31. Your thoughts about yourself.

Today I am talking about uncertainty. We have some outcomes we are waiting for in the country, and people get very anxious when we are faced with this kind of uncertainty. You will learn why that it, what you are really afraid of when you don’t know what the result will be, and how you can move forward even if you never get the answer you are waiting for.

If you are a dance teacher or an athletic coach you have probably heard the question, “where is this supposed to hurt?” Well, in today’s episode I am talking about purposeful pain vs. pain with no purpose. The truth is there is no progress without discomfort. If you are comfortable you are not growing. But, there is a difference between the kind of pain that is a warning sign, whether physically or emotionally, and the kind that is required to reach our goals.

In this episode I am talking about what it takes to become a master at something. What does it mean to have achieved excellence, and how do we get there? What you will learn: The four stages of knowing What Neuroplasticity is, and how it affects what you learn and how you learn it. The role your thoughts play in all of this. Hope you enjoy. And it you are looking to take a deeper dive into anything you hear on the podcast book a consult to find out how we can work together. https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=20286746

This week I talk to you about worth vs. value. I have had too many conversations with people that confuse the two. And it is wreaking havoc on their financial lives. The good news is that you can clean all of this up, and once you do, you will be on the road to making more money than you even know what to do with if that is what you want.  Most of us believe that others determine our worth. But it's not true. We are 100% worthy of love, joy, happiness, and all that other good stuff just because we are a human living on this planet.  We conflate our economic value with our self worth, and that screws us over every time. You are not your accomplishments, and what someone is willing to pay you means nothing about your worthiness.  Listen today to discover the difference between worth/worthiness and economic value. This one idea can change the entirety of your life.

Today I am open up the door on a conversation about money. What are your thoughts about money? Do you think money is inherently good or bad? I am going to share how your thoughts about money affect your current financial situation, and what you can do to change your relationship with money.

Who are you? How you answer this question makes up your identity. What do you think about when you think of yourself. In todays show I am expanding on last weeks topic around how we see ourselves. We get to define ourselves in whatever way we want. But be careful about what you say to yourself about yourself because it affects how you show up un the world and the results you are able to create.

In today's episode I am pulling apart the "starving artist" narrative we have been fed our entire lives. These kinds of ideas permeate our culture and posit that living as an artist, while enjoyable, is no way to make a "good' living. Whatever that means. So, the question is, do you identify as a starving artist? Do you believe you have to sacrifice for your art? Do you think that the only way to make money as an artist is to "sell out"? If you have thought any of these things you have to listen to today's episode. 

In todays episode I am welcoming a very special guest, Lauren Adams. Lauren is an accomplished Master teacher and highly sought after choreographer and has been teaching for the top conventions in the world for the past 20 years. She is also my best friend. We are sitting down to discuss her latest creative endeavor her virtual workshop series Activate. We discuss how Activate came to be, what it is evolving into and our very exaciting up and coming collaboration with Martha Nichols. If you love to talk dance, art, nature and reality TV you are going to love this conversation. Enjoy!  Mentioned in the episode:  Mark Nepo - The Book Of Awakening  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0089XJS8K/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 Rainer Maria Rilke  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001NGN28C/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 The Last Tycoon  https://www.amazon.com/The-Last-Tycoon-Season-1/dp/B01G98ZPQU

In the current climate a lot of us are wondering what the trajectory of our careers looks like. This has driven people to look for alternative ways to make money while we wait for the world to balance out into a new normal. Today I am talking about how you already have everything you need right now to make money as your own boss. You are your side hustle. Don’t let someone else decide what your financial future holds. Additional resources:  https://www.amyporterfield.com https://www.rosinaandrews.co.uk/pirouettesurgery

On today’s episode I am talking about how to get things done faster. This is the final episode in this series I have been doing on how to get stuff done. And if you have been following along and have been getting clearer on how to identify your why and find the commitment to take massive action this tool is going to be the key to how to get things done faster and throw out that to do list.