics Go to my blog at culturalhealthsolutions.com where I post a brief summary/show notes for most episodes with relevant links. 

That relentless inner voice—the one that replays past conversations, plans your next move, and won't let you sleep—what if it's physically affecting your health? In this episode, we explore the science of inner chatter, its surprising impact on your body, and how to reframe it to improve resilience and your overall health. We discuss some of the following:  The hidden science of subvocalization—how your thoughts subtly activate your speech muscles MIT's AlterEgo device—the tech that can "read" your mind The mind-body connection—how inner dialogue affects digestion, immunity, heart health, and more Practical strategies—simple, science-backed ways to quiet the noise A special music experiment to help shift your inner voice