#255 - Straight Men in the Adult Industry: Can It Be Done without Being a Creep? with Wolfgang White

On the very LAST episode of Stripped by SIA, I invite erotic massage parlour owners, Emily and Riley Muse of MUSE Massage Spa onto the show to speak about sensual massages. As both of them are former SWers in erotic massages, the duo were unlikely business partners having started off as colleagues and then later coming up with the idea together to open up their own massage parlour. They opened up MUSE after wanting to disrupt the massage industry in Toronto having worked in the field themselves. We discuss popular offerings, client requests and asks, and how they have seen the industry change over the years. I had to go out with a Big Bang and have these ladies on as my last guests.Thank you ALL who have listened to even just one episode, those who have been there from the start, every single guest, every Patreon member, every brand new baby SWer and those who have been well-seasoned in this industry... Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for listening over the past 6 years, 8 seasons and 290 episodes later...I'm closing this chapter (of podcasting, not SW or advocacy!) of my life and looking forward to what 2026 will be bringing. Thank you to everyone who I've met this industry and hope to stay connected and see you all at other community events!- Sia

This week, Noah from LegalFans and I discuss the challenges of content leaks and piracy in the adult industry. We explore the importance of protecting intellectual property, navigating DMCA laws, and the steps creators can take to safeguard their content. Noah shares insights on how LegalFans helps creators combat leaks and the significance of brand protection. The conversation also touches on the broader implications of content ownership and the need for awareness among creators about the risks involved in content creation.

Folks, we're in the final stretch now! This week, we dive into the topic of intimacy coordination in both adult and mainstream media. Guest Brooke M. Haney, an intimacy coordinator for film and television as well as the adult industry, shares insights into the role of intimacy coordinators, emphasizing the significance of consent, safety, and the evolving landscape of performance in the wake of the Me Too movement. The conversation explores power dynamics, protocols for safety, and the intersection of adult film and mainstream media, highlighting the need for transparency and communication on set. In this conversation, Brooke discusses the complexities of intimacy coordination in performance art, emphasizing the importance of consent, especially when working with minors. We explore the need for specialization within the field and the significance of including diverse voices, particularly from marginalized communities. The discussion also highlights the historical context of intimacy professionals and the necessity for authenticity in storytelling, particularly in the representation of sex work. The conversation concludes with insights on connecting with audiences and the evolving landscape of intimacy coordination in both mainstream and adult entertainment.

Very excited to welcome Serenity Cox, an adult content creator and hot wife, to discuss her journey in the adult industry, the dynamics of hot-wifing, and the importance of communication in relationships. Serenity shares her transition from nursing to adult content creation, the challenges of balancing two careers, and the impact of stigma and outing on personal relationships. The conversation also delves into the differences between professional and amateur content creation, and Serenity's future projects and aspirations in the industry.

In this episode, we welcome our guest, Wolfgang White, an adult content creator, to discuss his journey in the adult industry, the challenges faced by straight men in porn, and the importance of destigmatizing sex work. Wolfgang shares his experiences transitioning from wanting to collaborate to creating his own content, exploring fetishes, and the business side of adult entertainment. The conversation also touches on family dynamics regarding coming out, the social responsibility of adult content, and the unique perspectives within the industry.

Returning guest, AM Davies of YAS Work and I chat about the implications within the sex work community. We explore the hierarchy that exists among different types of sex workers, the impact of coded language used by society and policymakers, and the challenges faced in securing funding for sex work advocacy. In this conversation, Steph Sia and AMD discuss various aspects of sex work, including the stale jokes surrounding it, the importance of autonomy and education, the complexities of empowerment, and the impact of whorephobia on society. They also touch on the need for professionalism in sex work, the importance of consultation and collaboration, and the relationship between pole dancing and whorephobia. The conversation emphasizes the need for recognition of the origins of dance and the importance of supporting sex workers.

In this episode of Stripped by Sia, we welcome back Maya Romero, a survivor of human trafficking and a successful adult industry performer. They discuss Maya's journey of healing, coping mechanisms, and the importance of community support. Maya shares her insights on navigating the adult industry safely, the distinction between empowerment and exploitation, and the complexities of being a survivor. The conversation emphasizes the importance of trusting one's instincts, setting boundaries, and advocating for oneself in a self-governing industry. Maya's story serves as an inspiration for resilience and empowerment, highlighting that healing can coexist with a successful career in sex work.

And we are BACK with the final season of the show, y'all. Yes, the show is officially coming to an end this year. It was a fantasti 6+ year run and like all good things, must come to an end.Joining me on this last leg of the podcast is Elizabeth Fields, a SWer based in Vancouver, Canada. Elizabeth brings to us an important topic: the ability to see red flags within our own industry. The adult industry is not immune to bad players, even if they are or appear to be one of this. Predators come in all shapes and sizes -- in the form of photographers, collaborators, agents, and organizations. Elizabeth and I take the hour to discuss what red flags you should be looking out for -- seasoned SWer or not -- and best practices on how to avoid and to keep yourself safe.

On the last episode of Season 7, I invite Max Chabanel, a former corporate executive turned companion, to discuss the intricacies of the Fly Me To You (FMTY) service in the adult industry. We explore Max's journey from corporate life to sex work, the dynamics of traveling with clients, and the importance of setting boundaries and expectations. The conversation emphasizes the need for clear communication, understanding personal limits, and navigating intimacy during extended bookings. Max shares valuable insights and tips for both companions and clients, highlighting the realities of FMTY beyond the glamor. In this conversation, we also discuss the intricacies of being a travel companion, focusing on client expectations, setting boundaries, and the importance of self-care. We delve into how to manage personal energy, set appropriate rates, and navigate travel logistics while ensuring safety. The dialogue emphasizes the need for clear communication and mutual understanding between companions and clients to foster a positive experience.Follow Max below:https://x.com/maxchabanellinktr.ee/maxchabanelPS: Group is a proud sponsor of Stripped by SIA. Needing a new website? Branding? Video? Contact us at ⁠⁠⁠www.wearepsgroup.com⁠⁠⁠Connect with me below:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://strippedbysia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast

Very excited to bring on Pepper Kat, a cam girl and podcast host, to discuss the complexities of emotional connectivity and relationships within the sex work industry. They explore themes of male loneliness, the changing landscape of relationships, and the blurred lines between intimacy and transactional interactions. The conversation delves into the impact of technology on connection, the challenges of setting boundaries, and the societal pressures faced by men today. In this conversation, we also delve into the complexities of sex work, discussing the emotional labor involved, the stigma faced, and the importance of personalization in adult content. We explore the shifting power dynamics in the industry, emphasizing the need for clear boundaries and ethical considerations when interacting with clients. The discussion highlights the necessity of understanding the emotional needs of clients while maintaining a safe and respectful environment for sex workers.Follow Pepper Kat below:https://www.pepperkat.comPS: Group is a proud sponsor of Stripped by SIA. Needing a new website? Branding? Video? Contact us at ⁠⁠www.wearepsgroup.com⁠⁠Connect with me below:⁠⁠⁠https://strippedbysia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast