We Need to Talk About Shame

Trigger Warning. This is one reason women suffer in life & business. We need more representation of women of color earning high income because of this one thing that keeps non-minority women seen as “powerful”. When women of color think non-minority women are more powerful or more strategic they will always find shame around hiring their own. They will always hire and network from this internalized shame that POC can’t be premium. Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/iamninahayes

I’m no longer speaking for free. It’s been an amazing five years of evolution. Thank you for listening. Message me on IG to work and/or enjoy the content before it’s archived. Instagram: @iamninahayes

Doing things for others out of a fear of abandonment is not service. Let’s discuss building business that supports a premium lifestyle without the hustle, sacrifice or misaligned clients. http://www.Instagram.com/iamninahayes

The playing field has evened. Will you follow the crowd or will you rise?

One of the tests of a powerful women is if she allows life to bully her. And if she can stand up to protect the things she has built even if it means removing access to it. If she fails she wasn’t in her power and she goes back to settling for what she can. Instagram: @iamninahayes

When you decide enough is enough of settling, the ones you settled for, catered to and coddled the most will call you villain. Welcome back to a new season. Let’s connect:Instagram: @iamninahayes

It’s easy to look at someone’s uneasiness to invest with us and take it as a sign to lower the cost of entry. I challenge you to allow people to rise to the occasion. http://linktr.ee/elitemastery

At some point, others using criticism and shame doesn’t fuel you the way to push the way it did in the beginning. You’re making the money now yet it doesn’t feel sustainable anymore to keep pulling success. By now it should attract more easily. Let’s discuss a hurdle to break past ASAP to see your most aligned season. http://linktr.ee/elitemastery

By 2030, women will be the highest earning group. Women naturally seek community and when this community is used as a money grab, it’s quite easy for a woman to fall into the trap of it being her church, her idol or her savior. The more she earns, the more she seeks refuge and support. When this woman learns herself she is less likely to become trapped. http://linktr.ee/elitemastery

The people pleaser was always there to answer your texts, pick up your call, help you in a short notice and never itemize their assistance. But now they realize you don’t get rewards for always being available without requirement. The people pleaser is moving on.