Episode 23: Overstaying visas

Welcome back! In this episode we talk huge life updates before a recent story where Caitlin helped her friend escape a narcissistic abuser. We talk about being forced to sleep on the floor and how a lot of the small rules turned into big things like… being forced to sleep on the floor. We talk about what it was like to leave and the feeling building up to the decision to leave. We delve into the outcome of Naomi’s charges against Dick. We also talk about how Ann truly saved Caitlin’s life by providing normalcy and how you can help a friend in the same situation.

It’s almost impossible to be an illegal immigrant in Norway… This episode Caitlin talks about how she committed immigration fraud under duress… multiple times. Follow us on TikTok or Instagram @silencedat21

In this episode we delve into the lead up to and the night Caitlin escaped and her first week after the first breakup. Follow us on TikTok or Insta at @silencedat21 for updates on new episodes and more. You can answer our question on Spotify, or DM us on insta or TikTok.

We finish Naomi’s story about when she transferred her savings back to herself right before she left and Dick found out. Plus more financial stuff in general and how suddenly we were living in a web of lies.

Follow us on TikTok or Insta for updates on new episodes and more. If you've been in an abusive relationship, are you ever left with the feeling of "was I the problem?" or "was it really that bad?". Both Caitlin and Naomi have these thoughts from time to time, and we are so glad we have each other to talk to when it comes to that doubt. This episode we cover a story of when Naomi had enough of Dick's rage, Its a story of being so scared your sure your gonna die but for some reason you still just stand your ground! You can answer our question on Spotify, or DM us on insta or TikTok.

Follow us on TikTok or Insta for updates on new episodes and more. This episode editing Naomi is back, yay! Caitlin has done an amazing job while I was fucked up, lots of love to her 🥰 We have some major updates, even tho we don't deep dive in to it. This episode we talk about how we are not able to portray how scared, lonely and trapped we felt, we talk a little bit about the trial that was supposed to start this week and there are some updates on what is happening in real time. xx

In this episode Naomi talks about how she was forced to do one of the hardest things in her life completely alone… while ensuring Dick was ok (and had his lunch delivered to him of course). Retrospectively family and friends praised Dick for “being by her side”… but like anything with Dick except a gynecologist appointment… Naomi was alone. Follow us on TikTok or Instagram @silencedat21 (you guys are lagging on IG 🫶)

In this episode we delve into the stressful day to day life of seeming normal to the outside world WHILE pleasing Dick… which is pretty impossible. Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @silencedat21

In this episode we talk about some more strange rules and goings on in our relationships with Dick as well as talk more about covering up his nocturnal lifestyle to seem like a healthy relationship to family and friends. Follow us on TikTok or Instagram @silencedat21

Follow us on TikTok or Insta for updates on new episodes and more. Episode 15 we get more in to Dick's abusive rage, how he physically abused us and specific episodes that we remember. We are both having a hard time putting some of it to words, but we where scared for our lives and some times believed "this is the end for me". If this is not the day for you, skip this episode, this is and extra trigger warning. Also, Naomi sounds tired because she was.. The recording is from 2am Norwegian time.. way past my bed time.