49. All Aboard

In this episode we are invited into Sangodare’s sermon on relationship as an “advanced course”. They describe how their and Alexis’ life callings are are complementary and emphasize that community work should match the capacities, styles, skills, and personhood present, like mutualistic exchange in a mycorrhizal forest, and name culture, club, and campus as ways to remember, accompany, and create a home for practice.Devotion In The DetailsOracle And ExegesisCapacity Meets CallingForest Of MutualismIf you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipBecause love is living with purpose, join us for our next Chrysalis Cohort this Memorial Day Weekend! More info here: https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/BLnEjAB2/checkoutAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts

In their 50th episode and one-year podcastiversary, Sangodare and Alexis explore the idea of navigation as facilitation  in relationships and gatherings. Using Harriet Tubman they emphasize orienting to deeper values when maps fail, practicing dynamic navigation, and remembering that a detour is not necessarily a departure. They note their upcoming 18th anniversary and share exciting plans for future community gatherings and guest conversations.Spacious FacilitationHarriet Tubman and channelled NavigationDynamic Detours and MiraclesIf you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipBecause love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfoAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts

On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare introduce the loveship pillar practice “All Aboard,” describing relationship as a sacred container where all ages, parts, and messy or activated versions of self are welcome. They define ‘homefulness’ and offer journal prompts to help you discern what you’re inviting into your intimate space and what you’re letting go of. They offer 3 North Stars and close out announcing the Durham revival gathering on Sept. 13 at 11:00 AM at Northstar Church of the Arts.‘All Aboard’ PracticeExploring HomefulnessHonouring what helps us feel at HomeIf you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipBecause love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfoAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts

On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare discuss the literal, social and spiritual impacts of physical nourishment. They explore the idea that nourishment comes in many forms and how proper or improper physical nourishment affects how they show up in relationship. They discuss how food is a conduit to getting our needs met, and emphasize the self-care inherent to meeting this requirement.Nourishment Comes in Many FormsWhen Hangry Enters, Geniality ExitsPersonal Nourishment PracticesIf you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipBecause love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfoAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts

This episode’s core teaching is valuing the creative power of difference, with hosts Sangodare and Alexis drawing on Audre Lorde’s “Difference and Survival” to frame differences as polarities that spark possibility, expanded choice, collective flourishing, and a living Earth. They discuss how differences in gender expression and money stories can create dissonance but also curiosity, intimacy, and growth, and they offer three “North Stars” to help reframe difference as a sensuous experience to get curious about rather than a pain to overcome.Difference in LoveshipDissonance and GrowthGetting Curious about the GapIf you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipBecause love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfoAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts

On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare.  This episode is an instagram live about relationships as spiritual practice that Alexis and Sangodare did to celebrate the ONE MONTH COUNTDOWN to their 18th anniversary in Loveship!  There are great questions and lots of silliness.  Enjoy!If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipBecause love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfoAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts

On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare ask listeners to notice what experiences sustain versus deplete. A story about an upgraded all-inclusive resort in St. Lucia comically illustrates how what looks valuable may not be nourishing. They offer journaling prompts, share three “North Stars” about nourishment, and announce Sangodare’s wedding officiating plus the September Chrysalis Experience retreat and virtual cohort.Nourishment In LoveDiscerning what depletes vs. replenishesConnection over extractionIf you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipBecause love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfoAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts

On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare discuss how grace, generosity, clear communication of needs, and non-judgment help them stay on the same team when neurodivergence, grief, or overwhelm makes tasks hard. They share an Audre Lorde excerpt about labor, love, fun, and purpose. They offer three “North Stars” and announce registration for the September Chrysalis Experience cohort during their 18th anniversary weekend.Household roles and nonjudgementGrace and GenerosityNaming NeedsWhen Sangodare says “God is the source of our supply,” they are quoting Rev. Edwene Gaines an author and minister who spoke at Agape Spiritual Center. When Sangodare says “even my errors are correct” they are referencing Nikki Giovanni’s poem “Ego Tripping.”When Alexis says “inherently valuable” she is always referencing the 1977 Combahee River Collective Statement. If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipBecause love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfoAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts

On this mini episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare offer a clip from a live episode in the spring about using your voice. Because love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfoIf you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts

On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare challenge the idea of separation across time, using Jewelle Gomez’s Black lesbian feminist vampire novel The Gilda Stories as a sacred text about kinship and multi-lifetime impact. They share three of their own practices for “living beyond one lifetime.” They offer three “North Stars” and announce registration for the September Chrysalis Experience cohort and retreat.Shared Ancestral Practice and AltarsBlack LGBTQ Movement Legacy: Mobile HomecomingUnderstanding Life Purpose Beyond our LifetimesIf you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you. For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Herehttps://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveshipBecause love is living with purpose, join us for our second Chrysalis Cohort this September! More info here:https://www.blackfeministfilmschool.com/offers/oKhBLdfoAnd connect with us on the channels below!RESOURCES https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH USFacebookInstagramWebsiteProduced by Wowow Podcasts