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Have you ever been so committed to staying positive and manifesting the best possible outcome that you kept carrying a situation long after it stopped feeling aligned?In today's episode, I'm exploring a pattern I've started recognizing in my own life and in the lives of other high-capacity clients I work with: overcapacitating.It's what happens when our ability to be patient, resourceful, understanding, and optimistic leads us to compensate for someone else's lack of capacity, motivation, or follow-through.I'm sharing real life examples of how this has shown up in my life in the past (and even my relationship now) and how I've repeatedly tried to create positive outcomes by carrying more than my share.And how, eventually, that very effort can become the thing that no longer feels aligned.My Inner Voice gave me a new perspective on these experiences, and it will help us all evolve our understanding of manifesting and staying aligned when we are in non-reciprocal situations in the future.And if you're ready to explore how to make aligned decisions with your Inner Voice in the best and highest aligned timing, I'd love to invite you to the Magic Choices Method.We're gathering for three sessions on November 9, 16, and 23 to explore the different stages of making a choice, including when it's not yet time to act, when the moment is right, and when the window may have passed.The sessions are included with Welling membership (as low as $55/mo), or you can join the course separately.Learn more: https://bellalively.com/magicchoicesmethodMay something wonderful happen to you today! ❤️Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.

In today's episode, I'm joined by Kelsey Kerslake, a creative entrepreneur (TheAlignedBusiness.com) whose unexpected health challenges led her to completely reimagine how she works, builds businesses, and creates.From running a successful design agency while working just one hour a month to building her own AI coaching platform (including her own alternative to Zoom!) without a coding background, Kelsey's story is a fascinating look at what's becoming possible in our rapidly changing world.We explore her journey with chronic illness, how she's using AI to build entirely new kinds of businesses, her adventures in real estate, and the potential for technology to help us become more conscious, creative, and connected to ourselves.This conversation might just expand your ideas about what you're capable of creating, too! Kelsey will be guesting in Welling on November 5th, helping us all learn how to also create anything we want in our own AI journey as well. Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.

What if making the best choices in your life isn't just about knowing WHAT to do… but also knowing WHEN to do it?In today's episode of The Lively Show, I'm sharing something I've developed from years of working with clients on some of the biggest choices of their lives: The Magic Choices Method! ✨So often, we try to figure everything out with our minds, weighing the pros and cons, asking for advice (from friends or AI), and trying to make the most responsible decision possible.But what if your Inner Voice has a much bigger perspective on what's possible for you?And what if the timing of your choices is just as important as the choices themselves?Want to get better at making Magic Choices in your own life? Here are two ways to explore this work:💕 Inner Voice Essentials — $97Join me for three live classes on October 26, 28 & 30, where we'll practice hearing our Inner Voices more clearly, telling them apart from our minds, and clearing the emotional beanbags that can cloud our answers.Learn more: bellalively.com/innervoiceessentials🍌 Magic Choices Decision-Making Sessions — $97Have a particular choice you're navigating? My newly certified Inner Voice Facilitator Training (IVFT) graduates are offering $97 private, one-hour sessions to help you work directly with your Inner Voice on your specific situation.To request a session, find the Google form through the link in my Instagram bio: @bella.rose.lively.You can choose either experience (or both)! See what feels aligned for you right now.May something wonderful happen to you today! 💕Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.

Today, on my birthday, I started reflecting on what happened after I stopped over-capacitating for others... giving more of my time, energy, and support than felt truly aligned.Over the last year and a half, I've stepped back from relationships that no longer felt reciprocal (as directed by my inner voice). And while that created space for something beautiful to enter my life, like G(!), it also left some... emptiness.Today I'm sharing my realization about boundaries, reciprocity, and what happens when we feel ready to welcome new connections into the space we've created.Plus, join me for a free Alignment Session to enjoy the high vibes or get direction in any area you're feeling "stuck" on October 21 at bellalively.com/alignmentsessions.Let's go to the show!Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.

In today's Flow Diaries, I'm sharing a little epiphany I've had over the last 24 hours about Welling, Inner Voice, and what happened when I thought I was moving on... only to realize something different was actually happening.I'm sharing how this realization is changing the direction of Welling, what it has to do with TLS, and how sometimes we need to step back from something to discover how it reemerges in our lives in a new way.Feeling stuck in your life too? Join me for a free Inner Voice Alignment Session on October 9th or 21st: bellalively.com/alignmentsessionsLet's go to the show!Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.

What happens when you leave a life you’ve mastered and suddenly find yourself a beginner all over again?In this episode, I’m bringing back a subject I haven’t shared in years, things I’m afraid to tell you.There are things in my business, personal life with G and the kids, my finances, and more that have had me feeling stuck in the past few months. Instead of hiding those things, I want to share them with you.This is an episode about humility, starting over, feeling stuck, letting yourself be a beginner, and choosing to be transparent before you have it all perfectly figured out.Let's go to the show.Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.

What if your business has a Human Design chart of its own, and understanding it could change the way you work, launch, grow, and make money?In this episode, I sit down with spiritual teacher and Soul Blueprint founder Allyson Scammell to explore the Human Design of a business. We unpack how to determine your business's “birth” date and time, the three parts of its chart Allyson believes are most useful to understand, and what can happen when your personal design and your business's design are completely different.Using myself and Welling as a real-time case study, we explore Welling's design, and how my own design complements it.Then the conversation takes an unexpectedly practical turn: projector businesses versus generator businesses, boom-and-rest revenue cycles, passive income, advertising, partnerships, team energetics, and Allyson's fascinating strategy of paying “super affiliates” for leads (instead of giving that money to Meta).Whether you're building a business, signature offer, podcast, or creative body of work, this episode offers a completely different way to ask: What if your business already knows how it wants to grow? Allyson will be a guest in today's September 8th Welling event. Bring your business' Human Design chart and let's dive into how to co-create with your business's HD type (or catch the replay in the Wellinging Library). Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.

Join us September 2nd for Welling’s Welcome Open House as we flow into a new season! See what Welling is all about, as well as what new products and experiences are coming over the next three months. The open house is free and everyone is welcome, visit Welling.co and enter your email address in the pop-up to receive the details.Now onto today's show, what if the way you’ve been marketing your business isn’t quite meeting what your clients want *now?*In this episode, I’m joined by business astrologer and marketing strategist Sheri Moise to explore a new era of marketing—and what she sees resonating with buyers over the next 18 months.Drawing on 25 years in corporate sales and marketing, Sheri shares her astrological perspective on the shift from guru-led business to what she calls the “guide by your side” era. We explore what this could mean for your offers, messaging, and customer experience—and how to evolve without rebuilding your entire business.We also discuss using astrological seasons to spark fresh content ideas, what your personal and business birth charts can reveal about how you work, and Sheri’s outlook for launches through the rest of 2026. Along the way, we explore how to bring these insights into your business without getting lost in overthinking or overriding your own inner voice.For coaches, creatives, healers, and entrepreneurs, this conversation offers a fresh lens on connecting with the people you’re here to serve.Sheri will also join us inside Welling on September 10th to explore how to apply these ideas to our own businesses!Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.

Dana Shultz built one of the internet’s most recognizable food brands, Minimalist Baker, grew an audience of nearly two million people, and created a wildly successful business at the height of the blogging era.Then, slowly, she began stepping away.In this conversation, Dana and I reconnect 10+ years after we last sat down together to talk about what happened after the success story most people saw from the outside.We get into the hidden mechanics that helped Minimalist Baker grow, why social media was never actually the primary driver of the business, what it felt like to become highly visible online as a sensitive person, and why choosing a quieter, more private life eventually felt more aligned than continuing to grow something that had already “worked.”We also talk about divorce, identity, AI changing the internet, the pressure to turn ourselves into personal brands, and the strange idea that ending or outgrowing something somehow means it failed.Dana has lived on both sides of the internet dream — and this is a fascinating conversation about success, change, intuition, and what happens when the life that once fit you no longer does.Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.

The Beauty of AI Mastermind begins tomorrow (Tuesday, August 4) and G will be making a special appearance inside the experience. It’s free for Welling members, including anyone who joins for $55/month, or it can be purchased separately at BellaLively.com/beautyofai.In today’s episode, G is coming to TLS to answer the questions you sent in about our relationship, our story, and what it’s really like to be partnered with someone (me!) whose life and work are so deeply connected to spirituality and the Inner Voice.We talk about what G believes personally, where our perspectives overlap, where they differ, and how we’ve learned to honor both perspectives.He also shares what he loves most about me, his perspective on how we came together, and what made this relationship feel different from the beginning.And we go deeper into dating: the importance of becoming honest about what you genuinely want,and trusting that choosing more consciously is very different from holding out for an imaginary version of perfection.It’s an intimate, funny, and very honest conversation about love, compatibility, belief, and what can happen when you stop settling for relationships that are almost right.Join the Beauty of AI Mastermind: BellaLively.com/beautyofai or via Welling.Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.