Defining Disregard and Discerning DARVO

As more of us return to a closer connection with the earth, she wants us to remember why.illuMNature is a guided somatic practice that brings inner relationship healing and harmony through skills we learn in relationship with our natural world.If you’d like to bring the illuMNature experience to your group or team, contact Kate for details.Interested in developing the skills for inner relationship healing?The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is available here.Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting this work. 🫶Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com

Is a relationship bad or unsafe if it feels uncomfortable?Sometimes.And sometimes it’s just holding up a mirror so we can see what we haven’t been brave enough to look at within ourselves yet.This episode clarifies how to know the difference. ❤️‍🩹Interested in learning to see the difference between past and present danger?The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is available here.Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting this work. 🫶Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com

A pattern of disregard is one of the most socially acceptable ways to get away with neglect in a relationship. “I didn’t do anything” is both the excuse and the point. Without saying a word, withholding expression of care can extinguish the spirit of our loved one.But is someone disregarding us if they’re simply trying to conserve their time and energy?This episode brings clarity about what disregard actually is, why this behavior destroys otherwise healthy relationships, and the alternatives to denying that it’s hurtful.Interested in learning the emotional mechanics behind expressing and withholding care?The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is available here.Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting this work. 🫶Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com

Your mother wound didn’t come from a gender role played by a parent.It came from being severed from your connection with Mother Energy. When this connection was severed, you lost your fuel source – and you became powerless to change anything.But this connection can be healed and restored – whether it involves a parent or not. And healing this wound is the key to everything you wish was different in the world.If you want to understand the emotional mechanics behind healing energetic wounds,The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is available here.Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting my work!Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com

Feeling the urge to purge and declutter – physically, mentally, virtually, systemically?You’re among many who are waking up to their multi-dimensionality right now and realizing the old containers can no longer hold their full being. The old forms have served their purpose. It’s time to clear everything out and make space for new forms that finally allow you the freedom to exist in your full Luminessence. But once you realize how much of your 3D life is tied to toxic ways of being in relationships and oppressive ways of being in the world… purging the old can be overwhelming, to say the least.How do you let go of so much that you’ve depended on for so long? Have a seat, my friend, because that’s what this episode unravels! I never set out to be an expert on this topic, but here we are.If you’d like to know how to distinguish the old from the new,The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is available here.Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting my work.Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com

A few nights ago, I had a dream in which I was shown the true essence of divine feminine-masculine union.It was so beautiful!I was given three clear elements that are needed for sustainable, healthy union: Wound. Worth. Want to move forward.Absorb this picture into your heart. This is the partnership you deserve! 💞If you’d like to know how to heal and harmonize your inner feminine and masculine energies,The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is available here.Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting my work.Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com

Have you lost everything? Then you’re in the perfect spot to self-actualize.Knowing what the hell you’re here for – despite the world crashing down around you – is everything.Savor the confidence you’ve found in this knowing – because you might not always not have stuff. 😉If you want to understand the emotional mechanics that liberate Luminessence,The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is available here.Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting my work.Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com

It’s not just abusive people who don’t like boundaries. We’ve all had someone in our life who guards their time, energy, and resources more than we do. We don’t like it. It hurts. We feel rejected.So what do you do when you don’t agree with someone’s boundary – especially if you know it’s coming from perceived limitation or fear?In the old paradigm, we’re conditioned to negotiate, convince, and even shame each other when we don’t understand or agree with their choices.Because of this, respecting others’ boundaries and limitations is a skill that all of us need to practice. This may require radical acceptance, self-compassion, and embodying a new role in your relationship.If you’d like to understand more about your own attachment orientation with yourself and others,The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is available here.Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting my work.Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com

The problem of entitled, manipulative, domineering humans is becoming glaringly obvious in the public square.But the energy of entitlement to other people’s bodies, rights, energy, resources, and time is something that we’ve all been conditioned to uphold and normalize.How do we change this?We have to be clear on our own boundaries and willing to enforce them – but this doesn’t look the same in every relationship.In this episode, I’m identifying three types of relationships with people who won’t take “no” for an answer – and what you can do when that happens.If you’d like to understand how emotional receiving and giving can be restored within yourself and in the world,The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is available here.Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting my work.Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com

As this investigation is reopened, most people are thinking about timeframes, outcomes, and accountability. Just as importantly, we need to look at why such behavior happens in the first place. As atrocity is exposed, we need to see and understand the energetics underneath it.Because the systemic issue that normalizes the violation of humanity is NOT:* a lack of common sense* a lack of understanding consent* a lack of basic understanding of right and wrongThe systemic issue is which energies we’ve chosen to value and devalue.In this episode, I’m sharing why our collective energetic attachment healing is absolutely essential to ending the normalization of egregious harm to women and all humans.If you’d like to understand the Theory of Emotional Evolution and how to restore energetic harmony within yourself and in the world,The Energetic Blueprint of Emotional Evolution is now available!Ready to build new paradigms from the inside out?Get on the list for Emotional Evolution Academy.Did this message resonate with you?Please Like, Share, and Comment on this post to help spread the message of emotional evolution. 🌔Subscribe to get Messages Under the Moon delivered to your inbox.Thank you for supporting my work.Rising with you,Kate This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit somaticluminary.substack.com