GLD 456 - The Slippery Slope Of Self-Sabotage

Now that we have your attention, what is the best episode of the GLD in the 10 years of this show? We're glad you asked! Think you don't have a sure-fire path to find love? Now you do! The Debate Team lays out the 23 Questions That Matter - everything you need to ask, learn, and share to find the spark, click, chemistry, and connection you are looking for. Whether it's your first date or your longtime partner, you will learn, laugh, and love!

Are we our own worst-enemies? Marketing maven (and self-defense specialist!) Kelly Reeves joins The Debate Team to talk about how to protect without shutting out, being vigilant in advance, not letting the past affect the present, putting forward your best self, and much, much more. Plus, can a non-negotiable actually be...negotiable?

Why have our dates turned so deadly boring? Brian breaks down our inability to connect, why restaurants sound differently, the worst questions to ask, the best way to react, how society needs to change, and why Applebee's may have all the answers!

Are things on TV not always what they appear? "Charisma Quotient" host (and GLD Lead Love Guru!) Kimmy Seltzer returns to break down why The Bachelor doesn't work, why the love landscape has changed, breaking down barriers, the differences in dating as we age, what's next on the relationship horizon, and much, much more!

Are you more in control of your dating fate than you believe? "Monarch For Love" host Michelle Hays stops by to reveal how to recognize love, ways to be strong in your choices, learning to love yourself, the path to releasing the past, why the third time can be the charm, the key to communication, and much, much more!

Is there value in reconsidering your ex? Brian breaks down the Boomerang Effect, why sometimes situations change, how growth is possible, why red flags might be false flags, how long is too long, the barriers to re-entry, and when to just say no!

Why do we like our love mixed with laughs? "Film Fury" host Alan Zeitlin drops by to talk about what makes a leading man, the ladies who made us laugh, the films we remember forever, the lines we quote, the ingredients we need, and the best of the best when it comes to romantic comedies!

Want to know what's really going on with you...and everyone you date? MTV's renowned "Love Doc" Dr. Gilda Carle stops by to talk about how to strategize your best relationships, what's changed over the last 3 decades of dating, her suprising source of romantic inspriation, what men and women need to do better, and much, much more!

How much does height matter in 2024?  Brian breaks down what's missing from the conversation, the true statistics, why playing the odds matters, being truthful about your reality, where to find real confidence, and much, much more!

Can jumping the gun shoot down a possible romance? The Debate Team cracks open a fresh batch of Listener Letters, and takes on relationships that went too fast too soon! First date overkill, dog park disasters, vengeful friends, loose lips sinking ships, abnormal name games, and much, much more!